The blind date has no money, the job is average, but it is good to me, do I still accept it?

It should not be accepted, and it should be given up. The blind date has no money and has an average job, which means that the person is not very capable. A man is incapable, although he is very good to you, he still has to give up, and it is recommended to block it.

Many people will think that such a girl is a money worshipper, but in fact, this is not the case. From the law of natural development, males will become strong through species selection, and females will choose excellent genes through their own charm, and bad genes will be eliminated in the process of development. Although human society is not so cruel, competition is always there.

Survival of the fittest, natural selection is the law of nature.

Nowadays, our society is developing rapidly, and there are many opportunities for development. We once thought that only high education had high income, but ** broke this prediction, once we thought that people from the countryside were people without money, but Douyin broke this prediction. If a man really works hard and keeps forging ahead, why can't he find a place in this society?

Behind his lack of money and ability is laziness and lack of progress. Shouldn't such a man give up?

The road of life is very long, and there are many things to face in the future, if a person chooses to give up and escape in the face of difficulties, how can such a person take on the responsibility of the family and do what the husband should do after becoming a husband?

It is not terrible for a person to lose money, but it is terrible to lose the enthusiasm for the struggle in life, as well as hope for the future life. Nowadays, there are many older people who are working hard, such as Chu Cheng, which was founded by Chu Shijian, and Ma Yun, who has never retired. And being a young person, but easily giving up, admitting that he is not capable of not changing, such a person is not worth entrusting.

I believe that you will meet that person who will truly make you happy in the future!

Since they met on a blind date, they can't talk about feelings, so don't accept it in order to have a good life in the future.

Be sure to think carefully. I can only tell you: all feelings, all happy life, are built on a certain economic foundation. There are no castles in the sky.

I think we should think carefully, there is a sentence called poor couples mourn everything, and you have to think about the days to come.

Take a look at your own status, and if it's about the same, don't dislike others.

Two days ago, a friend went on a blind date and met a boy she liked very much, but the boy didn't like him, and she has been hesitating to take the initiative to fight for it again?

Of course, we have to fight for it. Happiness is in your own hands.

There are two outcomes of blind dates: holding hands with fate, and not seeing each other again. It's a rare thing to meet the person you like on a blind date.

But you didn't like you and rejected you, did you give up or take the initiative to pursue? My advice is: as long as you think it is necessary, give yourself a chance, and at the same time give the other person a chance to understand yourself deeply, and take the initiative to pursue, but before you take the initiative to pursue, you have to do two things:

1. Carefully analyze the real reasons for the rejection of blind dates. Is it your own economic conditions, education, family background, and poor appearance? Or was he unable to speak and was too angry? Find out the cause and solve the problem.

2. Actively communicate. It is normal for a blind date to be rejected, and it is necessary to treat it correctly and not be discouraged. On a blind date for the first time, what both parties see is only an appearance, and what they know about each other is only some basic information.

Whether two people are suitable or not can only be known if they get along sincerely and have an in-depth understanding.

Of course, there are skills in taking the initiative.

First of all, when you have the opportunity to meet, you need to wear your favorite clothes every day, you don't need to be too grand, clothes are your visible language expression, and the more everyday you are, the more you can show the most authentic you. Don't touch up your makeup in front of a boy, makeup is a woman's intimate elegance, and if you want to touch up your makeup, just say: Excuse me, go to the bathroom.

Always keep smiling, don't laugh.

The next step is to chat, it is recommended to find the intersection of horoscopes and interests, these two topics are not only good extensions, but also can quickly get a lot of information about each other. Then you can silently match your three views in your heart. Taboo negative energy, the other party's privacy, relationship history, and outlook on life.

As a final step, paying the bill is a key point, and it is recommended that you gracefully take out your wallet and say "let's AA" at the end of the date. Guys usually say no, and by this time, your image as an independent woman is already in place.

After the blind date, bear the brunt of it, manage your circle of friends well, send more of your own life dynamics and **, convey some positive energy, and he can continue to breed a good impression of you through the mobile phone screen.

If the other party still makes it clear that they reject you, don't stalk them, face the reality bravely, respect the other person's decision, and send your own blessings to the other person. We must firmly believe that the rejection of a blind date is not a blow, let alone a disaster, but a self-reflection and self-motivation. In view of their own shortcomings and deficiencies, strengthen learning, work hard, and constantly improve their abilities to make themselves better.

There is a plane tree at home, and there is a phoenix at home. I believe that in the near future, there will be people who truly love you and people you really love are waiting for you.

When the blind date you like doesn't take a fancy to you, you can communicate with him at this time, ask him why he didn't like him, if he can correct it, he will correct it, if he can't correct it, don't force it, you can also be a friend with him.

Blind dates are fast-paced. So slow heat can wait for death. There are always people who complain that blind dates have a strong purpose.

Analysis: The purpose of the blind date was originally to get married. Is it to come out and meet more friends?

What everyone says is that if you go on a blind date, you should know friends, and if you don't become a husband and wife. It is also possible to become an ordinary friend. So now you think about yourself.

Are you and your former blind date still friends? And how many are still in touch? Suddenly one day.

2. This must be a bit vulgar to say. But it's a fact.

Blind dates must depend on economic conditions. Otherwise, the blind date man has thought about the woman's parents. Parents can't be blamed for this. Parents also want their children to have a better life. Since it's a blind date. There is no emotional foundation. Why not look for a good one?

