Let your boyfriend feel that way, okay?

It's not a good thing, it's going to get farther and farther away.

Or will he be confused about me for a long time and want to stay away from me?!

When he says this to you, he is already tactfully saying, "I really don't understand you, what do you want from me?" ”

Why should women do this? Love, just good love. Don't play any confusing, fresh or stuffy games.

When a man who loves you is still trying to figure out your mind for a long time, he is still worried about whether you really love him. A man will feel tired and may give up if he exceeds his bottom line.

Some people often say that the two need to have a tacit understanding together! However, some people hide themselves deeply.

It means that he is tired with you.

Nowadays, all boys prefer gentle, virtuous, smart and well-behaved girls. I guess your boyfriend likes girls like that too. I don't know how old you are, the cute side of girls around 20 years old will be liked by all boys, but I don't know what you mean by maturity?

Personally, I feel that maturity is a little bit of accumulation as you get older. Maturity is not a pretentious performance, it is natural when you get older! So you have to learn to be well-behaved for him, and don't let yourself have so many facets!

If you've been multifaceted, it's not just your boyfriend, most boys can't resist. So you should know what kind of you your boyfriend likes the most, for him and for your happiness, so make some sacrifices, so that he will love you more! ~

Actually, it's good, it's too uninspiring to always be the same.

Don't keep thinking about how he is, just be yourself, he loves you and should love all of you, how can it be so complicated?

Be yourself whenever and wherever you want! Don't deliberately change yourself for the sake of others! People who can come together will not complain about each other's various things all day long, but will see his points, tolerate his shortcomings, and no one is perfect!

There are many kinds of people, and each person likes different types, and deliberately changing oneself can only hurt both parties!

Keep it simple; It is confusing and unpredictable; At the very least, there will be a distance; At least I'll find it boring; Slowly, you will be disgusted; Goodbye at the end;

He will feel that he can't catch you, and it will be difficult to reach a consensus based on not knowing you.

That's good, as long as you're dedicated to him!

It's not good, it's tiring. Specifically, it was explained by someone else.

You'll make him unpredictable! He will love you even more! Discover you!

1.Recognize the differences between men and women, learn to guide straight men to express women's thinking, and be more inclined to be rich and emotional. Linear thinking and goal-oriented thinking are actually the thinking characteristics of boys.

When you meet straight men, they often speak simply and directly, and if you also reply simply and directly, you will never know that quarrels will not wipe out the spark of love. So, when you know the difference in thinking between men and women, you must learn to consciously enrich your words so that straight men can learn to answer. For example, today you asked a guy out for dinner, and you liked him very much, but he didn't seem to be very interested in you, and he didn't mean to continue dating you.

At this point, you can take the initiative. Say to him, "The dress you are wearing today is quite good."

Straight men will reply: Yes, thank you. In this case, first, your emotions with each other are flat, and second, your topic is over again.

How should I say that? You can say: Hey, I found that you are quite good at wearing clothes, and you feel that it is particularly suitable for you when you change into this dress today, and show several advantages of your figure!

At this time, you arouse the boy's curiosity, and he will ask: Haha, what are the advantages? I don't know.

Did you feel that he was very excited about his high nuclear sleepiness, and he was also very curious and puzzled. We've mobilized each other's emotions, so how do we move on? You can reply directly to his merits, or you can take a detour:

Oops, such obvious advantages, don't you really know? If the other party is really straight, they may say: I don't know, you can tell me, I want to hear it.

At this time, we treat each other as if they really don't know.

If two people want to go long-term, the most important thing is to let each other"Comfortable"In addition to taking the initiative to love each other, two people should also share each other's lives, and know how to use these skills correctly The feelings between two people will heat up, so that they can go on happily and the relationship will get better and better. Love is a long-term business, not a short-term thing, and the most important way to get along with love for a long time is to make the other party feel comfortable by your side in order to go on. Love is a kind of fate, and it is a kind of fate to meet each other in the vast sea of people, which is originally a gift from God, so how can we make both parties feel comfortable and relaxed?

1. Respect each other and learn to listen. Respect for each other is the most basic way to get along between two people, two people want to break up the relationship more and more intimate to learn to encourage each other not to ridicule each other's shortcomings, the more intimate the more you know how to respect each other and listen to each other's voices appropriately, only in this way can two people develop well, mutual respect will make two people feel comfortable and down-to-earth, since two people choose to be together, it is equivalent to an individual. Whether the other person is happy or unhappy, we must learn to listen, help the other party solve, and give appropriate comfort, in the family, two people need to have an equal status, so that two people can feel grounded.

2. Care about each other's feelings. The most important thing in the relationship is to respect each other, you have to care about each other's hearts, love needs to be impulsive, too rational love will not last long. Two people are in love together so that each other can be happy, so no matter what, we have to care about each other's mood, only this will not cause disappointment and loss to the two people.

Men also have pain times, need women to care and care, when you are not feeling well, men also have to take care of women, otherwise there will be disappointment in the hearts of two people. Therefore, in life, we need to constantly care about each other and understand each other, only in this way can we develop for a long time, and will also make each other feel comfortable and at ease.

