Ask for help, what to do when you meet a shrew like mother in law

If she is really unreasonable, you still have to discuss it calmly with your husband, and don't let your mood affect your relationship for a long time.

Don't live together, ask your husband to come forward and live separately, it's better to let them go back to their hometown, and you stay in a hotel or a friend's house until they go back.

Apologize first! Frankly ask your mother-in-law what you want to do, try to be satisfied. If you can't do it, you will be in trouble.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will not get better at any time, and it is better to live separately, so as not to affect the life of the two people.

Separate, ignore her, and don't be afraid of her.

No need to ask, she wants to divorce you more than you. You're going to have a hard time in the future.

At least your husband helps you.

Family issues shouldn't be asked online, and we're afraid of misleading your life. Here's my personal opinion:

In the usual way, she complained to her father-in-law and mother-in-law, explained the situation, and asked them to enlighten her. Once it didn't work, the second time it was directly magnified, if she is still like this, then we can only divorce. Show that disdain, and don't care about children.

Although you are worried about affecting the children, don't show it, let them see your dedication, and they will really treat it with heart.

Extreme way (my own way).

A man should have the spirit of a man, and a man should respect his wife, but he should not be afraid of his wife. If it were me, I would be mad at him, and the voice must be overpowered. When it's okay, find fault with her more, take the opportunity to yell at her more, roar too much, and if the momentum can be suppressed, she won't dare to be arrogant anymore, pick a thorn and roar, she will have no confidence to quarrel with you.

This is also because you have been used to it for a long time, and she has to make inches. As long as you can scare her once or twice and let him see how terrible you are, she will be much more honest. No matter how afraid a man is of his wife, he can't let his wife scold his parents at will, it will make his parents feel cold.

If there is really no way, it is best to choose divorce, find another one, and raise the child by himself. Without divorce, in such a family environment, children will rebel and learn badly.

To be honest, don't think that your wife will change, it's impossible, either you just endure living with her like this, or divorce her as soon as possible, otherwise your life will be sad.

Now there are too many such women, short-tempered, selfish, and unreasonable characters are their specialties, and there are too few good women.

Brothers! Take care!

If you are a wrecked man, then you can only continue to live with your anger! If you are still a normal man, you should divorce this shrew without hesitation, immediately, immediately!

If he was grumpy at the time and had to face various things after getting married, he would be under a lot of pressure and would be more willing to lose his temper and have less contact with your family if he didn't get along well. Don't escalate the conflict and try to communicate well. You can usually follow her a little.

In fact, there are too many such people, especially in today's society, where there are more men and fewer women, so if you are used to it, he wants to occupy everything, he wants to talk more about everything, and he wants to control others, so what can be done? It's only okay!

Talk to him. Ask what's going on? What caused him?

This is for you and for your family. Is it a personality reason or what? If it's a character, only slowly, enlighten him, let him change.

But it's hard to have a character, if it's acquired, yes? It was originally this temper. It's really hard to change, if it hadn't been like this before.

Only after marrying you. That should be pretty good at changing.

In order to give your child a complete love, it is recommended that you communicate well, understand and tolerate each other, resolve the contradictions, and make the family and talent prosperous. If the two are unable to resolve the current predicament, they should ask prestigious relatives and friends on both sides to help persuade and reconcile.

You don't have enough to help her share it, your parents' poor health or something is all an excuse, if you can share half of her pressure, she is absolutely gentle and virtuous.

When you meet such a wife, you should feel lucky, that is to care about you, if you don't care about you, then he is too lazy to pay attention to you.

Follow her, shrews are generally external, and you don't have a big man internally, not to mention, why did you go earlier.

Are you on the very weak side of the family, are you not as strong as the woman?

Does the woman have nothing to fear?

If you really can't get by, you can consider getting a divorce so that everyone will be better.

Talk to her seriously and persuade her to change her temper.

The marriage is married, communicate well, and slowly adapt to it......

1.Are you the husband? If yes, I would say that your wife certainly has her bad side, and you should take most of the responsibility yourself.

First of all, I declare that I am a woman and will never favor women. But I think, "If the Son does not teach, the Father is guilty; If the wife does not teach, the husband will be the fault". You should lead by example and give her an example of how you behave.

You must know that freezing three feet is not a day's cold, and her behavior is definitely the result of your long-term example and connivance. Men are the pillars of the family, not only in an economic sense, but more importantly, in a matter of principle.

2.Thirty-six plans to go up. I don't advocate a-for-tat, because I think boys should have the demeanor of a boy - it seems very unfair, but if you behave modestly, you will be looked down upon by others - people don't care if you are dealing with a shrew or not, you just know that you do not maintain the minimum etiquette towards girls.

It's not worth ruining your reputation for the sake of such an unreasonable girl! So, let's still flash people. Endure the calm for a while, take a step back and open the sky, what do you say?

Hold her tight, no matter what she reacts to. You just hold her all the time, and as long as you are patient, she won't get angry.

Just be gentle with her, the more splashed you are, the gentler you have to be.

When you are a little shrewd, the other party thinks that you are not easy to bully, and if you are too weak, it will really make the other party think that you are a very cheap person and do not know how to cherish you.

