What are some ways to tell if a child is in early love?

Adolescent children have a hazy feeling of the opposite sexThat is the first time they know what they like, at this time parents are also a special headache, on the one hand worried that the child is not in early love, on the other hand, worried that their discipline is too strict will lead to the child's rebellious heart, so the correct guidance and find the right way to judge whether the child is in early love is very important, I will share a few methods below.

First of all, you can observe whether he plays with his mobile phone for a long time from his usual lifeAnd also smirk at the phone,If you have to pay special attention, we have all experienced adolescence, so you should understand their mood, it is normal to be young just now, it is best not to interfere too much, this will lead to rift between children and parents, and will also aggravate their rebellious hearts, the best way is to talk to them, do not speak with the attitude of parents, it is best to chat with him from the perspective of friends, you can tell your own story in adolescence, guide them to treat their feelings correctly, That's all that matters.

If your child has already rebellious and early loveAt this time, don't blindly blame them, don't force them to break up and study hard by scolding or even beating. This is very likely to cause the child's rebellious psychology, it is very possible to run away from home or something, and it is too late for you to regret it.

So the best way to do that is to say yes to them at the beginning, if it's a boyJust tell him that you have the ability to bring happiness to the girl you like, man, husband, you have to be responsible, it is better for the two of you to urge each other to study hard and move towards a better future together。If it's a girlYou just tell her that it's a good thing to like someone, and that someone likes you means that you're also very good, and we don't object to your communication, you should have a degree in everything, and you should do something at what time.

I think it is possible to guide her by talking directly and saying the boy or girl she likes, if anything, it is puppy love.

In the usual communication with the child, you can ask the child if he has a favorite person, but the premise is that you have a very good relationship with the child, and he also regards you as a friend, otherwise he will not tell you.

Actually, there are many kinds. Parents can quickly distinguish as long as they pay more attention to the frequency of their children's mobile phone use. Under normal circumstances, children use mobile phones to play games, and if he spends more time on communication than games, then he is definitely in love.

There are also children who begin to care inexplicably about their appearance and clothing, which is also a manifestation of love.

Puppy love does have an impact on a child's academic performance, and parents must pay more attention to their children. You might as well judge from the following aspects: first, whether you will use your mobile phone to chat, or **, or play with your mobile phone for a long time; The second is whether there is a situation where you go home late after school.

In fact, you can take the initiative to communicate with your child, ask your child if he has a favorite person, and treat it as a healthy thing. If you really want to discern, you can actually ask your child's classmates, including observing whether the child is behaving strangely.

I suggest you leave it alone, I know you want to share your children's worries, or help them solve their own problems, but children in love and adolescents are very rebellious and don't want their parents to get involved in too much of their own affairs, you can let them go on their own, so that they can have their own adolescence After all, youth is only once. You haven't been ...... younger

1. Decline in academic performance.

2. If you go home late, you will find an excuse to run out on weekends.

3. Especially girls change their taste for reading books and start to watch love**.

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Look at the child's expression when he comes back every day, whether he has been secretly playing with his mobile phone, see if his academic performance has declined, see if he often plays with others, whispers to others as if he trembles, whether he suddenly becomes a love to dress up, if there is any, it means that the child is in early love, parents are calling to do correct communication with the child, give the child the correct guidance, tell the child the impact of early love, do not scold the child, let everyone know that the impact of early love on themselves is very large, and it is not allowed to fall in love.

For example, children like to laugh when they are fine. Likes to play with mobile phones. Avoid you to hit **. If there is an early sedan love, you should tell him the disadvantages of early love. You just need to tell him that you shouldn't fall in love at this age, otherwise it will affect your studies.