As a parent, when do you feel that your child is being vexatious?

On Sunday afternoon, Erbao took a nap until four o'clock, and after Dabao finished the homework left by the teacher, he found something else to do for himself. She closed the door tightly, and specially instructed me not to enter her room without her permission, and I was rarely idle, I could have a time and space to be alone, I could read a book, climb the lattice, and be in a daze. About an hour later, I heard Dabao call his mother in the room, then another sound, then another sound, and one louder than the other, and then Erbao happened to wake up, I was afraid that Erbao would fall out of bed alone, so I didn't respond to Dabao in time, my lover came over to take care of Erbao at this time, and I knocked on the door and entered Dabao's room.

She was squatting on the ground fiddling with a handicraft she had just completed, but she didn't expect Dabao to be very angry at this time, and as soon as I wanted to speak, she said angrily: "I don't agree to call you so much." I briefly explained the reason, but she didn't buy it at all, she was still very emotional, and finally destroyed the handmade work that she had spent more than an hour to complete directly in front of me.

When my baby was in elementary school, I often came back with the chalk in the class to scribble and spend, I couldn't beat or scold, and I didn't listen to what I said, alas, I planned to have a second child.

A few weeks ago, my two-year-old and I walked into our play group with his arm suddenly turned into Velcro and my trouser leg was grabbed as well, and most of the time, we were glued together.

My nephew has been taken care of by my grandmother since he was born, because he is the first grandchild of his grandmother's family, he is very spoiled, he is very good to take before the age of one, he doesn't like to cry, he sleeps when he is full, and he laughs when he wakes up. When my nephew's cousin was born a year old, his grandmother focused on this cousin, and my nephew began to cry and make trouble, and even got sick often. Now the nephew is more than three years old, his cousin is more than two years old, the two children are put together, the nephew is often unreasonable, sometimes inexplicably bites his cousin's hand, as long as the cousin wants to play with any toy, he must also play, often the two old watches fight for toys, every day is not this crying, or that trouble, sometimes the nephew behaves outrageously, will take advantage of his cousin when he is not paying attention to grab a handful on his face, a little longer nails will grab a few marks out, so that his grandmother is angry.

Read the same book, listen to the same song, or play the same game over and over again. I'll admit that when I had to read the book "Good Night Moon" for the 12th time, my spirits were broken.

I still remember the worst time my son lost his temper: at the party where our family celebrated my husband's 30th birthday. (On that day, I was entertaining a room of relatives and friends who came to the party, and it was really a very lively day), and my son lost his temper, which made me feel very embarrassed and angry.

But when you calm down and think about it, there is also a positive side. Suppressing anger and frustration is not a good option for everyone.

Introduction: In fact, every child will have some emotions, and sometimes the child's emotional expression is not very reasonable, so the child will be vexatious. In the face of children's vexatious trouble, should parents pay attention to it?

Because every emotional expression of the child should be properly paid attention to by the parents, even if the parents feel that the child's vexatious behavior is very naïve and meaningless, but the parents should also guide it. Because children can't deal with their emotions in the process of losing their temper, and it will bring a lot of trouble to others. And sometimes children are vexatious, regardless of the occasion, often unreasonable in public, which will make parents lose face.

Therefore, parents should pay attention to it, and should communicate with their children to ask what they really want and what is wrong. Sometimes the child's emotional irritability may be due to physical reasons, or it may be that he was frightened before, so parents should communicate and enlighten their children appropriately. In addition, the child should be warned not to be vexatious regardless of the occasion, so that the child will know to restrain his behavior.

Therefore, the parents' attention is actually to make the child feel the echo and love, and it will not be so noisy.

In fact, emotional regulation can reflect a person's emotional intelligence, if an adult loses his temper and throws things everywhere, it means that the adult will not mediate his emotions, and it also affects his own development. Therefore, whether it is joy, anger or sorrow, every emotion should have the same expression, and appropriate methods should be used to resolve those bad emotions. The pressure that children encounter in the process of growing up is also very large, so parents must teach their children to regulate their emotions.

In such a situation, children can grow better, and communication with parents will get better and better.

Parents should not pay attention to it, because it will let the child know that it is useless to be vexatious, and they will not treat parents in this way in the future.

In the face of children's vexatious trouble, parents should best ignore it, and need to let the child know that vexatious trouble cannot solve the problem, and parents need to communicate with their children well after the child is not troubled.

I don't think you should ignore it and tell your child about the inappropriateness of doing so when he is emotionally stable.

Parents should pay attention to it, because it will make the child feel more secure, and parents should tell the child that it is not right to do so.

If the child behaves unreasonably, parents should say no to the child appropriately. Every child is a parent's treasure, but if parents love their children too much, and there is no harsh criticism, then the child will develop bad problems. If some of the child's conditions are not met, they will cry and threaten their parents.

In some families, as long as the child makes a request, the parent has to think about whether the request can be fulfilled.

Don't think that all the child's requests are correct, judge the child's behavior and the way they do things, so that parents can say no according to the child's behavior. Moreover, parents should not blindly promise their children, and at the same time decide the problem according to the actual situation, they should also solve the problem appropriately.

If the child rolls on the ground because he is not satisfied by the parents, then the parents must not be soft-hearted. And to ignore this behavior of the child, it is more important for parents to stay calm. Parents can also do what they want to do when their children can see it, such as doing housework, and when children see that their parents are unwilling to take care of themselves, they will feel that it is not fun, and then they will stop crying.

If the child has not stopped at this time, parents can also find some other ways to distract the child. For example, toys or cartoons can help children slowly forget about their previous unhappiness and quickly devote themselves to new activities.

In fact, the child's emotions are very short-lived, as long as the child is given more opportunities and space, then the child will change his own approach. You can also use a reasonable way to let the child know that his behavior is wrong, and tell the child that if the parents do not meet their requirements, they will use this way to rebel against the parents, and the parents will not agree to their requests because of their behavior in the future. Children know their mistakes from the heart, they know how to behave appropriately, and children will gradually become sensible.

Parents should patiently talk to their children about some reasoning, and should also tell their children about the disadvantages of doing this, and this will only waste time, and will not solve the fundamental problem at all, you can say some effective advice to your child, and you should also tell your child what to do in later life.

Parents must criticize their children harshly, because the child's behavior is very bad, which will have a certain impact on him in the future, and it is not conducive to the child's growth, and will have a certain harm in the future.

Treat it calmly, when the child has such a situation, parents should look at the child quietly, lose their temper, and then wait for the child to stop, and then the parent will reason with the child.

Parents should not pay attention to their children, parents should let their children know that they will not agree to be unreasonable, and they should also teach their children a lesson.

Parents should be reasonable. If the parents ignore it, it is likely to harm the child's physical and mental health, hurt the child's self-esteem, and is not conducive to the growth and development of the eggplant.

Parents should take care of it. At this time, parents should actively guide and do not ignore it, otherwise it will affect the physical and mental health development of children.