Who has higher EQ Lin Daiyu or Xue Baochai? Why?

If emotional intelligence refers to the ability to deal with the relationship between all parties, it is naturally Xue Baochai, and Xue Baochai's ability to deal with life is the highest.

Daiyu acted very well, she put herself in the right position, knew the life under the fence, never caused trouble, and was always cautious, which shows that Daiyu has high emotional intelligence. If it weren't for her illness, Daiyu would have been very happy with Baoyu, she was very talented, and her poems were really good.

First of all, let's be clear, emotional intelligence and IQ are two different things. Emotional intelligence alone must be higher than that of Baochai, and it is more than a little higher. Daiyu is first of all a fairy who does not seek fame and fortune in her bones, and she can know that she threw away the gift of King Beijing.

The feelings for Baoyu are sincere and sincere, and she will not say anything until death, which is very admirable, and she can be described as a saint. On the table, everyone likes Baochai and reads "Dream of Red Mansions", in fact, people love this weak and lovely beauty from the bottom of their hearts.

Lin Xue and the two have their own strengths and weaknesses, and the two are combined to become the highest, but it is a pity that there is no such perfect person in the world ......Emotional intelligence is something that everyone understands differently, and different people in different situations have different things before. In real life, there are many people with higher EQ than the two of them, and it makes little sense to discuss which of them has high EQ, because it depends on the situation and standards, which is a variable ......The reason why this eternal topic has been raised is the brilliance of Cao Xueqin's writing ideas and character design, just like the smile of the Mona Lisa, which makes the world think about it and argue endlessly!

Don't doubt it, of course, it's my sister's higher emotional intelligence.

Baochai is sure of high emotional intelligence and can control his emotions; Daiyu has a high IQ, Bing Xue is smart but unwilling to be worldly.

Daiyu is a little aware of the world and disdainful of the world.

Baochai has been a counselor mother since she was a child, and she is much more sophisticated. Daiyu loves books and is talented, and she is very sensitive in articles, and she cannot say that her emotional intelligence is low. Both of them have high emotional intelligence, but they are not perfect, and there are always some differences.

I like Lin Daiyu the most, her frankness and romance are the most valuable, her true temperament is unique, and she has never harmed people, her emotional intelligence must be far above Baochai, otherwise how could she win the heart of Jia's mother, up and down Jiafu, there are not many people who don't like Daiyu, so the two don't have to compare.

Baochai has high emotional intelligence? She knows that Baoyu doesn't like her, and she has to run after Baoyu, she seems to be exquisite, but she doesn't have her real friends, this is called high emotional intelligence? Talking about family conditions, talent, and beauty, she is not inferior to Daiyu in everything, but why does Daiyu like her so willingly, but Baochai does not?

Daiyu is a little petty and petty on the surface, but she is a true temperament, she treats people sincerely, and she doesn't deliberately try to please anyone, everything is fate, but Baochai is smart but is clever and mistaken, pleasing everywhere, pretending to be a good person everywhere, but in fact? She is not sincere to people, there are elements of use, once it is recognized, no one likes it, or Daiyu is good, do not say anything or resist, what you think in your heart, what you say in your mouth, transparent and pure, after understanding, others like it and are willing to be friends with Daiyu, and she knows that Baoyu does not like to take the road of officialdom, she never persuades, she is the same as Baoyu, she has the same three views, likes true temperament, likes to live freely, and does not value the interests of wealth and power at all, and Baochai and Baoyu are not all the way, Baochai values fame and fortune, so I only have a sister-brother relationship with Baoyu and no male and female love, so I like Daiyu and don't like Baochai.

Lin Daiyu lives in love and dreams, knows and understands Baoyu's thoughts, but is not suitable for the world, Xue Baochai is long-sleeved and good at dancing, and is a person who lives in the mundane world, but he will never become a bosom friend of Baoyu, and there is no way to compare, not a person in the same world.

On the surface, Xue Baochai's high emotional intelligence is because she is very good at being a person, understands human accidents very well, and is also kind. Lin Daiyu's performance is relatively mean, but her emotional intelligence is not low, because she is sensitive in her heart, she can better understand the experiences and feelings of others, she has low self-esteem, so she does not dare to make requests. The two emotional intelligences are actually about the same.

It's really hard to say than emotional intelligence, Baochai is scheming, Daiyu is a true temperament, smart, cute, and has no sense of distance. And all kinds of Baochai only make people stay away.