1.Mother-in-law, sister-in-law, and sister-in-law are natural enemies. 2.

Women are naturally cannibalistic, jealous, and don't like each other, fighting to the death. 3.Women are narrow-minded, sensitive, suspicious, small, have many rights and wrongs, and are competitive and competitive.

4.There are men of the opposite sex in the middle, and women are naturally mentally dependent on men, dependent on all men, such as husbands, sons, brothers, etc., so they exclude other women to join in the possession and grab. 5.

There is a conflict of interest between women who are not related to each other in the family. 6.Bad heart, poor character, strong bullying, bullying the weak and afraid of the hard.

7.Men do not reconcile contradictions, or even exacerbate them. Therefore, it is all a contradiction between women, like a palace fight, affecting the family and even destroying three generations.

Unless women have good character and a big pattern, men will also regulate their relationships, so that they can coexist peacefully and peacefully. If it can't be solved, women have to have less contact with each other and try to avoid conflicts.

Because there are some people who just bully the soft and are afraid of the hard, if you are too good to him, he will bully you, but if you treat him badly, he will be afraid of you, so he will not dare to bully you.

Isn't this just that people are good at being bullied, and horses are good at being ridden? In dealing with this kind of evil mother-in-law, we must not wronged ourselves, but speak for ourselves.

Because the mother-in-law is not used to her daughter-in-law's words and deeds, she is willing to nag a few words, and the daughter-in-law does not like to shut up naturally.

My mother-in-law's morning sickness doesn't care about me, I don't blame her, and then I was about to give birth, and I ate a bowl of vegetable sword beans made by her, and at the New Year's dinner with relatives, I deliberately let everyone know that she bought me a 25 yuan sword bean. I'm not a picky eater, I don't say anything about the shrimp she makes, I just take off the hair and continue to eat, but she always says that I am a picky eater at every New Year's dinner, and my in-laws and relatives have no brains to attack me for being picky eaters. In the future, I really have to defend myself, even if I can't say anything, I have to say it, and I don't say anything about being wronged by being bullied.

Because this mother-in-law is bullying the soft and afraid of the hard, so we must pay attention to ways and means to treat such a mother-in-law, so that we can get along well.

I'm pretty dressed up, and I'm so nice to her. That's because you feel too good to your mother-in-law, but it's not really good.

This is how people get along, but you can't always be oppressive, that will only lead to separation.

In today's society, as long as you are financially and spiritually independent, no one can do anything to you, and your mother-in-law is no exception.

It's not just mothers-in-law, some people just bully the soft and are afraid of the hard.

Yes, indeed, it's weird, I'm a little shrewd, and I'm lying on my stomach, it's so boring, I'm ready for a tug-of-war,

My mother-in-law told me that kind of thing, and I don't know if she's trying to beat me up or if she's suggesting that I'm going to be better than her.

Hide if you can, and hurt less if you don't meet. always wants to rely on the old and sell the old, and make something out of nothing, since this is the case, it is really as she expected, as she wishes. Kindness is treated as a donkey's liver and lungs, and it is not sweet to rub honey on her mouth, so I won't wipe it!

There is a kind of person, called I don't know what to do, you respect her, she is pretending to be a person, you don't exist when she doesn't exist, she is a mother-in-law and mother-in-law, proving that she is terrible, well, just as if she doesn't exist!

What should I do if I meet a shrew's mother-in-law, then I think if you meet a shrew's mother-in-law, then you also have to look at your husband's face, and don't be like her, let her. Bear with me.

If you want to meet an old woman who had a caesarean section, it is really your sorrow, and you must stay away from this kind of mother-in-law and never be with him.

Talk less, do more things, and treat her as air. Don't provoke her, if she doesn't mess with you, let her.

Salute first and then soldiers, respect her first, and use her as air if you are not interested. It's really not good, to be more splashy than her, to show that I'm not afraid of you.

If you meet your mother-in-law, then you must not be too weak, if you are still if he is more and more splashy.

When you meet an unreasonable mother-in-law, try not to live with him.

This is because my temper has come up, so my mother-in-law is very scared when she sees it. On the contrary, I have a good attitude towards myself, so I can't be too weak, and if I am too kind, I will be easily bullied.

Because your mother-in-law knows that you are a person who is not a good bully, she will show favor to you, for fear that if she treats you badly, you will take the opportunity to find her trouble.

Because your mother-in-law is also afraid that you will hurt her, she will change her attitude towards you and dare not provoke you again.

Because your mother-in-law is a bully who is afraid of the hard, if you are more powerful, your mother-in-law will be better to you, otherwise your mother-in-law will have to torture you all the time.

Because most of them are bullying the weak and afraid of the hard, so when you show your strong side, the mother-in-law will also be afraid, so she will change her approach.

There are too many people in reality, you want to respect her and be nice to her, but she doesn't cherish it, but you keep yourself strong, so she doesn't dare to think about bullying people.

It depends on what kind of mother-in-law she is, some of them don't admit defeat, and she can't wait to fall out and divorce her son, so men don't care about themselves, and tricks are useless.

Horses are good at being ridden, and people are good at being bullied by dogs".