What does it mean that you haven t been in love but don t believe in love?

Explain that you are watching too much mess** or too much TV.

Or there are too many failed loves around you that have caused you tarsal effects.

The solution is simple: watch some successful and beautiful love stories or love templates.

Find someone you feel for and try to pursue him.

If you don't believe it, you don't believe it.

Since you don't believe it, why do you want to do so much?

If you don't believe it, leave it behind.

Those who disagree with me will be beheaded.

Because there are many people around you who are unsuccessful in love, or even ugly, so you don't believe in love, how dare you assert it in private if you haven't been in love?

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Hehe, that's good, at least you won't get hurt

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Too much unhappy love in social life, unsuccessful love happens all around you.

Maybe you've witnessed too much unreliable love.

Maybe you've heard too many hypocritical love stories.

That's good! It shows that you can see the world very clearly! I don't believe it anymore, but I didn't realize it until after my failed first love. It's not as high as yours!

Me too, there are too many failed marriages in real life, but I am a perfectionist, and I am most afraid that one day it will be my turn, so I give up. Without love, there can be no marriage.

I think you're going to have to try it, and then you'll know it's love, and then you'll stop saying that

The demands on people must be high.

Because these people are just talking, you don't have to take it seriously.

Some people claim that they don't believe in love, but they still want to fall in love. For such a person, first of all, he didn't take this sentence so seriously, and it belonged to half-joking happiness. Secondly, if a person says something like this, you have to pay attention to the context in which he said it, and it is also possible that the other person is hinting at something.

1. Many people have something to say.

I'll give you an example, if a guy has a crush on a girl, when the boy and the girl eat together, because everyone's personality is different, people with a more cheerful personality will express their feelings directly, and people with a relatively introverted personality may be more tactful. Some people will directly tell each other that they don't believe in love, and hint at each other in this way. In a way, you can interpret this sentence as a counterstatement.

Second, it has become a habit for some people to fall in love.

We need to know that pure love and affection are actually very difficult to distinguish, and there are no strict boundaries. For those who have been in love for many years, many people themselves can't tell whether it's because they're used to being together or because they're together because of love. I don't think it's necessary to take this situation too seriously.

Because love is originally a part of life, not all of a person, and a lifestyle full of love is too wasteful of life. <>

3. Some people don't know what they want.

Not everyone is willing to think positively, and not everyone has the habit of thinking deeply. For us ordinary people, many people don't know what they want at all, and they don't know why they are in love, and they just feel that they need to fall in love when they reach their age. Many people will get married in a few years because they feel that they are old enough to get married.

In short, a lot of people do something not because of how they feel, but because they feel like they're old enough to do it. <>

To sum up, hope this can help you.

They may want to find their true love through love, and then let themselves believe in love, so they will fall in love, and falling in love is not necessarily because of love.

These people want to find a person who is really suitable for them in this way, and they can also understand each other's character in the process of falling in love, and then they are also very eager for love in their hearts.

Because he thinks that others have it, he should have it himself, or he may have a playful mentality, or he may want to experience the feeling of falling in love.

You think that love is sacred, you think that love is together because of love, but then you talk about love, you find out that two people who don't love each other will also be together with the name of love, they say that they love each other deeply, but in fact they don't love each other, and love is like a ghost, everyone is talking, but few people have seen it, and even after you fall in love, you will doubt whether love really exists.

In the past, we always thought that love should be the most beautiful thing, love should be two people who love each other, because they love each other and come together, love should be the purest thing, but then you grow up, you fall in love, you find the person you love, he says he loves you, but he minds you go quietly, or he says he loves you, but he will choose to separate from you because his parents do not agree.

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Ad. After you fall in love, you are full of joy and think that you have found the most true love, that he is so different, he must be the person you want to spend your life with, but then you find that there seem to be a lot of girls around him, and he tells you that these girls are his colleagues, classmates, friends, girlfriends, confidants, he will feel that it is meaningless for you to mind these, and even he will blame you for not caring so much, you yourself do not mean that others do not have these friends, these relationships, so it is your fault.

And later you find that many people around you fall in love not because of love for each other, but because they are right, but because they are old, but because they are good to me, so they are together, and the beautiful love you originally thought, the most desirable love, is often so realistic when it happens around you, and your own love is becoming more and more realistic, because you are no longer the stupid child who believed that as long as there is love, you will be able to go to the end.

So, what I understand after falling in love is that you don't believe in love more and more, you doubt more and more whether love really exists, and you become more and more realistic.

1.Learn to improve yourself.

Learning to promote yourself in love is to give yourself the sense of security you want to a certain extent, and it will also make you fall in love sensibly, and even make yourself more attractive and get the other party's heart.

The reason why people feel scared in love may be because they love too humbly and lose themselves, which leads to problems with each other. And when the problem is not solved, then there is not much security in the heart. When you know how to improve yourself, things will be resolved slowly, so that you will not be afraid of losing.

2.Let yourself put the things of love in perspective.

People should have a correct view of falling in love, and they can't feel that love is their everything, and they can't live without love. This kind of love can be said to be a love brain, which will make people feel insecure in the face of feelings and make them afraid of losing each other.

Be sensible, look at love correctly, and don't let such things occupy your whole world. Leaving the world of love, there are other worlds, when you learn to recognize love, then your heart will no longer be so afraid.

Why do some people dare not invest in their feelings when they fall in love, and they are afraid of losing.

As the saying goes, you don't know the whole picture, how to evaluate what. In the same way, if you don't know how to look at your feelings, you will be afraid in your heart. And when people are in a state of loneliness for a long time, they will be afraid that the warmth they have grasped will disappear, so they will not dare.

For some people, the lovers around them are respectful and leave a bad influence on themselves, resulting in the fear that they will be hurt when they start a relationship, and they will feel pain, so they will be afraid to invest in it.

In the emotional world, people should be sensible, and let their love world and other worlds get along equally, so that they can face up to their own thoughts, know what is important to them, and how to live life is the best.

People who dare not fall in love and do not return to believe in love are generally people who have been hurt in love, or there are many unhappy marriages around him that have affected him.

The first situation is that I have been in a relationship before, and I don't get along with the other party happily in the relationship, and these unpleasantness makes me feel very uncomfortable, and even affects my life, so that I don't dare to fall in love again.

In the second case, the unhappy marriage of others seriously affects one's own values, especially one's own parents or siblings. This kind of harm that belongs to the original family takes time to **.

In fact, don't be too scared, I think fate has arrived, and these are not problems!

Maybe they have been hurt before.