Daiyu is straightforward and Baochai is scheming.

This question is actually very simple, absolutely Lin Daiyu has high emotional intelligence. All those who have seen Dream of Red Mansions, few like Xue Baochai, Xue Baochai is too sleek, not high emotional intelligence, but slippery.

On the two streets of Daiyu and Baochai with emotional intelligence alone, the simplest sentence! Baoyu's original words: Sister Lin has never said such bastard words!

If she had said it, she would have been estranged from her! Baochai thinks that it is right to persuade Baoyu to make progress, and all parents agree, don't Daiyu know? Why didn't Daiyu persuade her?

She already knew Baoyu's temperament, and if she persuaded hard, it would backfire!

From this, it can be seen that Daiyu knows people and things, far above Baochai!

It's just that the orphan girl has no money, no power and no help, and Baochai has her aunt's support, and her mother-in-law is conspiring, throwing small favors and small favors at will, and buying them well, and Baoyu is not in charge! Eventually deceived!

Xue Baochai, teenager Lin Daiyu, adult Xue Baochai, many people like Lin Daiyu, but what is emotional intelligence? To put it bluntly, it is the comprehensive quality of a person, to be honest, people who don't particularly understand, or after the age of 40, let's talk about emotional intelligence!

EQ IQ is a pair of dialectical existences, complementing each other and indispensable, none other than Daiyu! However, the times do not follow the hearts of the people, and it is difficult for mortals to fight with the sky.

Except for Jia Baoyu, the thirteen hairpins of Jinling are all brains, and the emotional intelligence of Lin Daiyu and Xue Baochai should be between the two of them

Baochai's emotional intelligence is quite high, and it is difficult to find fault with her from top to bottom; Daiyu is higher, and Qing High School can also get a few confidants who treat each other sincerely, which seems to be even more rare!

The problem of emotional intelligence can be seen from the way people deal with people, and Xue Baochai's emotional intelligence is higher.

Of course, Sister Lin, empathy, if Baochai is an orphan girl, she can't do better than Daiyu, maybe it's bad and distorted.

I think it's all very high. Both girls are very knowledgeable and understand people's hearts. It's just that Baochai has the burden of the family, and he came to Jiafu with a purpose, so he has to be sleek and sophisticated; Daiyu didn't ask for anything, so it was straightforward.

First, Xue Baochai knows how to win over hostile people and turn enemies into friends. Xue Baochai, Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu are love triangles. To be precise, it was Xue Baochai who intervened between Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu.

So many times it is Lin Daiyu who is hostile to Xue Baochai, and Xue Baochai also knows this. But she was moody and did not show her face. Once, she knew that Daiyu was in poor health all year round, and Daiyu had low self-esteem, so she didn't want to open her mouth to ask for some supplements to maintain her body.

So Baochai gave Daiyu bird's nest to eat. Daiyu was very moved, saying that she was too cautious, she was not good to Baochai, and she felt that Baochai was a person who was cheating and cheating, but now that she thinks about it, she is wrong and she is too narrow-minded. In the future, Daiyu knew everything about Baochai, let down her guard, and befriended her.

It can be seen from this incident that Baochai knows that Lin Daiyu has a grudge against her, but she knows how to skillfully grasp the weaknesses of the other party. Through his careful observation, he knew that Daiyu was a simple, simple, and more willful person, who came from his own small temperament. But Daiyu is also a person with strong self-esteem, so she took this opportunity to send bird's nest when people were sick to show her concern.

In fact, it is to seize the weakest moment of the opponent and hit it with one blow.

Second, it's not about you, hang high. Xue Baochai has always secretly observed the affairs of Jiafu, but never interfered. This kind of attitude of self-preservation has also been abused by many people.

I feel that Baochai has never cared about other people's affairs, which is a manifestation of selfishness and hypocrisy. Even Wang Xifeng said that Xue Baochai didn't know anything. In fact, in this Jia Mansion, the interpersonal relationship is complicated, and there are many things, Xue Baochai thinks that he is just living in someone else's house, and it is better not to interfere in other people's affairs.

In fact, in today's society, especially in life, many people love to take care of other people's family affairs, in fact, sometimes think about it, "it is difficult for a clean official to decide family affairs", if you get involved, maybe things will be more complicated, and in the end maybe you won't have a good reputation. So it's good to know how to exit appropriately.