My boyfriend is like this, where should I go, and my boyfriend and I should go from here?

If he still loves you, you should make it clear to him, you can only choose one of the two of you, if he chooses an ex-girlfriend, it means that you are looking at the wrong person, if he still can't choose, or doesn't want to choose, I think you should be separated for a while, if he loves you in his heart, then he will understand who is his true love when he can't see you, then he will go to you himself, if not, then your fate is over, the boy is sometimes with his ex-girlfriend is not that he still loves his ex-girlfriend, It's just that he feels that as a man, he has a little guilt about his ex-girlfriend, and when he thinks it's over, he will return to you, don't worry, he loves you and wishes you happiness.

In fact, I also think that such a man can't be easily wanted, because you said that he thinks you are suitable to be a wife, but you live with your ex-girlfriend, so he should mean that your ex-girlfriend is a lover, and you are a wife, so you can tolerate it? You say he likes you, think about it, does a man who is still thinking about his ex-girlfriend be sincere to other women? You must not stoop to him first, at least until he completely disowns her ex-girlfriend.

Although you say that you have a good impression of him, and he is also very sincere to you, this is not the key to choosing a man, the key is whether he only has you in his heart, and does he care about your feelings? Think about it, I hope you are happy!

Break up quickly, all he cares about is that you can make money.

Deal with it decisively, and find a better one, there are thousands of men in the world, why bother looking for that green onion.

It's good to have an awakening.

Let's divide it quickly.

But I think his ex-girlfriend is shameful...

It is not right to look at feelings with horoscopes, and you must not believe them all. I don't feel that this man loves you, nor does he envision for you, he can live at home for his old girlfriend, this is already a big problem, why can this girl live in his house? And has your boyfriend ever wondered how you're feeling?

Will you be able to accept your boyfriend with his old girlfriend? It feels so complicated, if I choose to leave, this man is not worthy of your affection. There are better ones waiting for you.

I think you should know self-love and self-respect and your self-esteem, it's only been 2 months, how much do you know each other, can you understand the true meaning of love? He lives with his ex-girlfriend, so where are you and what is his thoughts, do you know what? I think it's better for you to give up and find your own happiness.

He doesn't deserve your love anymore, and even if he loves you, he's still with his girlfriend, isn't he? Do you think you'll be happy if you go on like this? Forget it, let it go, find someone who loves yourself more, and then you will be happy. Bless you.

Parted! Such a man, even if you get married in the future, may not cut off his idea of contacting his ex-girlfriend. Get out of it early.

If you should give up, give up decisively There are many more important things to do He can live with his ex-girlfriend Don't take you seriously What else is there to be nostalgic for.

Fool, do it yourself.

Don't, such a man who swings back and forth emotionally is unreliable.

I think you should tell him that I'm not your spare tire, even if you love him, don't wait for him so stupidly, what's the matter, since he loves you, why is he still entangled with his ex-girlfriend, this shows that he doesn't love you enough, if he really cares about you, he won't be with his ex-girlfriend, because he's afraid of losing you, obviously he doesn't love you enough, I hope you understand.

Or break up, this man is just cheating on you, what appreciates your independence is lying to you, why can he support his ex-girlfriend and not support you, let him go! Such a man doesn't say that he doesn't have a car or a house, even if he has a car and a house, he can't keep up!

Break up, dignity is important, go watch "Jane Eyre".

If you didn't make a mistake, then divide it.

Analyze it from the hesitation you are showing now.

First, you don't have confidence in yourself, you don't have confidence in your feelings, because you've spent eight years in separation, and you have feelings for each other, but your feelings for each other don't match the outside world.

Second, because you have too many unrealistic illusions about the other person, you can go to graduate school or become a doctorate. But don't let love become a symbol of position, let alone force love, it is precisely because you always fantasize about the impossible wish that leads to your hesitant and doubtful temperament. It also leads to a lack of security.

Thirdly, you are too dependent on sexual character. Mom and Dad's advice is always a reference, you don't want to affect your correct grasp because of a reference, but you are such a person, you want to be happy is Mom and Dad's or your own, how much Mom and Dad know about their boyfriends, they have social experience, but this experience is just a reference.

Fourth, you are very rational, but your rationality only expands your hesitant temperament, and rationality is to make objective choices through objective analysis.

Okay, I think you should understand what to do. Don't ask me what to do, I'm just telling you what you want to know, and it's up to you what to do, we're all outsiders who don't know the inside story.

