I don t like my boyfriend anymore, and I hate him a little, but I m still reluctant to break up with

Updated on psychology 2024-05-08
32 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Knowing him in the vast sea of people is a kind of fate, as long as there is a glimmer of hope, you can't give up, after all, you once loved each other. Instead of regretting it after letting go, it is better to hold hands without regrets.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Let your relationship fade.

    Distance yourself first.

    Think calmly about each other.

    Not contacted. Wait a few months.

    It ...... a matter of course

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    That means that your subconscious still has a little feeling for him, I have a friend who liked a guy at first, and then broke up decisively because she didn't like it, which means that she didn't like someone in the first place. So, I want to know, how do you feel when you see him now, how do you feel when you're not with him, do you think about him in everything??

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Since you don't like it, just divide it, don't have any nostalgia, after a long time, you will still want to share it with him.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You're a little annoying, isn't there something you can't say you can't go to together? Since I can't bear it, I just like it. Be sure of what you think and don't let yourself regret it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Nima, I don't like to break up quickly, is this boy still disagreeing, if so, break up decisively, don't care about any words he has to say, if he says bad things about you, you can also say bad things about him... Torment,,Hey,Give me the score.。。

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    At first glance, it's a girl, only girls are so emotional, don't wait for him to dump you, hold on.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You treat your boyfriend as chicken ribs, although it is tasteless, but it is better to have a boyfriend you don't like than not to have a boyfriend.

    However, if you put what is not suitable for you by your side, in case other people who like you dare not chase you because of this, because they are afraid of being a junior, won't you suffer more?

    In order to keep what you don't want, you lose what you want.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    When the break is constantly suffering, if you have no feelings, you can divide it slowly.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you don't love it, don't delay others.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The details are as follows:

    Method. 1. Calm down and think.

    For girls, the world of feelings is very important, and if you want to make yourself happier and happier in life, then your emotional life plays a great role.

    When you have the idea of breaking up with your boyfriend, it means that there are some small problems in the relationship between you, and if you want to solve them better, then you need to think about it and think more about the relationship between each other, so that the two of you can live a better and happier life.

    Method. 2. Talk to your friends.

    As the saying goes, "the authorities are obsessed with bystanders", it is difficult for one party in a relationship to know exactly whether they love each other very much, and if there is an urge to break up, then they need to communicate well with each other. If you just have such thoughts, you can share them with your friends, maybe they can give you some good advice, so that you can know exactly how to do what is right for each other.

    Method. 3. Be independent.

    Women have a lot of very important things besides love, don't always focus on love, improve yourself more, if you want to separate from your boyfriend, then you should also think more, make more decisions, and make yourself more independent, so that you can live a happier life. If you want to separate and are reluctant, it means that the other party still has a status in your heart, so you should analyze it well and think about it carefully.

    Method. Fourth, calm down for a while.

    To calm yourself down first, is it because your boyfriend doesn't care about you for a while? If that's the case, then try to learn to calm yourself down.

    The emergence of problems is not very accidental, it will only explode after a certain accumulation, so to calm yourself down, calm each other down, and the relationship needs to be experienced, this is just a small step.

    Method. 5. Have a good chat with your boyfriend.

    No matter what the reason is, it is normal for you to have such thoughts, and if you want to live a happier life, you need to let your boyfriend know some of your little emotions.

    Maybe it's just that I have such an impulse because of some of my own reasons, so I have to learn to chat with my boyfriend. Share some unhappy things in your heart with him, and he will also give him some small suggestions.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You may not particularly cherish your boyfriend, or you have been with your boyfriend for too long, or you should leave your boyfriend for a while, you should still think about your feelings, you must still like your boyfriend, but you don't feel it yet, so don't go with it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Ask questions to share yourself with other girls, and that girl is interesting to him.

    What do you think? Asked a question, got it.

    Asking questions, alas, or tangled.

    So if you don't be cruel to yourself, someone will treat you very well in the future.

    Asking questions together for three years.

    Did you tell him that this is your bottom line problem, and then let him change it.

    Ask him and he will change, but I can't trust it.

    You can go and make a comparison table, write the benefits on the left, and the bad points on the right, compare the two, and then make a choice.

    Once you feel bad in your heart when you ask a question, it is difficult to think of other good things.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Maybe it's because you're used to it, you're unwilling, you're reluctant, you want to love it, you love it well, and if you don't want to love, you will separate immediately, otherwise both of you will hurt more deeply, you just don't get used to it now, you need to have his life, that is to say, if there is another excellent boy chasing you now, good to you, and can completely replace your current boyfriend's position, you won't be so entangled.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You can talk about it well and see if the problem between you can be solved, if it can't be solved, it is best to separate. Since you don't want to be separated from him, you have to make some changes for him, so that the two of you will be happier when you live together, otherwise you will break up because you are unhappy after a long time.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you are very reluctant to part with your boyfriend now, then you don't want to separate from your boyfriend, then go to a good relationship with your boyfriend, maybe you will change your boyfriend's attitude, and you will like your boyfriend again, so try to do it once.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you are not willing to give up, you must also be willing, a relationship without feelings is unlikely to have results, and sooner or later there will be a day when you break up, so if you are late, it is better to separate earlier, and don't waste each other's time.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you don't like your boyfriend, then you have to make sure that you really don't like him, not a momentary impulse, otherwise it will cause regret. In addition, he is reluctant to score because he has made too many comebacks, so it is difficult to choose for a while.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I think you don't like him anymore, so break up with him, you are reluctant to break up, it's just that you're still thinking about a little memory from the past, but the two of you have no feelings now, so you can't create new memories.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you are particularly reluctant to have this relationship of yours, it means that you still have this kind of feeling for your boyfriend, but you don't like your boyfriend anymore, so I think you should still stick to it, as long as you particularly like your current life, you can be with your boyfriend again.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you don't like your boyfriend, then you should break up with him, don't force the two of you to be together because you are reluctant, so that you can't give him happiness. You won't be happy either.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If we don't like the things we usually use, we will throw them in the trash without hesitation.

