How to chat with someone you like without being embarrassed?

I think the most fundamental reason for embarrassment is nervousness, chatting with someone you like is like exploring an unknown world, trembling, walking on thin ice.

I don't know how to say hello, I don't know how to find a topic to chat with, I don't know what he thinks of you, I don't know if he will feel too bored to talk to him.

In fact, he is just an ordinary person, he will also be touched by the care of others, and he will also be happy because he shares a little joke. People are familiar with each other through the exchange of information, and the more they know, the more topics they have, and the more familiar they are with each other. If you don't have anything to talk about, you can talk about some recent movies, the other person's life, and the unhappy things in life, all of which can be used as topics for chat.

In conversation, you should also learn to let go of your baggage, don't pretend, and chat as much as you want, after all, only when you open your heart to the other party, the other party will feel comfortable and open up to yourself. Of course, it is beautiful to be finely crafted, and it takes a certain amount of strength to restore nature, but who wants to bother to talk all day? I'm afraid you don't want to be yourself.

What you need to chat is leisure and comfort. You opened up and chatted with him with a peaceful mind, showing a true self, maybe he likes to be the real you.

Don't specialize yourself, you are a passerby that he sees as usual; Don't make him special, he's the kind of person you admire.

You can use emojis when appropriate, and emojis are one of the best ways to resolve awkward conversations. But memes are also not suitable for excessive use. If it's a voice chat, you can start with the other party's tone and head, and there are many ways to do it.

PS: If you still have an awkward conversation no matter how hard you try and how much you find a topic, either he is born with a cold personality, or he really has no interest in you. My advice is to give up and look for another world.

Talk about topics that interest both of you, so that even if you are nervous and embarrassed at first, the conversation will come naturally.

You can talk about things that you are interested in, and when you talk about it, you will get along with your friends and you won't feel embarrassed.

Just try to talk about things that don't matter, and don't chat in too sensitive places!

Chatting is like squeezing toothpaste. It's embarrassing. Good morning, good evening, clocked in on time, still no response.

I have a lot to say in my heart, but I don't know how to express it to girls. I can't try to chat, but the effect is more embarrassing. How do you avoid awkward situations by talking to someone you like?

1.First of all, when the topic you are talking about cannot continue, you should immediately interrupt and change the topic so as not to awkward the atmosphere.

1) For example, when you are chatting with a girl and find that you can't talk about the topic, don't try to talk hard, try to change the subject. Of course, it's not too abrupt for you to change the scene. Maybe the girls still want to talk to you about this topic. How can they smoothly change the subject?

2) You can leave first and then go to the toilet. For example, you suddenly interrupt me and say, "I have something to deal with right away, I'll talk about it later."

If you're talking to a girl face to face, you can say go to the bathroom first. Leaving is to get out of the state of not being able to talk, but also to relax for both parties.

3) When you're leaving, you can think about what topics you can talk about. You can't think of any good topics. When you go back, you can talk to the girl about what you just dealt with. Of course, this will test your personal screenwriting skills.

4) Of course, this method cannot be used very often. The next method allows you to find a breakthrough in the cold field for 5 seconds and talk to the girl smoothly.

2.This method is a keyword reply method.

1) If you want to chat without feeling cold, you have to learn to master the keywords. You're not afraid that the topic is difficult, but what you're afraid of is that the keywords aren't mastered. As long as you find the key words in the girl's chat words, you can easily chat with hunger.

2) For example, a girl tells you: look at Armani's new red mouth number lately. If you don't know the lipstick number at all, don't talk to her about the color number.

Did you ever try to steal your mother's lipstick as a kid? Don't talk about topics you can't talk about, learn to think outside the box. When you come across unfamiliar topics and topics you can't talk about, you can play with your divergent thinking.

From poems, songs, fu to philosophy of life, as long as you can quietly change the topic.

I don't think it's embarrassing to talk about celebrity gossip, because there are many girls who like to talk about this topic, and many, many girls are star-chasing.

According to the other party's occupation chat, know the other party's occupation first, so that when you communicate, there will be no embarrassment to have nothing to say, and you can also tell the other party about yourself, such as some interesting things about yourself when you were a child, etc.

When you take the initiative to send a message, you can find some topics for the other party, as long as the other party is willing to talk, you will not be too embarrassed.

Don't hail when you start chatting, always show yourself, if the other person is not interested in you, doing this will only make the other person feel more and more boring. You can talk to him about things that happen in real life, and young people know more about things on the Internet, so you can talk about these things quietly.

For example, what hot news happened today, which celebrity was ** something, or the plot worth discussing in a hit TV series, these are all very interesting topics. Learn to chat with both people in areas that interest them, so that they don't have an awkward conversation.

Talk about interesting topics

When you speak, you must express your meaning clearly, and don't always let others guess when you have just met, because the brain circuits of two people are not on the same line, which can easily lead to a series of misunderstandings about you by the other party. Smart people will leave a way for themselves and will not be too full of words, and such an attitude will be more likeable.

Don't always talk about yourself in a chat, but lead the other person to say something that interests them. If you find that the other person's reply is very simple during the chat, try to stop the topic as much as possible, because you will know that the other person is not interested in it. When chatting, you should have a high emotional intelligence, only in this way can you chat better and better.

Talk more about things that the other party is interested in, and don't just use the first person "I" to talk about your own things, know how to respect the topics that the other party says, and don't use a sentence of "um", "ah" and "oh" to perfunctory the other party, and make things hastily. This will make the other party very disgusted and make the chat unable to continue.

When talking to the other party, you should pay attention to your demeanor and body, if you always have a sad face and a gloomy face, the other party may feel that you have no patience to chat, and the other party will change with your mood; If the other person confides in you something and you laugh, you will feel that you are "gloating".

If you're not good at dominating the conversation, then you can act as a listener and show that you're interested in the other person's topic in the chat and keep them out.