3. The boy didn't take a fancy to you. Generally just one reason. The appearance did not meet his requirements.

Depending on the man. The requirements are also different. There are highs and lows. Can't get past the first hurdle. Men don't know what you're inside at all. Settle your inner good.

The people you like don't like you, and the people you like don't like. Let it be, you can't force it.

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Your question is clear to me. Then, the economic transactions in love, unless there is a clear definition of their nature as borrowing, or temporary use, do not need to be returned.

What should I do if I find that it is not suitable for my blind date, but I spent his money and I have no money to pay him back.

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Your question has been cleared to me. The sedan chair is bright, and the economic transactions in love, unless there is a clear definition of its nature as a loan, or temporary use, then there is no need to return the key sedan car.

It also depends on the size of this amount here. If the other party has a large amount of expenses, similar to a bride price, then it may need to be returned. You can try to tell the specific situation of spending money to staring at Xiaoshen, and I can give you accurate advice based on the actual situation.

If it's just, 520 and other red envelopes, which belong to the other party's voluntary and voluntary gifting behavior, do not need to be returned, and the other party has no right to entangle you.

Under normal circumstances, if it is just a blind date, there should not be a lot of economic exchanges, and the basic condition for the existence of exchanges is almost to determine a certain relationship, which is to fall in love. Therefore, the economic exchange here needs to be defined according to the specific situation, and the nature of this economic exchange needs to be clarified. Only in this way can the suspicion be rooted in the root of the corruption and determine whether the money needs to be repaid.

There are 10,000 bride price money, a few thousand borrowed and 2,000 he gave, what should I do if I can't pay it back for the time being.

What a good way to solve it.

If there is a clear statement that it is the nature of the loan, the nature of the duan and the bride price, this will definitely need to be returned, and the relevant provisions are also beneficial to the other party, then it is somewhat difficult to combine the current situation, which can only be negotiated with the other party, and the repayment of the loan can be suspended. But there is no initiative, and the consent of the other party is required.

Of course, this is definitely not a reason to continue to get along with each other, and you can't force yourself to get along for the sake of this. Therefore, the other party does not have the right to impose demands.

Summary. Hello, dear, since it is not suitable for him, you can directly tell him that I have no money to pay you back at present, and I will pay it back when my economic situation is better.

Hello, dear, since it is not suitable for him, you can directly tell him that I have no money to pay you back at present, and I will pay it back when my economic situation is better.

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In. Hello, dear, how long have you been with your blind date?

I'm embarrassed to say that we're not fit to say that we met on December 10th.

Hello, dear, I met on the 10th for a few days.

Did he buy the money for you to spend, or did you ask him to borrow it.

That's right. I didn't borrow money from him, and sometimes my sister asked me to go shopping with him, and he bought me what I said casually.

Hello, dear, what do you feel is not suitable for him?

Personality and age, right?,Pat Pai crack he's 10 years older than me, and I can't talk about a lot of things.,And he can't afford to make a joke about me when I usually say a joke.,But he's always joking with Hecong.,I don't know how to face him.。

Hello, dear, it's actually not appropriate, the teacher feels that you should tell people earlier.

I don't think it's too demanding, it's just that you haven't met the right person yet. Blind date is an inevitable process for many people's lives, and when you embark on this road, no one can give an accurate answer to when you can meet the right person. I don't think you need to doubt your criteria for choosing a mate until you meet the right person.

A person's criteria for choosing a mate are always changing, but they always have their own bottom line in their hearts. When I was in school, I always thought that cute girls were the most attractive, but when I entered the society, I felt that the beauty of the soul was the real beauty. This may be because of the change in my personal state, or because my psychology is slowly maturing, but there is always one constant requirement that I want the other person to be a kind person.

Everyone in real life, with their own constant changes, the criteria for choosing a mate are also constantly changing. This standard may be raised or lowered, but everyone has their own principles and bottom line. This is an insurmountable psychological barrier.

It's just that in many cases, many people don't realize what their bottom line is.

I don't think it's a problem with being too demanding, it's a problem with the group you're going to be with. When you go on a blind date, the person who helps introduce the partner is probably the relatives and friends next to you. However, in this fast-paced era, a person's circle of friends is limited after all, and the circle of friends and relatives is often not too large, which leads to the fact that the target group that can be selected on a blind date is not too large.

When you feel that you have not met the right person in the blind date process, it is indeed very necessary to reflect on your mate selection criteria, but in the current situation, I do not think that changing the mate selection criteria can make you find happiness, but stick to this standard, and change a blind date group, which may make it easier for you to find a partner.

If that's not easy to understand, I can give you an example. If you work in a factory and you always want the other person to be an urban beauty, this is obviously not in line with your actual situation. Because you don't have access to that circle at all, it's hard for your friends and relatives to get in touch with that circle.

When encountering a problem like yours, there are only two ways to solve it, one is to change your mate selection criteria, but to improve yourself and strive to change to a blind date group. For most young people, I think the latter option is the best option.

Even in real life, it takes a long time for everyone to find the right person after participating in a blind date. This may be a process of constant blows, but as long as you are willing to work hard to change yourself, as long as you can become better and better, you have to believe that love will come to you one day.

Work hard to improve yourself, this is the shortcut you can get out of singleness.