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1) Keep your mind calm. Face everything with a happy attitude, happiness is given by yourself.
2) Have a strong will and a positive attitude towards life. Have the courage and determination to overcome difficulties, the ups and downs are life, and face everything with a normal heart.
3) Believe in yourself and believe in others. Be sincere to your relatives and friends who deserve your attention.
4) Face the contradiction, face it squarely, and solve it. Don't intensify contradictions, as the saying goes, "big things are turned into small things, and small things are turned into small things", which is actually the best way to resolve contradictions.
5) Be generous and take things seriously.
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What's your motto?
You have to have a good word of encouragement and then hint at yourself often. This trick is called autosuggestion, and it works. When you don't want to study, just hint at yourself!
When you have negative thoughts in your own mind, you say that sentence to yourself, and then think about how you do it in combination with your actual situation, and then do it.
People with a good mentality are people who can make psychological suggestions, and this trick is very smart!
In fact, we live in this era of peace, and life is very comfortable, so you must look far, there is a sky outside the sky!
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It would be fine to set a simple and achievable goal to get through the current period.
It's time for you to be agitated in adolescence and adjust to your mental and physical changes.
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The mentality is adjusted by oneself, whether it is in school or not as good as the society, it is indispensable to adjust the mentality, pay attention to work, do one line of love, one line of learning, do not treat it as a burden, but as an indispensable part of your life, it will be better.
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People who are older have a calmer temper, probably because so many years of experience have taught them that having an empty mood cannot solve any problems in most cases, and the solution to make the situation better is usually only thought of when the mood is not out of control. Over time, I consciously resisted the bad mood. So it doesn't necessarily take time to make people sleek, in the end, it's just a different way for their own good
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The reason why people are stressed or in a bad mood is because they take something too seriously or are too attached to the outcome. I want to do this well, but I often can't achieve my goals or expectations. If this matter has caused this consequence, I think you should let go, because this result has become a fact, it means that it has become history, can not be changed, what to do now is to gain the experience of failure from it, so that you don't repeat the mistakes of the past, let yourself regret it again, let go, your heart will be peaceful, but it does not mean to escape, the reason why this matter is not as good as you think, is because of insufficient ability.
Enrich yourself and increase your experience. Make yourself mature. Things can be done in the future.
When you're sad, go relax and find something to distract yourself and vent. Listen**, travel, don't get too attached to the result. I have done enough and done my best before, and even if I fail, I will not regret it too much.
So to reinvigorate and grasp the present, history is in the past, but the future is still blank. We must use our own hands and mature hearts to create more success. Come on, your adoption is the greatest encouragement to me, good luck
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Go out and travel, make good friends, don't be too profitable,
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Everything is a floating cloud, you don't have to deliberately pursue anything, everything that should come will come back, and accept the reality calmly.
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Well, it may be a little more impetuous at first, because you haven't figured out your thoughts yet, and you should figure it out after a while, so there's nothing to be confused and angry about. Just think about it a little bit, don't be stubborn, and you'll feel like it's just a small thing to deal with!
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In this society of chasing fame and fortune, most people have an impetuous heart. It is indeed difficult to maintain a peaceful mind in the rolling red dust, but one should learn to be modest. Everything that is extreme is wrong, and just as everything that is wrong is the result of extremes!
So if you want to maintain a peaceful mind, you have to look at everything in the world with a normal mind that is not detached.
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Acting according to the traditional Chinese way of behaving is --- maintaining the golden mean, and the mentality is naturally peaceful.
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Watch some light-hearted comedies, take your time, and see others so successful that you have to find some ways to make yourself successful, and that is to take a good look.
I'll give you advice, can you see it?
1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".
2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......
3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.
4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.
5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.
6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.
7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.
8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.
9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.
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Let's do it first at the easiest time and try it okay?
First of all, make sure you have time to walk every day. That is, a slight exercise!
And then. Every night. Start today.
Use a bucket every day, take about one-third of the hot water, and soak your feet for about 15 minutes. The time is between 9:30 and 10 p.m. Remember to start today and don't stop without changing the problem of insomnia!
Try! I came up with this method myself.
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It's good that you're unique and you want to become mature. But get it in place.
You are you, so listen to other people's words and forget it, other people's lives are someone else's. Is it OK to be yourself?
Calm down, think about what is most important to you right now, and then do your best and do it with all your might.
If today is the last day of your life, how do you live with her?
Do something meaningful to yourself and others, sometimes giving will make you more satisfied and happier than you get.
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Analysis:
Suggestions: Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed, and free movement, and take a position that feels more comfortable for yourself, standing, sitting or lying down. Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.
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Don't care about him, specifically: don't be happy with things, don't be sad with yourself. Do what feels comfortable, and if it's uncomfortable, let him practice to be comfortable.
Also, don't do your best in everything, do the most important things to be your best, and just get by with everything else.
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In "The Road Less Traveled", it is said: "Only by constantly improving oneself can a person gain love and learn to love!" "Maybe that's your confusion and confusion. In fact, this sentence allows me to understand that a person's continuous process of self-improvement for you is a process of maintaining a kind of spiritual awareness.
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Then no one else can persuade you now, go see a psychiatrist, or add me as a good person, you can talk to me.
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Only by maintaining a feeling of happiness and joy at all times will you make yourself love life and love life more; Only a happy and happy mood is the source of creativity and motivation for life; Only those who continue to create happiness by themselves and get along with themselves happily can stay away from pain and troubles and have a happy life.
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"No desires and no desires" means that only when people have no desires (including material desires and greed) can they have no pursuit (unsatisfied psychological needs). Therefore, you need to look at everything openly, look down, and don't worry too much about it in order to maintain a calm mind. FYI, I hope you can get rid of your troubles as soon as possible and live a peaceful and happy life.
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Look at the Cthulhu Mythos, after reading it, no matter what happens to you, compare it to the indescribable, everything seems so insignificant.
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Find the cause of the irritability. Usually I meditate on my own to find a solution to my irritability.
1. I hint in my heart that if it is a regret thing, I will imply to myself that since it has happened, it is useless to annoy it, and it will not solve the problem.
2. Find a remedy or workaround. Whether it can be saved, whether it can be restarted, can be considered. If not, talk to someone.
3. To improve one's realm, the main thing is to read more philosophical books and improve one's self-cultivation, such as Zhou Guoping's book. The restless state of mind of irritability is also the result of not being able to solve the problem under certain conditions. Therefore, it is very important to improve one's psychological cultivation.
Finally, I hope you can take my advice and give me some reward points.
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Do not air conditioner. and all other cooling appliances... It's brutal as it is... It really works.
It's hard to get confused when you open your heart.
Read more chicken soup for the soul or books that interest you, or force yourself to focus on one thing, the irritability will gradually subside, if there is someone to talk to, it is the best, you can talk about your irritability, soothe your mood. In fact, sometimes irritability is because I can't find a breakthrough in things, and sometimes I let it go and look at the past from a different angle, maybe I will be cheerful :)
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