What is the psychology of the current warm man?

It may be related to his own living habits, since he was a child, he was in a relatively harmonious environment, so he will develop a very good temper, so that he is a warm man in the eyes of others for a long time, and there is actually no special psychology.

The warm man became a scumbag in the end. First of all, let's look at what is a warm man? Good to people, enthusiastic, careful This is the definition of a warm man, but a warm man is not equal to a bad good person, women like the kind of careful, gentle Korean Oba warm man, not a warm man who looks like a greasy uncle of 300 pounds, who is very important.

It may be because of the needs of reality, everyone likes warm men, so give up the image of the emotional imbecile tough guy in the past, and face their other half in an equal way and with an open attitude, even from the most practical point of view, we have to admit that the masculinity shaped in the traditional way is less and less applicable in this era when respecting individual autonomy and equal communication between each other has become more and more a consensus.

One of the great weapons for scumbags to attract women is that they often understand the psychology of women, and they know and are particularly good at doing what they like, so that many female friends think that these scumbags know themselves best, know themselves best, and understand themselves best.

A responsible, considerate, connotative, and money-making man. The warm man is also conditional, not warm to everyone, the warm man who is willing to be you at least says that he likes you very much, but it is not convenient to confess or other reasons.

The so-called warmth in the heart, the prevalence of warm men means that the whole society has a new definition of male needs, the original to be cool, rich as the main pursuit of the goal, now, the understanding of men, delicate emotional communication needs are getting stronger and stronger.

Now Nuan Nan, I think they just have bad intentions. Why do you want to be a warm man, a warm man is to be good to all girls. If you have a partner, and you want to be a warm man, then you are a scumbag.

The biggest characteristic of hyper-sanity is to avoid emotional involvement, giving people a cold feeling, because too much emotional involvement will reduce efficiency, and the more the environment and pressure demand, the more rational people will become.

It may be that the level of education they receive determines their actions, because in some remote areas, it can be seen that there are still a large number of people who are still more discriminatory against women and do not take them seriously.

A love is always a little warm in the green, and there is sweetness in the warmth. Love is a medium that brings two strangers of the opposite sex from not knowing each other together; Falling in love is a way to release the hormones that two people match each other to the optimal ratio; Love is a kind of emotional release that can always accompany you even if you are incompetent.

That time I was sick, I had a serious feeling, a fever, and I met my aunt again, the whole person was uncomfortable, almost fainted to death in the dormitory, fortunately my roommate found out early, but I was a female man, or a strong man, my roommate couldn't move, my boyfriend actually in order to avoid the dormitory aunt, climbed the window to carry me out, but when he carried me out, he was completely ignorant of the aunt's warning, stunned to carry me to the school infirmary, the doctor said that fortunately came early, otherwise the dehydration would be serious and he would have to shock and coma. The story is not over, he knows that I can't do housework, I am sick and I can't eat school meals, he knows that I like to drink fish soup, so he took the risk of tripping in the dormitory, and cooked bowls of fish head soup for me, in order to avoid the "surveillance" of the dormitory manager, he had to sneak into our dormitory building every time when my aunt went out to get food, help me bring fish soup and meals, help me wash my clothes, serve me properly, and finally had to sneak out when my aunt went out to wash the dishes, I was sick for 7 days, He's coming for a week. Later, I learned that he didn't know how to cook rice and soup at all, and that bowl of fish soup was made by him after skipping class a few times, burning a few pots, jumping a few times in the dormitory, and burning a few fuses.

In addition to these, my boyfriend is not only a warm man, but also a Pisces boy who knows how to be romantic! On my birthday, in order to celebrate my birthday, he tried all kinds of personal relationships to help me capture the school's Hui infiltration Qi radio station, the radio station that evening, ** songs are my favorite to listen to, and the songs I like to listen to are the type he doesn't like, the radio station that day, the supporter has not said a word, the whole audience is talking about it, the radio station of that day, there are common memories of our love for 1 year and 5 months, from meeting, acquaintance, acquaintance, to love, mutual deep dependence, everything, All in the radio that day, to the whole school**, at that time was caught by the teacher who managed the radio station, I thought the teacher would have a demerit to criticize the education, but the teacher was so grateful for our love, in fact, it was mainly because of my boyfriend's heart-warming behavior, and did not punish it, on the contrary, it also gave us a big shout!