Think from your own point of view, and never think from the other side's side.

Objectively speaking, you are indeed in early love, and you have indeed affected his performance in the college entrance examination, because "if it weren't for the fact that I was prevented from transferring to other places to borrow from him, I might not even be able to pass the second exam." ”

Moreover, he was also admitted to a key high school. Therefore, his parents always thought that you caused his son's future to be in jeopardy, but in fact, this is objectively the reason. Maybe you're not subjectively at fault.

You and him are in love subjectively, and it is not like causing him to fail in the college entrance examination, but in fact, how can people who are in a relationship not be affected at such a critical moment in the college entrance examination. So, objectively, you did cause harm, whether you admit it or not, it's a fact. Moreover, you and his parents have deep prejudices against each other.

You think they don't think well of you, but they think you hurt his son. In any case, you need to calm down. Either way, your actions are at fault.

The solution is simple. The fact has been made, you have to take the initiative to persuade your boyfriend. Study hard, is it possible to be admitted to a graduate school (a better school) in the future, and encourage him to improve.

At the same time, it is a strategy to take the initiative to show favor to your future in-laws. Let them know:

1, you didn't mean it back then, just because you loved their son, is there a mistake in love?

2. Things are already like this, we can no longer resent each other, but should find a way to solve it. The failure of the college entrance examination may be remedied by other means.

3. Take the initiative to show goodwill, improve your relationship with them, and make them think that you are a sensible and good girl, and it is very good to be a daughter-in-law in the future. Knowledgeable, can run the house, knows how to hurt people, and is very good to his son and them.

4. You should also be motivated, and you should study and work hard.

5. If you need to succeed, you may need the support of a friend.

6. You may also need the support of your own parents.

Good luck. People should understand each other and consider problems from each other's point of view.

Blaming others won't solve the problem, it will only make the result worse. Plan well. How hard you try!

I don't see how sincere you are. If you are sincere, you will bear the pressure with him and convince your parents together. He was right, choose him and you won't lose your parents.

Choose your parents and you will lose him. You can have a career, if you don't even dare to fight for your feelings, what else can you talk about fighting for your career!?

Don't add any additional questions, I don't want to talk to you.

The main reason is that I don't have confidence in the future. I don't believe that he can always be good to you like this, and I think it's not worth it to gamble like this.

It's up to you. It's not that I love or not, but whether I can give up the possible broader sky for him. Do you believe that he can always be good to you like this, and will he go further and further because of the gap between the two people.

The matter between the two of you really has nothing to do with your parents. Your parents' current attitude is actually your subconscious attitude. If they think that you really have the determination and the belief to go with him, they will definitely not be like this.

It's all about your attitude. Think about what you want clearly, it's not that you can't do anything with him, the career and relationship of two people don't have much to do with it. Now you can get married even in college, you don't have to wait until you graduate from graduate school to get married.

The point is that you are afraid of an uncertain future. If he can't give you a lifetime of happiness, at least you still have your own career. So think clearly and decide, and don't regret deciding.

It's not about loving or not loving, but to what extent.

People have to face many choices in their lives, and sometimes you don't know which way to go, and it is still difficult to distinguish between the superior and the inferior after weighing left and right for a long time. In fact, it may be because both of these options are good, so it is difficult to choose. It's like looking for a job or going to graduate school, maybe it's good to choose one in the future.

Regarding the problems you are facing now, I personally feel that you are obviously not as firm as you think, not so emotional, and you have not thought of resisting the opposition of your family. As soon as the pressure comes from both parties, you will be confused. So, think about what exactly you want and how you want to be in the future.

If you think about it, you will naturally solve the problem.

As a final word, time solves all problems.

I advise you to think carefully about life events, love and marriage are two different things, and in such a short period of time, you are all together, and it is difficult to determine what your future path is.

When two people are together, they must not only love each other, but also have common values and worldview, otherwise it feels difficult to maintain a relationship for a long time.

I think your world is too narrow, you can make a few more friends, so that with a contrast, you will know that it is more suitable for you.

And is it really worth betraying your family for your boyfriend? Would a boyfriend who loves you make you give up your family for his own sake? Besides, your parents are very good to you, right?

Think about it, cut through the mess quickly, it may hurt now, but you will be happier in the future.

Whether the other party can't meet your requirements, or because of identity issues