Long distance relationship, no contact for a long time. Successful and unsuccessful please come in a

Updated on society 2024-05-08
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    From the analysis of your words, you don't have particularly deep feelings for each other, after all, the time is short, hehe.

    However, if you want to maintain a long-distance relationship, you can't do this, even if you don't divide now, you will definitely divide it in the future.

    In general, boys should take the initiative, especially in long-distance relationships. If he doesn't take the initiative, then you have to think about it, after all, girls, you can't fall too much, and the girl's initiative is mainly a hint, not an explicit statement.

    Personally, I feel that this man will have any other direction? Or some real-world problems that made him retreat? In short, it's not a good sign.,You're mentally prepared.,Find what you're looking for.,Change what you look like.。。 Don't delay yourself.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I have been in love with my girlfriend for four years, the first two years were together, there have not been too many twists and turns, the next two years because of the relationship between the university, we are no longer separated, the days of meeting for a year, should not add up to a month, has always been to use mobile phones and the Internet to contact. We broke up twice in the next two years, but each time we got together, we got closer to each other. We also have no topics, and even after we had a while, we were only left with **, have you eaten?

    You still haven't slept? The problem of feeling cold to each other, but because we both care about each other's feelings, we will all learn to understand, try to feel each other's hobbies, and let ourselves have the same hobbies as each other, so that the topics we talk about will not be so monotonous and have common topics. So I think the long-distance relationship is quite happy, although there are many girls around me who make me feel excited, but I will keep a certain distance when communicating with these girls, and now those girls are my very good friends.

    The relationship of a long-distance relationship requires two people to maintain. Because there were many couples around me who were in long-distance relationships before, and now I am still with my girlfriend.

    I think the first thing you have to consider is whether you are attached to this relationship. If you're concerned, you're thinking about how you can see each other more often, instead of breaking off and treating it coldly. The distance in space is more dangerous in terms of feelings, I personally do not believe that feelings can last, this is the same for both men and women, there are too many examples of the first month near the water.

    You don't have too much expectation for this relationship, so you can cut through the mess quickly, and this will be a relief for everyone.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You can't say that she doesn't contact you, and you don't contact you at the same time that you have taken the initiative to find her? Both of them are waiting for each other, but no one can take the initiative, and I can't say that you should speak first, but if you love her enough, are you willing to wait so long without contacting her, and in the end, you are still struggling with whether to break up because of this.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    There's nothing wrong with dealing with it calmly... Your acquaintance is not wrong, the two of you do have no emotional foundation and don't know each other very well, but the most important thing is that if one of you loves each other deeply, you won't put the other half for so long just for the sake of face, so now you have to think about not whether it is suitable or not, but slowly understand whether you have that feeling of being in love...

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Are you a man? If you want to develop with her, you should take the initiative now, otherwise it will be over, and long-distance relationships are not easy to talk about, especially if you have no emotional foundation.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you're not willing, then hit ** and talk to him. If you're a man, take the initiative.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Didn't you? I haven't been in touch with him for a long time, and it's still so good to get in touch. It should be fine.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Dead skin depends on the face, and something will happen Otherwise, fate has not arrived.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You don't have to contact each other every day, as long as you have each other in your heart.

    1. Maintain good communication.

    Whether it's a long distance or not, maintaining good communication is something that lovers should do. But this is even more important in long-distance couples, after all, two people are not together. If you want to know the dynamics of the other party, you must maintain good communication, so that you can know the other party's situation at the first time, otherwise the other party will definitely think that you don't care about yourself, and all kinds of cranky thoughts.

    2. Trust each other.

    Trust is the cornerstone of the relationship between the sexes, and it is easier to be suspicious of long-distance relationships where there is no way to see each other at any time, whether it is the other party who does not pick up your ** or other situations, because you have no way to know the content of his daily life, you will easily have doubts and other thoughts, and this kind of distrust can easily hurt your relationship.

    3. Have a common goal.

    What can sustain the relationship between the two people is that you have a common goal. People in long-distance relationships always hold that there will be opportunities to be together in the future, and couples in long-distance marriages think that both parties are suffering like this, and they can improve the family environment, and all kinds of goals are common goals between you. Having this belief is conducive to the development of long-distance relationships.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Ways to survive a long-distance relationship:

    1. Make your contact optional. There is no need to make ** porridge every day, sometimes even a few words of peace of mind are good. I'm tired, then we won't fight today, I'll just go and do my own thing.

    Instead of forcing the other person to hold their phone and stay with you for a few hours. In a long-distance relationship, you still have to give each other space. Don't think that when we are not together, we have time, and our respective spaces are just as important.

    2. Share the daily trivialities with each other. Each conversation is not about discussing something serious and big, but about how you can stay informed about your lives. Don't think, it's okay to hit anything**, hit **just because I want you to know, I miss you.

    3. Arrange regular meetings. No love word is as useful as a hug when you meet. During the holidays, they visit each other's cities, even if they can only accompany her for lunch.

    If you have a long vacation, you can arrange to travel together, long-distance relationship travel is very important, it is best to have more than 2 times a year, this is a good opportunity for you to get along, it is definitely not as simple as coming to each other's city.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Since you can't contact each other every day, try to be a partner who reassures each other!

    First, they have absolute trust in each other and believe that each other is the only --。 Believe and are willing to fight and wait for the tomorrow of the two.

    He's not with you, so you can't feel him, and I guess you probably can't even feel his love for you, right? What I want to say is that if you love him, and you are both willing to stick to this long-distance love, then manage it with your heart.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Be sure to give the other person a reassuring pill, tell him why he can't get in touch, trust each other, and believe that you can reap love.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Then you still have to keep in touch frequently, and then you have time to go to each other's place and get together well, so that your relationship will be sublimated.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Try to be together as much as possible, otherwise there will be a gap between the two sooner or later.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It doesn't have to be a good thing to contact every day, so it's a good test of whether the other person loves you enough.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    This is normal, you should be independent, don't always think about contacting every day, just keep in touch twice a week.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You don't have to contact each other every day, as long as you still like each other, and if you can't contact each other, you care about each other more when you can.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    As long as you love each other, none of this is a problem, believe in yourself and believe in Him.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    As long as your hearts are still together, it doesn't matter, if you are not in love, you must be slimy.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's okay if you can't keep in touch every day, after all, everyone has their own lives, so try to cherish it when you can get in touch.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Can you afford to wait? If you can afford to wait, then there is nothing to say. If you need an "analysis report" about him, then I think he doesn't want to fall in love with you anymore, because the connection of love is continuous, and if you don't see him for a day, three months is equivalent to "a lifetime".

    What's the matter that he can't contact you for three months? Speaking of every day, isn't there a chance for him to eat, and a chance to breathe? Besides, can a ** delay his salary for a few days?

    Let's see what excuse he uses not to contact you!

    At this point, it depends on whether the landlord thinks it's worth the wait.

    By the way, have you met? How much do you know?

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Wait and see, he may have something going on, or really dead.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    While you are still planning for the future, he or she is ready to leave.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Because this society is too realistic. They were all looking at the pot from the bowl.

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