Should I give him a chance, boyfriend?

A high-achieving student from a key university does not mean that he can deal with emotional problems maturely.

If he really wants to reconcile, should I give him a chance? You can give him a chance, but you've only known each other for half a year, and you haven't understood it thoroughly yet. And with so many incidents in the past six months, it can be seen that there is no better place to go in the future.

The point is that a marriage without the blessing of the family is not a happy one. Don't embarrass your parents, or embarrass yourself, you'll just make do with him. If really 10. 1 To marry so early may be a lifelong mistake.

Because it is obvious that he is still immature, he is still immersed in the plot of his mother, and he has to ask his mother everything, no matter how old a man is, what institution of higher learning he has attended, his personality is immature, and only his wife will suffer in the future.

And outsiders are generally clearer than insiders, your family is against it, and you don't need to insist, not to mention, I don't see what you like about him.

Don't marry for the sake of getting married, he's so stingy, and the joy of your marriage won't last long.

You need to think about it. But just make up your mind and don't regret it! This is based on your words, and it is still impossible to judge whether you and him are suitable for marriage.

You need to communicate well. Does he love you or not? I think even a withdrawn person wouldn't be so kind to his lover.

So you have to take the initiative to communicate!

Alas, the love of the post-80s generation is sweet and romantic, but it is difficult to enter this step of marriage.

Do you love him? Does he love you? If it is affirmed, two people must face each other's shortcomings, communicate and explain clearly, and let each other know that something is just a matter of personality and human nature, not an emotional problem.

Love needs to be inclusive. Who can be perfect, the key is that you can understand and tolerate a few times, and being together is a long-term thing.

He doesn't love you, for sure ...

He married for the sake of getting married.

Careful-eyed, short-tempered, loves to drill horns, can beat women, and gambling is the most important man!

Hurry up and find one, it'll be enough for you in the future!!

It is usually boys who coax girls, which fully shows that he studied in vain in college.

Besides, I can't explain it even if I went to university. Seeing him disrespect his elders like this, it's basically one.

A man who has no quality of his own is extremely irresponsible!

As far as the suggestion goes, you are as far away from him ...

To be honest, some aspects of you are somewhat similar to my experience, I feel that he seems to be more impulsive, unable to control himself, I was also very impulsive at the beginning, but I will not do anything to alarm my parents, or even withdraw from the marriage hastily, obviously, your ex-boyfriend is not a qualified boyfriend, and your fiancé will definitely not be a qualified husband, I advise you from the perspective of a person who has come before, don't give him any chance, otherwise it will definitely be a lifetime of pain.

Hey, every family has a scripture that is difficult to read.

It is recommended that you postpone the wedding date and give yourself more time to test the other party.

Since you are asking this question here, it also shows that your heart is very conflicted, from your words. Although there is a little reluctance, doubt has taken up most of you. It also shows that he has not gained your full trust.

Marry someone you don't trust. It could be a tragedy. Good luck.

I'm optimistic about the reunion. In reality, many couples or lovers break up for various reasons and come together again to rebuild their relationship. Such a scenario is not impossible, and it is possible to restore the old goodwill, provided that there is good faith and effort on both sides.

First of all, we all make mistakes when it comes to relationships. Relationships may break down due to arguments, misunderstandings, mistrust, etc. However, when we have been apart for a while, reminiscing about the good old days may produce strong feelings of longing and regret.

At this time, if both parties still have feelings and are willing to try to get back together, they should give each other a chance to rebuild their relationship.

Secondly, repentance, and reunion requires more effort from both sides. Two people need to rebuild trust, clear up misunderstandings, and find the real reason why they loved each other before. In this process, both parties need to understand and support each other in order to achieve common goals.

Sometimes, it takes mutual understanding and tolerance to let go of past grievances in order to get the relationship back on track.

In the end, a successful broken mirror reunion takes time. The difference is that you need more communication and time to understand each other's changes and reaffirm your feelings. It's not easy to rebuild the old in a short period of time, so it takes patience, confidence and perseverance on both sides.

In short, I am optimistic about the reunion of the broken mirror. As long as both parties genuinely want to be together and are willing to work towards it, they can rebuild their relationship. Of course, it is also important to note that this situation does not apply to all situations, and sometimes a breakup is the best option.

However, if you have ever been in love, you should give each other a chance to try to make the broken love good again.

When true love exists in our hearts, even when we are separated from each other, it is unforgettable. The feeling of being away from my boyfriend is very painful. If you still want to win back your boyfriend's heart, then giving him a chance to start over is worth a try.

Of course, the key to getting your boyfriend back is knowing how to regain his heart. Some things need to be done slowly, not in a hurry.

First of all, you need to thoroughly understand the previous problems between yourself and your boyfriend. Understanding the other person's psychology and breaking the silence can help you better redeem him. First, apologize to him and express your repentance, and if you are at fault, remember to apologize to him.

Second, communicate and try to solve the problem between you. Try to make him feel that you want to start over because of true love, not to salvage a meaningless relationship.

Finally, give him plenty of space to think and adapt. Don't chase him too deeply and make him feel depressed. Let him know that you are a rational, mature person with your own life and pursuits.

Give him time and don't take the importance of salvaging the relationship lightly. The key to successfully getting your boyfriend back is up to you. Self-love is self-reliant and confident, and sometimes he is amazed at how much he has missed you and falls in love with you again.

Whether you choose to get your boyfriend back or not, getting your boyfriend back is an adventure that requires your courage and patience. Believe in yourself, believe in the love you have, and if you are destined to be together, then eventually you will meet again someday in the future.

You're idle, thinking too much.

