How long have you ever pursued or had a crush on someone?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-08
3 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Why do <> see these bitter crushes, my heart is sour... On the road of growth, we will always meet the person who makes us desperate. To really like someone may be to see him or her happy.

    Now when I think of my first love, I will laugh stupidly, at that time, it was in our best years to meet the person who gave us a good time.

    When I was 17 years old, I met a handsome guy on the side of the road, and the two sides started without a start, and the total time before and after briefly added up to less than 10 hours of time together, about a month. Because he was too well-behaved, he told his mother, and his mother secretly went to his house to see it, saying that he saw him taking care of the billiard table, what kind of long eyebrows, what kind of prison will he be... In fact, these don't matter at that age (now my husband is also even the eyebrows), the key will affect learning, too obedient, I broke off with him, but my heart did not let go deeply, five years of the most youthful time were thinking about him, about the fourth year when I saw him when I was shopping at the stall, I was looking at the necklace hanging in his stall, he was the stall owner, I turned around and didn't know if I wanted to ask something, I saw him hugging his girlfriend or wife I don't know, the expression was calm, I don't know if I recognized me, But I lowered my head in a hurry, and I couldn't tell how I felt.

    It wasn't until 5 years later that I slowly felt that I could love others again. Later, many years later, I got into a taxi he drove in a hurry, I recognized him, he was rhinitis or something, in winter, his nose made an uncomfortable sound all the way, or whether it was because of the cold, I felt very sorry for him, but I didn't know how to speak, I was afraid that nothing would be right. His appearance has changed, I feel a little strange and distant, I don't know if he recognizes me, or whether there is a need to recognize me, I was speechless all the way.

    It's been a long time, and from beginning to end, if you don't take it seriously, it won't survive. It should have become a mark in life, and I will never forget it for the rest of my life.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Speaking of pursuing someone,So far I have never had a similar experience.,I'm also a girl with a more introverted personality.,Even if you meet someone you like.,It's only silently like.,Without identifying the other party and without confessing to yourself on the other side's premise.,It's completely impossible to take the initiative.。

    Therefore, for people like me, there may be more of a crush, quietly liking, afraid of being discovered, and more afraid that he doesn't know, and only belongs to one person. I like someone for four years, and I don't say it in my heart, so I can only get along as a friend. However, if it is an ordinary friend, it is estimated that this secret love that no one knows about will be silently ** after all, and will be forgotten by the memory in the time machine, as if it had never been.

    However, the person I had a crush on was my blue face, and at that time, we had common preferences, the same habits, and endless topics to talk about. will also be reluctant to part, and will also look forward to meeting after a short separation. will be because of his inadvertent action Instant ear redness, so happy that he can't sleep, but he has a girlfriend.

    All these subtle feelings can only be described as coincidences, and there is nowhere to hide, only to experience them yourself. It's just that because you are the person around you, you can't forget you, and you can't want to get close, the only thing you can do is to restrain your liking and pretend that you like someone else. <>

    In the cold winter, what he can give her is a warm embrace, and what can bring you is a cup of incense, in the pouring rain, he can take off his clothes to cover her from the rain, and hand you an umbrella. It's not the difference, it's the distance. It is the distance between you that gives you the way to get along with each other.

    Seeing that you are anxious for her, I tried my best to relieve your worries, but I didn't know that the sorrow in my heart was covered with another layer of dust.

    Therefore, there is a crush called Li Daren and Cheng Youqing, who are not far away, but they can't get close. The friendship between two people, the love of one person, the cruelest thing is that you used your tenderness to block all my retreats.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I haven't had a crush on someone for a long, long time, and it's all open love.

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