3. Everyone needs their own private space. Each of us is an independent individual with their own little secrets and space, so couples should not always control each other, which will make both people breathless and eventually suspicious, so we should give each other space, give space on the premise must not betray each other, once there is a little little thing in the relationship to doubt each other, such feelings will make two people become very tired, love will not last long. Therefore, as long as we trust each other enough to be comfortable, each of us wants to get along with someone who is comfortable, which is what we call the three views are appropriate.

I think a person who really loves you and won't leave you alone. Even if he has a job, he will smoke with you, shop together, and buy clothes together. He is willing to spend more money on you, and he is willing to make you feel his worries and apprehensions.

Those who truly love you will accept all your shortcomings.

Someone who truly loves you will accept everything about you. Because in his eyes, all your shortcomings are strengths. Just like he likes roses, he still likes roses and thorns.

There will always be some friction in everyone, but in the process of arguing, there will be compromises and hugs. It's going to be a long time, and there may be some time in the future. Some people say that love is a defect of tolerance.

The one who loves you will deceive you, not the one who loves you. So, don't be surprised, a person who truly loves you is a forgiving person. <>

Someone who truly loves you will do their best to cherish you.

In this world, there are too many people who smile at you, but too few who really appreciate you. Someone who genuinely cares about you may not say anything, but they will never give up. Those who value you will give you a headache; Those who don't value you will only consume you.

The happiest and most romantic thing in the world is that the person I'm with is still the same person. In fact, whether they are lovers or couples, as long as they truly love each other, they deserve our respect. After all, there are very few people in this world who really love us except for their parents.

Someone who truly loves you will be willing to take the initiative to bow their heads.

Couples sometimes have disagreements when they are together. Don't judge a man for not loving you because he fights with you. When everyone is angry, it's easy for people to lose their minds when they're angry.

Few people can remain calm in an argument and not be affected by emotions. If someone loves you, he will take the initiative to ask you for peace; Even if they are not wrong, he will admit his mistake to you first. What they admit is not the truth, but they make you angry and sad.

will remove their faces, take the initiative to recover, and reconcile with you, because they don't want you to be angry and cry secretly; Even if they win, they will be embarrassed to see you sad. <>

First, he will not hide your existence, take the initiative to introduce you to his family and friends, and your ** will often appear in the circle of friends. In love, a very important aspect of boys is to give girls a sense of security. A guy who really loves you, after he has you, he will definitely naively show off to others that you are his girlfriend, he will integrate you into his social circle and let everyone know about your existence, instead of pretending to be single in front of outsiders in order to develop an affair with other girls.

Second, he cares for you, loves you, and shows his thoughtfulness and love with practical actions. Many boys may be in the stage of drinking more hot water for their girlfriends, but a boy who really loves you, he will never just stop at verbal concern. He will remember your aunt's days, domineering and asking you not to drink cold water during this period, preparing you to warm your baby, brown sugar water, or even ibuprofen, or take you directly to the doctor to condition your body.

Third, put you first, report your whereabouts at all times, and unconditionally defend you under any circumstances.

When I celebrate my birthday, I always decorate my home carefully, I also prepare gifts in advance, I always plan well in advance when I travel, even when crossing the street, I will protect my side, and I will always keep my preferences in mind.

No matter what you do, they will tell you as soon as possible, and then on Valentine's Day or your birthday, they will give you gifts, and they will not lose their temper with you, they will respect your preferences, respect everything about you, work harder for you, and introduce you to family and friends.

In love, two people may look at each other with joy when they are in the sweet period, even if the other party has shortcomings, they think he is very good, but as they get along for a long time, the contradictions between the two people continue to arise, girls are more delicate, and they are easy to be cranky, and every move of the boy may affect their emotions, and my boyfriend ignores what I say, forgets his promises, and deceives himself will make me very uncomfortable, and even think about whether he likes me or not.

Sometimes we may tell him several things at the same time, but he only chooses the questions he thinks about and ignores some of them, which is very bad and makes people think that he is deliberately hiding something. And when you ask him why he doesn't have all his questions, he will say that they don't have any value, and he doesn't feel valued.

The thing that a girl in love cares about the most is that the other party forgets what she said, it may be when she is happy, she says it casually, it may be that the speaker is unintentional, the listener is intentional, he doesn't take it to heart, but he always remembers, he will be haunted, and he doesn't want to take the initiative to remind him, feeling like he is coming. He can not say those words, but when he does, he must remember and do them.

People in love should hate their other half for cheating on themselves, especially girls, they will be extra calculating, they will be more sensitive, and they are easy to think more, he is trying to hide something from himself in this way, and the next time there is a similar situation, you will wonder if he is lying to himself again.

The above is just a personal point of view, two people will get along very complicated, they may be angry because of some trivial things, the most worrying thing is that two people are sulking, no one is willing to take the initiative to communicate, so that the relationship between two people will become weaker and weaker, and such a love will become more and more tired. What are some of the things your boyfriend does that make you uncomfortable? Everyone is welcome to leave a message in the comment area to discuss.

He will do things without regard to my feelings, be rude to others outside, smoke and drink, and give advice to no avail, and always like to make excuses and shirk responsibility when doing wrong things.

If your boyfriend doesn't answer **, doesn't reply to messages, or doesn't defend you in front of your family and doesn't care about your feelings, this is very unacceptable, and there is financial concealment.