When did you suddenly feel like you had grown up?

Everyone has a time when they suddenly understand something, then it is time for us to feel that we have grown up.

When you know how to think independently. When we didn't think independently when we were children, we always followed the instructions of our parents to do things, whether it was going to school or going to cram school, we had no way to refuse the road paved for us by our parents, we could only keep walking on this road, but when we had our own character and our own direction of thinking, we began to think that our parents were not entirely right, and we began to oppose our parents' practices, and even didn't understand our parents, and we suddenly felt that we had grown up. With their own life goals, it's time for them to fight for this goal, instead of growing up under the protection of their parents all the time, and we start to struggle for our dreams with thoughts, then I also feel that many things can no longer rely on my parents, and I feel that I have suddenly grown up a lot, and I don't need my parents to worry about it, and I can also live in this society.

Want to live independently. During the study period, we all live with parents, but after we reach the society, our parents can't help us anything, so we want to live independently alone, and don't want our parents to continue to help us, and we also want to have an independent life.

In many cases, we suddenly feel that we have grown up and do not need our parents to continue to worry about it, and we can survive independently.

I feel that I suddenly grow up often only in a certain moment, and it seems to me that the moment when my parents' gray hair suddenly meets my eyes, I have grown up.

Our parents made us the first mentors in life, they led us all the way to grow up, and everything they thought about in their youth was really dedicated to us, unconditionally sheltering us from the wind and rain.

I am an ordinary child, not wealthy, but my parents give me no less love than anyone else, first of all, my father, he has been taking me to and from school every day since I started studying, these trivial things may not seem like anything to others, but there are a few who can persist for more than ten years as a day, and there are a few who can do it every day after class behind my father's small motorcycle, as if I can feel the power of the world, and any difficulties can not help me. And my mother is not to mention, the greatness of maternal love does not need too many words to express, every little detail in life reflects a strong maternal love, she spent her life desperately to make me live a better life.

College was the first time I had left my family, and I was lost by the unaccustomed feeling of suddenly leaving my family. But I know that they will always have my back. Now I have been living outside for a long time, and when I came home during the last National Day holiday, I took a closer look one night and found that my parents' temples had turned white, my father had begun to have a belly, and my mother's eyes were also presbyopia.

At that moment, it was as if something hit me hard, and I felt that they were really old, and I had grown up. It's no longer the little kid hiding behind you who doesn't know anything. You grow up with me, I grow old with you, Mom and Dad, the children you care about have grown up, and I will be your backing in the future.

People sometimes have to go through a stage to feel that they will have a change, when we were young, most of us were not very sensible, what to do is not considering the consequences, no matter what, we have to go through a lot of things and stages, but in this process we need to understand more things ourselves, so that it will have a good meaning for us.

After going to college, you can feel a lot different from before, and you will feel the pressure on yourself invisibly, but sometimes we don't want to face these problems that we should face, but as you get older and older, you are slowly willing to face some things, I remember when I first went to college, because I just came to a new environment, and I also had some understanding of college life when I was in school. So when I was a freshman or sophomore, I felt that some of my behaviors were really naïve. <>

But in the semester of my junior year, I can only feel like I have grown up, if I used to think about how to spend money to buy some clothes, cosmetics, where to play and eat and so on, but this semester I have no such thoughts at all, and I began to prepare for my future, because I also slowly learned the cruelty of living in society, if you don't have real skills, it is difficult to gain a foothold in society.

Growing up means that you have to understand and take on more responsibilities, you can no longer live as simple-minded as before, we have to start to enrich ourselves slowly, in this society, the most important thing is to learn, only learning can change your own way out, no matter what kind of work you participate in the future, the exam is a link that can never escape, and what qualifications you have in your hands are also very important to the leadership, So if you have that time to waste, why not use it to do something meaningful.

When I began to give thanks, those difficult days in my life.

I forgot to hear a quote from **, he said that when you feel the most desperate, in fact, it is when you are closest to success. In fact, we can choose to live our lives very peacefully, and we can't live the life we want without starvation, safely, and without pain. But I think people are passionate in their bones, everyone wants his dreams, people without dreams are really scary, you can have no direction, but you can't have no goals.

In "Passing by Your World", Xiaorong actually has a stable job and a beautiful face, and she has lived better than many people, but she is so enviable, she still doesn't choose to stand still. She said: Standing at the crossroads, I said to myself, if I don't leave, I won't have a chance, I want to go to a higher place to take a look, even if it's hard now, it's the life I want.

We shouldn't have chosen comfort at an age when we should be struggling, we deserve a better life.

I think I understood this too late, and I missed too many times when I should have worked hard. If you don't work hard, you will find that the people around you are improving, and the gap between you and them will be getting farther and farther away. At the end of the day, you're the only one standing.

I know that these days of hardship are really difficult, you can't think of others who can stay in bed all day, you can't stop reading books and studying, you can't invite friends to play games for hours, you feel that there are many more important things in life that are worth doing. You will also have times when you are lazy, there will be times when you complain, and even want to scold, but you are afraid, afraid that you will not be able to grow up as fast as your parents are aging. You have responsibilities on your shoulders, and you can't spend your parents' money every day without learning or knowing.

It's time for you to grow up, it's time to learn to take care of yourself and your family, no one has to take good care of you.

When I figured these things out, I really felt like I had grown up and was no longer the person I used to be who I used to learn for my parents. In fact, what your parents said is right, learning is for you. Learning is really important.

When you've gotten through those days that seem to be miserable, all that's left is the good times.

