I want to love someone, I want to love her well, but I don t like it, how can you say I am like this

IMHO: you don't love her anymore. I'm guessing the situation

You once loved her, or thought you loved her, or seemed to love her, at least liked her, and now you want to love her well, or even love her well for a lifetime, that is because you feel sorry for her, and this sense of guilt causes you to even hate her, but because of the guilt, you force yourself to "love" her and compensate with "love". So, you're in an awkward dilemma.

If this is the case, what you are doing is very wrong and dangerous. What love needs most is mutual sincerity, and love can neither be obtained by charity, nor can it be given by charity. This false love of yours not only makes you miserable, but also deceives and insults her, and will inevitably end in a painful blow, and you are willing to make amends, but you will owe more in the end.

So the best thing you know right now is: treat her as it is.

I don't understand this feeling.

If you love it, you will have it with all your heart, why don't you like it? ]

Maybe you're just after love itself?

Not a loved one.

I think it's other feelings not love, if you don't love her and still be together, you will hurt her.

No, ......It shows that the two of you are actually not very suitable, the twisted melon is not sweet, and there is barely happiness.

Mature love needs to be run-in.

Will it still feel like this? Love is faint like! ~

Just like now, keep the relationship, but don't talk about love, encourage each other, study hard, and when the time comes, naturally, it will come naturally.

Then just wait. If she likes you, maybe because she's shy, she'll definitely give you a little hint. If she doesn't like you, she doesn't want to hurt you, which means that she still cares about you, and it's not bad to maintain this current relationship!

If you really like it, change her, or change yourself.

Then you can only like her silently... Do something more for her... The girl said that she didn't want to fall in love, it was all an excuse.,That's because she doesn't like you to pull.。。。

She treats you as a friend and classmate, she is not lonely, and she needs enough love. She has her own ideas, and she may feel that she is not old enough, or she is afraid that it will affect her studies.

It's not bad to really love to keep this relationship all the time. After all, junior high school is the age when love calves are just starting to bloom.

Brother, let me tell you clearly, people's feelings are selfish, selfish, and will do whatever it takes for their desires, and when we really need to live and die together, what is eternal, what sea is dry and rocky, and what water drops and rocks, has become a hypocritical language, a meaningless and cold symbol...But then again, in a person's life, it is really not easy to meet a confidant, a true love, since love is to love deeply, boldly say it to her, confess your inner thoughts, and your attitude, how to do it, you can only rely on yourself, I can only help you so much....Good luck and good luck....

Since people say they don't want to talk about it now, then you can wait, and you can also figure out if you really like her during this time of waiting, and if you really like it, then continue to wait, and if you don't like it, take the opportunity to let go, after all, you are only in junior high school now.

Maybe she doesn't want to be in love yet! It's not good to reject you outright.

If you really can't give up, after all, you are still in junior high school, and you are still young, and you will meet a good one when the time comes!

Then don't talk about it, falling in love will be distracting.

Adolescence is normal If you like her until a few years later, it will be a matter of time before someone else is yours. Now you like people, but what about after high school and college? Be calm! Do you need to know how to grasp it? -

She doesn't like you right now.

She's willing to talk to you now maybe just like, you like how she feels.

Feelings can't be forced. If he has a little affection, then he can work hard to be impressed.

If you love her, let it go. He doesn't love you, you will'Burden her.

Two people together to put it bluntly just feel appropriate. It's not like you're together if you want to be together. However, sometimes there are many things that do not bloom when the flowers are planted intentionally, and there are many things that are unintentionally planted in the willow shade.

Be a normal friend and approach her first.

Try to chase her! If you are patient and strong, you will definitely succeed, girls are easy to be moved!

I think ha, this kind of thing can't be forced, and you're no worse than others, so why do you have to whisper down to live with someone who doesn't like you, why bother, live like a man, and when you're really good, there will be more choices, and then it's you who choose, and now you can only be chosen, and it may not be possible to be selected. You say yes or no.

Use your actions to tell her that you care about her and are willing to give everything for him, and move her.

Make yourself better, usually love and care about her more, and stick to it.

First of all, how much do you like it, or how much are you willing to work hard for her. Then decide what to do.

Let's slowly integrate into her life.

Are you male or female? He didn't know the difference.

Then take your time and try to move her.

Make yourself better! It's a must.

First of all, you have to make sure that she likes you, some girls are more shy. If you really don't feel good for you, try to chase her and set a deadline for yourself, and after the deadline, she still doesn't like you, then give up.

That touched her, how nice it was for her.

Some people just don't get it and think it's a treasure, and they get it as a grass, and they have to measure this person with love.

Be confident in yourself, and one day she will be touched by you.

Chase her, use all means, and give up if it doesn't work.