I m getting married, I m so tired, I m so annoying, I m too tired to get married

First of all, I really feel very sympathetic to your situation.

If you and your girlfriend love each other and it's worth it, then of course you have to go hand in hand. When you become a son-in-law, you should do your filial piety, and you should help of course, and some unreasonable and excessive requirements you have to reach an agreement with your girlfriend, you can not do it.

If your girlfriend blindly caters to her mother's requirements, regardless of right and wrong, whether it is excessive or not, and does not consider your feelings, then you have to pick up the manly spirit, cut off the love thread, and let go, this kind of unassertive, weak, lucky, and unagreed will sooner or later poke out a lot of baskets after you get married.

Think clearly, marriage is not a game.

Personally, I suggest that your girlfriend and their family find a door-to-door son-in-law in their mountainous area. Save yourself the hassle.

But your girlfriend is still a good daughter. I believe that she will be a good wife in the future, and it would be a pity if she broke up, especially now that she has your children again.

We all know that our parents are arranged for us by God, and we have no choice. But God has given us the opportunity to choose our friends and lovers.

So it's okay to compromise appropriately, but if you can't get over your own business, don't compromise, people still have to be worthy of themselves in life, right!

This marriage cannot be consummated. You have to be tough before. Show attitude. Otherwise, if you agree now, their conditions will be harsher in the future, and this is endless.

You first have to do the ideological work of getting through your girlfriend, and if it doesn't work, treat it coldly.

Let them beg you, and don't make them feel like you want their daughter.

Trust me, or you'll have a hard time in the future. This one is a bit poor and crazy.

I took it. Why are the old people in their family so far away???

Parted... Otherwise, you will regret it in the future, the husband and wife are naturally very beautiful to grow old together, and everyone hopes for this, if you agree to her parents' request, what will happen to your marriage in the future, you, your girlfriend, and the child have no way out!

You have to take the idea yourself, and you can't listen to everyone else's words.

Anyway, in a word: don't use children to maintain marriage... This is a lesson from the past!

Be sympathetic and reason with them, it's not good for anyone to break up.

Tell them how you feel, some of them are really going too far.

You also have to demand basic respect, and if you don't make it clear, you will be even more guilty when you get married.

Born as a woman. I'm right to your wife. Despise.. It's simply. She just did it. Money comes fast.

Dear, I'm glad to answer for you: getting married is a very good and happy thing. If you are too tired to have doubts about getting married, you can try to communicate with your spouse, find each other's problems and needs, and try to solve them together.

In addition, Xiaotian here is some advice for your reference: learn to relax yourself, you can arrange your time appropriately, do something you like, or go out to travel and relax. Learn to distribute housework, you can divide labor reasonably, and reduce your burden.

Learn to seek help from a professional counselor, such as family, friends, or a professional counselor. Learn to change your attitude, try to look at problems from a positive perspective, and look for solutions to problems. Marriage does require dedication and patience, but if you and your spouse support and understand each other, encourage and tolerate each other, you will be able to make it through this journey together.