In fact, I always wish I could be just a child, but we have to grow up. There is also a process of growing up, and I remember the first time I changed was when I was in elementary school. My grandmother's house and my house were close to each other, and at that time, the children from several villages next door were all studying in our village's primary school, and I went to my grandmother's house with one of my friends after school.

When I walked to the door of my grandmother's house, I saw my grandmother sitting at the door, because my grandmother's eyes were not good, so Xiao Hei saw me first, shouted at me and ran over, and my grandmother recognized me.

At that time, I never thought that one of my temporary departures made the family startled, because I didn't tell my parents in advance, they thought I was lost, and then I found out that I was at my grandmother's house, and that night my uncle stared at me and said that I would break your leg if I came back later. Since then, I have rarely gone to my grandmother's house, and for the first time I know that it is not my home, but someone else's, and that there are relatives and distances between people.

Another time was when I was in high school, my rebellious period came earlier and went faster, and when I was in the first and second years of junior high school, I had to quarrel with my mother to the point of inextricabness, and even had to be sent to my aunt's house by my father during the holidays, my aunt was very good to me, and my brother and sister were also very good to me, and they would buy me delicious food and take me out to play, which slowly made me quiet a little, and the relationship with my mother eased a little. After calming down, I gradually understood some of my mother's practices and thoughts, in fact, he was for my own good, and she didn't have the opportunity to go to college before, so she put all her trust on me. Later, I heard my father tell me how much my mother had suffered before, and she hadn't enjoyed much happiness since marrying him, so I realized the pain in my mother's heart, and it was only after that time that I began to grow up.

Seeing this, I can't help but sigh that people always have to grow up. It can't be all of a sudden when you grow up, something must be slowly accumulating in between. It will form a point in your heart, like a seed, slowly germinate, grow, grow, and finally grow into an invincible appearance.

Actually, I don't like to grow up, like the song goes: I don't want to I don't want to grow up ......Growing up is really a process, and it's a very difficult thing. When I was young, I may have looked forward to growing up, but when I really grew up, I missed the time when I was young and carefree.

The process of growing up is full of many difficulties and obstacles, and those things that suddenly grow up, and the things that have to be over the years have pushed people to the top in an instant. Just like myself, I have always lived in the appearance of a small public act, and I always feel weak and helpless. I feel that I can never learn to mature, and it is like being young like this.

But the years and society will not let you go easily, the family may tolerate you, and finally the most defeated in love, not prepared at all, just after waking up that person is because your family is not good and you can't be together, I really grew up, overnight, it turned out, it will eventually be to grow, there are always some reasons and reasons to promote you, to fulfill your final adult appearance, and then overcome obstacles, invincible.

After that, you will find that in the past, when you were hurt, you would go around crying to others, but now you will hide it silently, and you don't even want to show your scars in front of others.

In the past, if there was anything unpleasant, it was always written on the face, and it would be vented on the trend. Now it's as plain as water, quiet, maybe not all of them will do so well, but at least, you know this truth in your heart.

In the past, when I fell in love, I felt that it was good to love me, and it was enough for me to love him. Now, there is no money to talk about, what feelings do you talk about. Growing up has made you understand too many truths and leave too many deep impressions.

When you find that there are fewer tears, more pain, less smile, more secrets, less communication, and more hypocrisy, congratulations, you are growing, suddenly not suddenly, not necessarily, but this must be inevitable!

Looking at the old gray hair of his parents, lamenting the changes in the world, shuttling through the most familiar streets, looking at the strange and familiar crowds, witnessing the punishment of his superiors to his subordinates, and feeling distressed about the daily rush to the drinking field. It's just that we are no longer the same us, and the more we grow up, the more lonely we become, and the more we don't want to grow up. <>

Three years of high school, not only did I get tired, but even my parents couldn't sleep, although the final grades were not ideal, but there was also a university where I could be assigned a job. The three years of college have allowed me to verify what my parents said, that college is a small society. Let's talk about the dormitory first, the emotions of the roommates have changed from nothing to emotional breakdown, but we still have to act between us, I know in my heart that it will not be the same as before, and it will not be as willful as in high school, if you don't play with anyone, you won't play with anyone, and now you have to pretend to have a good relationship on the surface, which may be the future communication, although you may have torn your face in private, but you still have to maintain a certain relationship at work, which makes me feel cold in my heart, and there may be few sincere friends in college.

Speaking of competition, a male friend of mine, he is very organized, and he usually likes to help the teacher do things, maybe because he is a big celebrity around the teacher, some people have bad intentions, and even complained to the teacher, saying that he helped people to take Erya in private, and finally had no choice but to remove his official, completely lost his prestige in front of the teacher, and there was no qualification for probationary party members. Although it didn't happen to me, at that moment, I was like a bolt from the blue, it turns out that there is so much competition in life, you take a wrong step, there are no bad people in the world, only good people who run towards interests.

In the past three years, my parents have given me living expenses every month, and paid me tuition every year, every time the money is not enough, I will make a **, and WeChat here will send their transfer records, their love does not ask for returns, their love is selfless dedication to you when you need it, I really don't know what to use to repay them. There is a saying that I always remember, my mother once said to me, I will raise you for a lifetime! I didn't understand it at the time, so I replied okay, anyway, I don't know what job to find in the future.

But now that I think about it, a simple sentence reveals how much reluctance, I understand my mother's feelings of not wanting her daughter to get married, raised for more than 20 years, how can I say that I will get married, I have experienced a lot of things, I will understand a lot of life truths, I feel that I have grown up a lot, not the little girl who can be picked up by my father, but I will always be the little padded jacket of my parents and their eternal dependence!