Our story continues, the future love life continues, his warm heart still warms my heart, his sweetness, still sweet my heart, I believe that ten or eight years later, when I see this question and answer, I will be moved by the words I wrote at the beginning, warm love. Touched two!

The care and attention given to you by the other person will warm you for the rest of your life!

A warm man usually refers to a sunny boy who is meticulous and considerate, can take care of the family and the wild, can cook, and more importantly, can understand and empathize with other people's emotions well. Yuliang treats people and sells and shouts kindness, generosity and tolerance.

What is a warm man? Is it really good to warm a man's pure hand shed?

What is Warm Man?

In general, the traditional society thinks that men are arrogant, only concerned about big things, and are not informal. For a woman, who is more delicate and sensitive emotionally, she needs someone who pays attention to details and gives her warm feelings in small places. The warm man is exactly this.

"Warm Men" will care about your needs, your feelings, and will express love to you.

Whether it's society or people around you, they are keen to sell different types of "good men" as a solution. For example, how to control men, how to find good men, what kind of man is a good man blahblahbla. For example, TV dramas, movies, romances**, social news and even blind date programs are all interpreted according to the logic of "a woman with various difficulties meets a good man and lives a happy life from then on".

This kind of care is still based on the most traditional gender positioning: women are weak, emotional, and will not take care of themselves. So it's up to the warm man to judge what you need, and the way of expression is often superficial.

The paradox is that this is still based on the logic of patriarchy, and machismo and paternalism are two sides of the same coin. That's right, it's an illusion, and the essentialized "good man" doesn't exist.

Is Warm Man Really Good?

The warm man who tells you to put on socks today can tell you not to eat this or do that tomorrow because of the control freak who is "good for you"; The "pure guys" who beat people today because you are being bullied may yell at you tomorrow because they suspect that you are in love with someone else.

Therefore, what women need is not a "good man", but a society that allows women to "live with dignity", as well as interpersonal relationships that recognize women's values and needs, and legal mechanisms that can bring justice to women. It all seems very far away, but there is already a lot of feminism in the West that is fighting for it and is already bringing about visible change. If you feel that you need someone who will stand by your side on this long road, who knows how to treat you like an adult and understand the injustices you face.

You don't need a warm man, but a feminist, whether he's a man or a woman, one or more.

It can be from 4 aspects, mainly not good for other women, just good to you, remember your preferences, remember what you said, in daily life, will care about you and take care of you, when there is a conflict, he will let you go back to you.

1. It's not good for other women, it's just good for you

Don't think that a man has been courteous to you twice, he just likes you, and he is a warm man, but that may not be, he also depends on how he treats other women. If he does the same for other women, then he is not a warm man. Only what is good for you is your warm man, and what is good for everyone, that is just ** air conditioner.

2. Remember your preferences and remember what you said

A caring warm man, he is always very attentive, will remember what you like, what you don't like, and even remember the words you have inadvertently told him. In life, he will be very spontaneous, always buy what you like, order what you like to eat, and do the things for you that you crave but don't ask him for.

3. In daily life, I will care about you and take care of you

A man with a warm masculine temperament, he will prepare breakfast for you, he will make brown sugar water for you when your aunt is your aunt, he will remind you to bring an umbrella on a rainy day, he will buy medicine for you when you have a cold, and he will pick you up from work from time to time. He will give you every kind of care and take care of you like a child.

4. When there is a conflict, he will let you

When there is a conflict with you, all kinds of men who fight with you and are not willing to let you go at all, he doesn't know how to warm you. A real warm man, he is always willing to let you in various ways, even if you are wrong, he will not argue with you. For him, it's good that you're happy, and it doesn't matter who wins and who loses.

His behavior is someone who makes you feel warm.