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Objectively speaking, some of your father's practices are not so proper

But a man's self-esteem is maintaining his dignity and prestige as a father In fact, anyone who has had this experience when they are young Learn to understand their parents and tolerate them

After all, when they survive, work hard, and maintain their families in society, they also have to bear a lot of pressure

The love of parents is very practical, giving you a stable life for you to study, which is already a lot of love It's just that the trivialities and pressures in real life have made them forget to pay attention to the inner world of their children This should be the direction that many parents should strive to, learn to understand their children, encourage their children, and tolerate their children Don't focus too much on some of the practices of their parents, although their behavior is sometimes a little extreme, but no one is perfect, even if it is their own parents, there must be something wrong But no matter what, Both your parents love you

You yourself also have to learn to grow slowly, learn to understand and tolerate adults, and face the unhappiness in life with an open mind

I understand your situation, but I don't agree with you, I am also a father, and I will not say and do like your father. If your narrative is true, there is no doubt that your father's approach is wrong, and that the relationship between fathers and the next generation should be equal friends first and foremost, and elders second. It has nothing to do with whether you have an economy or not.

Since your family has a car, it should be said that it is still a very good economic condition. Maybe your father didn't take the problem that seriously. He shouldn't mean to insult your personality.

It's just that your father doesn't know how to deal with how to communicate with the next generation.

Parents are also like this sometimes, in a bad mood, thinking that you are deliberately mischievous, maybe you have a different view on this matter than your parents.

They don't even think it's impossible, so how can their children be autistic? Either that's the doctor there's something wrong with it.

You said so much, but it's actually all family trivialities. It's not as serious as the personality and social status you said. A harmonious family needs everyone to create it together.

For example, if you mentioned the vinegar pot for example, you are doing it wrong. When holding a pot, you generally have to hold the body of the pot. And it has to be flat.

You can't lift the cover. Even if it is not tightly screwed, it will not spill on the ground.

Every parent is from the beginning of the ignorance to understanding, what should parents do? Don't use the ideas of the older generation to suppress the younger generation. I remember watching a show where the girl said this:

When I was young, I followed my mother's thoughts, and now my mother follows my thoughts, the times are changing, each of us is changing, but the filial piety to my mother will never change.

In fact, what she said is very simple, which means that when you are young, you don't know anything, what parents say your child should do, the child should not interfere when he grows up with his own thoughts, give the child an independent space, parents should not blindly pave the way for their children, let the children struggle will find that their children are not worse than others, it turns out that being a parent is so simple, as long as you empathize, don't spoil your children too much, love your children and spoil your children is different, I hope mine will help you.

We are parents sometimes more sloppy, and we may not really understand what our children want, and impose some ideas on our children, but I believe that every parent is trying to change, and will definitely get better and better.

Now parents can't just let them be fed and clothed like before, because now the starting point of children is relatively high, so in addition to taking care of food and daily life, we should also pay attention to cultural learning, and the all-round development of morality, intelligence and body.

1.The child who lives in the school will be alienated from his parents, so he should chat more or take him out to play and go shopping during the holidays. More contact than children is the best way to deal with rebellion.

2.When a child makes a mistake and criticizes it a little, the most important thing is to help him analyze the reasons and let him recognize that this needs to be talked about for a long time.

3.There must be a process of adaptation to everything, quit Internet addiction, change bad habits slowly, and reward him when he makes a little progress, but don't clarify the reward system with him to urge him to learn to work and change his problems.

4.When encountering a dispute, listen to the child's opinion, find out the inappropriate points from his words, and discuss and resolve it.

5.Be encouraged, don't reward, don't pressure, and tell him that you can do it if he has parental support.

6.In adolescence, children do not know much about the opposite sex and physical development, and parents should take the initiative to help them understand, which is a permanent job and should be adhered to.

7.For children who have a gap with their parents, a third party is needed, not to say how good the parents are to you and how you should be, but to analyze the reasons and find solutions.

In any case, education is fundamental. Don't expect your child to learn on his own, it's easy to go wrong, and educate your child in a gentle and tactful way.

It's a little unreasonable for them to do this, but after all, it's your parents, some things are very difficult to solve, have a chance to sit down with the time to communicate well, it's not good to have a lot of misunderstandings, they don't do things smoothly and are uncomfortable It's not right to get angry with you, but you have to be considerate of them, they work hard to earn money and spend it on you.

No matter how big the conflict is, both sides are at fault: the fault of the parents is that they can't control their emotions, and you know the reason, but they will still be angry.

In fact, I'm just like you, I know everything, but I'm always very angry, maybe it's better when I'm older. Let's work together.

Oh my God, there are still such parents in the world! Poor boy.

What can parents do to better educate their children to develop good study habits?

1. Lead by example and influence children with your own actions.

Parents' words and deeds have a great impact on children, so blindly preaching, or even yelling at children, it is better to infect children with their own actions, bring children into a good learning atmosphere, and after a long time, children can naturally develop good learning habits.

2. Be strong-willed and don't let your child give up halfway.

First of all, parents must be firm, don't let the child give up halfway, don't eat the hardships of learning now, and will suffer from life in the future, I hope the children can understand this truth.

3. Work with your child to identify and manage your emotions.

Emotional management affects social interaction and expression to a certain extent, as well as the ability to protect oneself.

Only by recognizing emotions can we understand our emotions and release them reasonably. In order to let yourself experience happiness and accept yourself at the moment! Only by truly loving oneself can one learn and absorb new knowledge calmly.

There is also a heart that loves oneself, a heart that loves children, and a heart that is not utilitarian. calmly face and accept everything about the child, and then think of a noisy travel method to solve the problem. If you can't solve it now, you can solve it slowly.

To be honest, it's too difficult to do, but as long as we make up our minds to do it, we consciously raise the stool to wake up ourselves. There will be more and more appointments.

I myself am a practitioner, and in the last week of emotional management, the moment I got angry again, I sensed it and immediately pressed the pause button. My experience with my children was not so bad, but summed it up.

Persistence is victory! Where there is a goal, there is a direction!