What you used to think of as a good friend is now busy, do you feel lonely?

Updated on workplace 2024-03-05
10 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    When we grow up, we will feel more and more lonely, even if we are friends who can be good enough to wear a pair of pants, but now they are all going their separate ways, doing their own things, although there is occasional contact, but there is no enthusiasm at all, and we will not talk about everything as we did at the beginning, as if everyone has their own circle, and I can no longer fit in. Sometimes, on a long vacation, I want to make an appointment with everyone, but you have your business, he has his business, and you can't get it together anymore.

    I did feel lonely at that moment. I used to think of myself as a very popular person, I had a lot of friends, and I had a few very good games, so I always felt that I was a person who would never experience the loneliness of not having friends. But it turned out that I was wrong, and my ideas were defeated by reality.

    Everyone has to work, they are all pursuing their dreams, they have become snobbish, and it is no longer as simple as it was at the beginning, so every time they say they want to get together, but in the end they fail.

    I would feel lonely, but what could I do? I'm not the richest person in the world, and I can't say that you don't have to work hard, I'll support you, so I understand their efforts and understand their current indifference, after all, everyone wants to have a better life, everyone wants to take their careers to the next level, so everyone chooses to give up their emotional lives. So as one of them, I'm not qualified to stop you, and I hope you can have a good success.

    It's just that I understand now that people are lonely, even if you are happily frolicking with a group of friends now, but you can't deny that you are lonely, friends will not be by your side all the time, you will not be accompanied by someone every minute, we must learn to enjoy loneliness and enjoy alone time.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I used to think of good friends, but now I'm busy, and I'm normal. After all, life is like this, if you don't work hard, you may be left behind, and you will naturally make yourself very aggrieved, so you can only work hard, and I won't feel lonely because of this.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You don't feel lonely, because a good friend is just about not being in touch for a long time. After contacting again, they will definitely be very familiar, and if you have any difficulties, they will definitely help you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    As people become more mature and have more and more things on their own, they will definitely not be able to get together and play together every day as they were when they were young. But true friends don't become estranged by not being in touch for a long time, and maybe they will step up to help you when you need help.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Occasionally, I feel this way, but when you grow up, you have to learn to deal with loneliness, and everyone is busy with their own things, as long as you keep in touch and care for each other when you have time.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I won't feel lonely, everyone has their own things to do, boyfriends need to have their own careers to work hard, and it's impossible to accompany you all day, you should learn to find something to do when you're so old, and you can raise cats and dogs if you feel lonely.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I will feel lonely, and often recall the bits and pieces of being together, but we must also recognize the reality that everyone has their own life, and we should adapt and have our own direction of struggle.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    No, I'm still going to have good new friends, and I'm not short of friends, so for me, they're just what I crave, but I also hope I'm not bad either.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Yes, after all, everyone used to play very well, and then they didn't get in touch, and they really can't say the feeling, it's better to keep in touch more, otherwise the good friends who really waited until that step are now strangers who can't speak.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's normal. Because I am too.

    You can be lonely without friends, especially when you're away from home for school or working outside the home. Not everyone can endure living alone, eating hot pot alone, watching movies alone, preparing for the college entrance examination alone, so cloudy, no friends, it is indeed a bit lonely, watching others laugh and talk about the world, a feeling of "happiness is all other people's and I have nothing" will arise.

    When friends are around, it will add fun to your boring life, but if you are not your real friends, but only friends who have a good relationship with you on the surface (I don't generally think of them as friends), you get superficial temporary pleasure is something that fills your dry mind, and that kind of friend just makes you look more gregarious, in fact, everyone knows these things in their own hearts.

    In short, the most important thing to do in this kind of thing is to think clearly about what is right and wrong, what is more important, and the degree of how to get along. Although you are lonely, you have gained more and more long-term things, and you choose superficial relationships and get into relationship disputes, but you cannot have long-term happiness. Think about it and make your choice.

    The reason why you choose to ask questions has proven that this matter or more specifically interpersonal relationships are annoying you, it is better to be firm, learn to make trade-offs, and let go of the things that make you guess and annoy, and don't be overly entangled. People are responsible for themselves.

    Of course, it's not about completely giving up on so-called friends (you can do it if you want), you can reduce contact, maintain a normal atmosphere, and don't take this too seriously.

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