Judging from your message conversation, your boyfriend is still a more sensible, gentle, and tolerant person.

Your performance made him depressed, but he patiently reasoned with you, hoping that you could learn from it. Spend your time on yourself, learn to improve, make yourself good, and attract others instead of pestering them.

Whether you break up or not depends on your performance.

What kind of person you live to win what kind of people walk with you.

For he who walks with the wise will gain wisdom, but he who walks with the foolish will suffer loss.

So what kind of talent you want to be will get what kind of person.

If you want to save your relationship, you first have to think about what kind of woman you want to be?

Be a selfish person who thinks only of himself, a liar, a greedy person, a vain person, a petty person, a person who does not forgive others, and does not tolerate others.

Still, be an honest, upright, kind, gentle, peaceful, tolerant, forgiving, patient, studious, and self-motivated person.

So if you figure yourself out first, your love will naturally understand. Otherwise, if you are only willing to live in your own world, your end is already decided.

I guess the fact that you messed up his customers made him very unhappy. Maybe because of this he was criticized by the leadership. You two are calm and calm. If you love him, you have to give him trust, understanding, and support.

Why do you want to mess up his customers You are extremely insecure when you have this mentality After all, you have to give each other space when you fall in love After reading your conversation, your boyfriend is very angry Your boyfriend is very angry There is no work and no life** You apologize to him After all, there are still good memories when you fall in love Communicate and explain it But you must make an adjustment to your mentality Don't do things that you know are vexatious You still try It will be more than worth the loss.

Hello this girl: The object should always be for the sake of the other party, and the overall situation should be taken into account, so that the girl will attract the love of men, and will also attract the love of everyone, that is, including the boyfriend's family, only if everyone likes you, the success rate of your object will be high. The most important thing for a girl is to be sensible, because the object is to become a family, and when she becomes a family, she must be a mother, and to be a mother is to set an example and educate the next generation, so she is not sensible, so how to educate the next generation.

So you have to reflect first, talk to your boyfriend well, and let him believe that you won't be like this again in the future, and you really work hard to behave and believe that your boyfriend will forgive you! If you know your mistakes, you can still be a good child, and no one is perfect.

In fact, love and feelings are mutual, not one-sided, if he doesn't love you, it's useless for you to pursue, if he loves you, he will take the initiative to contact you, all say that people get along with each other is troublesome, to understand and tolerate each other, cherish each other, don't come to break up, don't hurt him easily, give others a chance is to give yourself a chance, don't be self-righteous, cherish each other.

You haven't broken up yet, it's just that he has an aversion to what you do, this kind of problem is in yourself, if you want to eliminate this influence, you can put more effort into your own character, you are not a child anymore, you should have some control over your character, you have to understand that he can spoil you, but not infinitely spoil you, as he said, a teacher teaches a bad student, after a long time, the bad student does not improve, the teacher will give up, what you have to do now, Don't be that bad student, show his progress to him to see, and believe that he is still willing to be a teacher who helps you.

It may be that you love your boyfriend very much, so you are afraid of losing him. Now you both need to be calm and calm. After that, think about what you should do.

Looking at the conversation between the two of you, I think your boyfriend may really be completely disappointed in you, but I think there is room for redemption.

It's up to you.

Let's get rid of your bad habits.

Two people who love each other also have their own space.

Not everybody has to revolve around you, they have to listen to you.

Unreasonable trouble, everyone will be annoyed.

Sincerely admit your mistakes and get rid of your current problems.

Maybe there is a turnaround.

First of all, you have to adjust your mentality, your boyfriend is busy with work, and a customer is disturbed by you, the current mood will definitely not be good, and you have to be busy with things in the company, you first care about your boyfriend every day, and then find an opportunity to talk to your boyfriend calmly, after all, you have something wrong with this matter, first admit your mistakes, and then communicate more, there is no problem that cannot be solved.

I think so, you might as well just let it go, it's a hurt to each other to go on like this, I hope it will help you.

If you can take care of you, you will have a chance.

You can't read what he says or are you illiterate? When people say it's annoying, you think about why he's annoying and how to keep him from annoying.

It's the first time I've seen someone like you who doesn't take what people say seriously. You're in this way, and it feels good to be divided.

It's not certain that your boyfriend will break up with you yet, but if you keep making trouble like this, he will definitely be 88 with you, reflect on yourself, if you really love your boyfriend, you should give him trust and freedom.

Well, I feel that your relationship has reached a bottleneck, and you are not wrong in understanding, so that your boyfriend is so powerless and helpless, the relationship between two people needs two people to maintain, if one party has been disappointed or feels that there is no need to maintain, it will be difficult to go on.

From your conversation, it can be seen that your boyfriend is very disgusted with you, men put their careers first, you shouldn't make trouble unreasonably, mess up your boyfriend's business, want to get your boyfriend's trust and recognition of you, work hard, and it's not advisable to make trouble unreasonably.

It's easy to fall in love and hard to get along with. And love requires two people to work together. Judging from the situation faced by the two of you, the two of you are not in the same pace, and the woman is not capable of playing the role of virtuous helper, but she can engage in yellow man's customers, keep harassing, what's the use of apologizing?

If the relationship hurts a little, there will be less, the man obviously doesn't want to continue to be a teacher to teach you, he can't change you, only let go of each other.

If you really like him, you shouldn't be like now, no boy can stand you like this, the man's world is outside, you have to let go of yourself, you want to gallop on the battlefield, you can't control it, the tighter the bolt, the easier it is to lose, just like the sand in your hands, you should reflect on it, find your own mistakes, and change the previous way, in order to have the possibility of getting better, otherwise even if it is good this time, there will still be problems in the future.