Should I reconcile with such a boyfriend?

A good horse won't eat back grass! How much more are people! He has the first time he breaks up with you for someone else, and he will have a second time, this kind of man can't be trusted. Isn't there such a saying:

It is better to believe in the mouth of a man than to believe that there are ghosts in the world.

I wonder, why do you think your current boyfriend has no result with you? Is it because his house is not the same place as yours? Don't have such an idea, you can't get married if it's not a place?

That means you still don't love him enough, because love has no distance. If you love him, even if he is at the end of the world and you are at the cape, I don't think it will be a problem.

I've had your situation with me when he broke up with me because he fell in love with someone else, and I didn't ask him, because I knew that even if you asked for the relationship back, it would feel different. So I let it go, but then he came and begged me to reconcile with me, and I didn't agree. It's not that I don't love him, it's that I know he'll have another time this happens and asks to break up with me, so I stick to my principles.

So I'm having a great time now!

Don't reconcile with the man who betrayed you... I seriously despise this kind of man.,I'm now.,Reconciled with my former boyfriend.,But what?。。 The result is still the same sadness, I hate him, I hate him so much that I want to vomit, I really want to slap such a man to death twice!

I think your mood is very complicated now, since you have broken up, don't continue, there's no need, if you reconcile, there will still be a lot of disputes in the future, since you were so ruthless to abandon you to choose someone else, it was he who gave up your three-year relationship first, and now that you have a boyfriend, just cherish it.

Neither can go far.

It also depends on fate.

Since your ex-boyfriend can abandon you for other women, why should you bother with it.

I don't dare to say much about my current boyfriend, because you started a relationship before you separated from your ex-boyfriend, and I remember that I didn't find it again for half a year after the breakup, but it was just a substitute for my ex-boyfriend or your loneliness. Since it is impossible for the current boyfriend to get married, why should he continue like this? You're just playing.

Sex is just a regulator in life, so why take it so seriously!

In fact, you can find your common ground, so that there will be a topic.

Falling in love is not looking for a sex partner, it is looking for someone who can be with you for a lifetime.

If you like him, go to him.

Since you have made a choice before, you have to pay the price for the previous choice, if he says you agree, it's not to make him feel that you come and go as soon as you move, and it's too faceless, to look at your feelings, even if you don't want to leave and want to return to him, don't mind too soon, I think the current boyfriend is a little better, water is impermanent, people are normal, there are too many changes, what I said is for reference only.

If you love him, make peace.

Knowing that there is no result now, of course, you have to divide it, if you have a result with your ex-boyfriend, you will reconcile, it doesn't matter, you can't do that 24 hours a day, right? That's fine, don't be too demanding, it's hard to find a man now.

Regarding her relationship, I will be more cautious and reserved than Cong Zhu. There are several reasons for this:

1.Because their relationship is broken and they lose trust in each other, this will invisibly leave inner scars and affect future relationships. Rebuilding trust and alienation is the biggest challenge that must be faced in reuniting, which requires a tremendous amount of effort on both sides, and the outcome remains unpredictable.

2.During the period of breaking the mirror, the life trajectory and mentality of both parties will change to a certain extent. The need to readjust to these changes and find a common language after the reunion is a major challenge in itself. Once the fit between people is broken, the possibility of re-matching is high, and Zheng Xin is not high.

3.In the process of reuniting the broken mirror, the influence of the external environment is a factor that cannot be ignored. The attitudes of their friends and family, as well as their social perceptions, can have a negative impact on the reunion. These external pressures will increase the mental burden on both sides.

4.Feelings after a broken mirror reunion often seem fragile and unstable. It is difficult to completely erase the scars of the past, and both sides will be constantly worried about the possibility of breaking the mirror again because of the difficulty of rebuilding trust. This kind of uneasy emotion will also affect the quality of the relationship.

5.If the mirror is broken again, the impact will be even more far-reaching. This may completely destroy the courage and confidence of both parties to love again, causing even more damage. Therefore, the risk of reuniting with a broken mirror is quite high.

So, in general, I'm cautious about the reunion relationship. If the relationship between the two parties is still deep, they understand each other, they have enough sincerity and courage to rebuild trust, and the external environment is relatively supportive, then the reunion may still be successful. But it takes a lot of effort, the results are not easy to predict, and there are risks.

Ideally, the relationship remains stable and does not fall into the situation of "broken mirror", which is the best result. Of course, the emotional matter ultimately depends on the will and efforts of the parties involved, and it is difficult for outsiders to make conclusions.

If he comes once, you won't be obedient.