    Falling in love is similar to everyday life.

    If you really don't like your boyfriend anymore, you can't wait to break up with him, but you can't help it now, which means that you don't like it anymore, but you have something that needs to be run in, and there has been no way to solve it.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Since you've lost the novelty of your boyfriend, you shouldn't be with him because you can't give him your heart. It's time-consuming, and it's a disservice for both you and your boyfriend.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If you have such an idea now, I think you should still go to be with your boyfriend, you must have your boyfriend in your heart, but the two of you will get a little tired of getting along for a long time, so it's better to stick to your own idea of getting along.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Since you chose to be together in the first place, it proves that you love each other. The feeling of liking someone may slowly lose the excitement and excitement of the first meeting as it was at the beginning, and it is more of a tacit understanding and tolerance of each other, and that kind of vigorous love may become a family affection. Since you are reluctant, it means that you still have him in your heart!

    So it's best not to break up easily.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    After the fresh stage of the early stage of love, there is no strong freshness of you and me, and it is not possible to break up, after all, you have been together for a period of time, you know each other so much, you will not be separated directly, you feel reluctant, that is, you don't really dislike your boyfriend.

    Finding the right other half, it's not easy, cherish it.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you are reluctant to break up, it means that you are still very concerned about your boyfriend, or you still like him a little, this is your true inner thought, you don't like him may be your temporary decision, it is your superficial thoughts, you are reluctant to break up, it means that you still have memories, there are still concerns, there is this feeling, you should not break up, you should continue to deal with.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I don't like my boyfriend anymore, but I am reluctant to break up, which means that you still like him, but as the time between you continues, the relationship becomes a little weaker. It's not as enthusiastic as it was back then.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Maybe in the process of getting along with each other, you slowly actually have a sense of family affection or dependence, so even if you don't like it, you will still be reluctant to break up.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It's a very contradictory question, don't like your boyfriend, and are reluctant to break up, according to your description, you still like your boyfriend a little, just a little more and a little less.

    If you are reluctant to score, it means that you still have a lot of feelings for him and still like him a little.

    You have to calm down and think about whether you like him or not, and whether you want to continue with him. Whether he really likes you, whether he is very good to you, these need to be calm down and think, and don't be too impulsive to break up, after all, you yourself are a little reluctant, which means that you still like him.

    You also have to think about whether it will bring some bad effects after the breakup. For example, whether he is willing to break up, whether you have any reason to break up with him, whether you can find a better boy who loves you more than him after the breakup, and so on, all these questions need to be considered.

    It is advisable not to break up if you really like him. Of course, if you really don't like him anymore, just make it clear to him and split up!

    Finally, I wish you sweet love, happy and happy every day!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Now that you've decided on a relationship, it means that he meets your criteria for choosing a mate. If you don't like it, why don't you like him? It's that after time together, I found his shortcomings and felt that he was no longer perfect, and if that was the case, it was not necessary.

    Who doesn't have some shortcomings, isn't there a saying that loves him and loves his shortcomings together, the so-called love house and Wu is like that. If he is still a responsible, enterprising, and loving person, what can he do if he has a little flaw. He's still the partner you can trust for the rest of your life.

    If after time together, you find that there is a problem with his character, he doesn't love you so much, but he is handsome and golden, then if it is a character problem, you should be judged, if you are reluctant now, wait until you get married, and then it will evolve into domestic violence or something, and the gain outweighs the loss, so whether to break up or not depends on the specific reason.

    When you are in love, you are not afraid of the eyes of those around you.

    The Cold War made each other want to escape.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Love is to give for a person without regrets, and habit is just to enjoy the state of the other person being with you, but is unwilling to give.

    If at the moment you feel like you're just passively accepting your boyfriend's offer, or simply hoping that he will be there for you. And in his heart, he never took the initiative to think about paying for him. Then you can be sure that your psychology of wanting to break up and being reluctant is because of habit, and habit is not love.

    Or your reluctance is actually because you are worried that he will not accompany you, and you will feel unaccustomed. And not because you still love each other.

    I'm sorry, it's cruel, but the truth is that you don't love him anymore and want to break up! But you are accustomed to the other party's one-sided efforts all the time, and you are unwilling to give up this beautiful enjoyment.

    True love is something that both parties have to give to each other, and if it is determined that you are reluctant to break up just because of habit. So in order to find true love for yourself, and in order for the other party to find true love, then let it go, and don't delay both parties because of your selfish habits. Otherwise, if you maintain this habit of breaking the thread, the same result will be the end of the thread.

    Opposite. If your heart is reluctant to break up, it contains great pain, not liberation for yourself. If both you and your boyfriend are willing to give for each other, then you can be sure that the relationship is not a habit but a true love.

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