Should I still want a girl like this?

Updated on society 2024-04-29
40 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If she really wants to live with you for the rest of her life. You really love her again. Let's have a good time.

    After all, not everyone can work hard to change themselves for the sake of their loved ones. This shows that your girlfriend really loves you. The greatest happiness in life is to be able to go through life with your beloved in a down-to-earth manner.

    Stop thinking about her past. After all, it will be a lifetime, and that will be later. The past is a thing of the past.

    I wish you both a lifetime of happiness.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    She used to love her 4 boyfriends very much. Women lie without leaving a trace, women are old, and they want to find a stupid person to give her a long-term meal ticket, if she really wants to marry you, you can accept her past and get married, undoubtedly, you didn't think so much when you were looking for a girlfriend, you just want to chase it, and when you catch it, you think about her past, that was before she met you, but I can't accept it, so some women now are not worth cherishing.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you love her, she wants to live with you for the rest of her life. Do you still need to ask? If you love her, will you care about her past?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Needless to say!! Willing to change so many girls for you. Don't you definitely regret it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Who hasn't had the past?

    How long did it take?

    And how long do you want it?

    Ask your heart.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Since we love each other, what else is there to say?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Are you really, don't change it for you, do you still want to get them up? When happiness comes, you have to fight for it, don't wait for him to leave, you will regret it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Is that kid yours? This is an important question!

    It's yours, you love her so much that you keep ......

    It's not yours, leave him, women are afraid of marrying the wrong man, and men are afraid of raising the wrong children......

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Since we both love each other, let's give her a chance to mend her ways!

    After all, everyone is young, and everyone makes mistakes sometimes!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Is the child yours? It's yours to go ahead.

    It's not yours Forget it.

    And your child is so wronged!!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Is the child yours If it's not you, do you still need to say it?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you really love each other, do you care about that?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Always wanted a girl, especially when you saw a girl's clothes or headwear. When I see someone holding my daughter's hand and walking in front of me, I can't help but look at it a few more times.

    When I was pregnant with my second child, I was particularly concerned about his gender, and when I was more than three months old, I secretly did a gender test, and when I knew that it was a boy, my first thought was that the child was gone. There are two reasons: in the Chinese concept, a boy has to raise two generations, whether it is a huge test of financial strength or physical strength, I already have a boy, and it will be very stressful to add one.

    The second reason is that I really want a girl, and if this child does, my daughter's dream will be shattered.

    After two days of careful consideration, it was decided to give birth to the second child, and I can't cancel his right to come to this world just because of his gender.

    Erbao came to me and brought me a lot of joy and a sense of accomplishment, and his smiling face could make all my troubles disappear.

    But regrets still exist, and sometimes I unintentionally talk to others about envying people who have daughters.

    This morning, the child saw that I was a little tired, so he came to beat my back, and while he was beating, he said, "Mom, it would be nice if I were a girl."

    I was stunned, doesn't my son identify with his gender? That's a big problem.

    Why? Don't you like being a boy? ”

    No, because mom wants a girl, and I'm not. ”

    My heart was slammed, and the unintentional words were firmly remembered by the child.

    Before you were born, my mother thought so, but your arrival changed my mother's opinion, I need children like you, and it has nothing to do with boys and girls. ”

    I vowed not to say the same thing again in the future, and to cherish the mother-child relationship with my child.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The philosopher Russell once said, "If a marriage breaks down, divorce will be destroyed, because divorce is an institution that exists because of marriage, and divorce is the safety valve of marriage." ”

    Even if two people are separated after divorce, it does not mean the end of a marital relationship, and whether two people want to communicate again or even remarry depends on the choice of the two parties and the degree to which they were hurt by each other in the previous marriage.

    After the divorce, some couples may not get along with each other for a long time, completely break off the relationship with their ex, and if they can let go of the past and start over, they will never want to have anything to do with their ex again; However, some couples only begin to regret after the divorce, regretting that they did not cherish each other's goodness, finding that they can't let go of their ex, feeling guilty about what they did in the marriage, and regretting the divorce.

    Obviously, the first choice is because he is the one who pays more in the marriage, because he has silently paid a lot, but he has not been cherished by the other party, so he can't wait to break up the relationship with the other party and start over.

    However, those who feel unfair in their marriage, and who mention divorce first but regret it first after the divorce, have only one reason: that is, because they are not having a good time, so they will recall the sweetness of the past in bitterness.

    Not all marriages can be reunited with remarriage, and it is difficult for two people to start over even if they let go of their former mustard. Remarriage, like a second marriage, requires two people to abandon all the unhappiness of the past, but the damage is already there, and some scars are difficult to erase.

    As the saying goes, good horses don't eat back grass, and back grass is most likely to repeat the mistakes of the past.

    Fang Xin is 38 years old this year, has a son who is more than 9 years old, and a well-behaved and obedient daughter, it stands to reason that she and Xiang Wei are a happy family of four, with a garage, a stable husband, and a full-time mother at home, which can be regarded as very happy, but Fang Xin is not satisfied.

    Fang Xin and Xiang Wei's marriage has to start from a blind date, Fang Xin didn't fall in love with him when she and Xiang Wei went on a blind date, on the contrary, she herself fell in love with another man, but she didn't expect that man to be a scumbag, wasting her feelings for half a year in vain.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The main thing is that her husband is good to her, and her mother-in-law will like him very much, this is his own capital, and people dress up beautifully every day, you will be comfortable when you look at it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    How could someone else want a woman like her? Lazy and gluttonous woman, who else wants? Yes, what about this world? That's it, the world is not perfect sometimes. However, this girl may have merit.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    To be honest, girls like this are really bad, so boys should also understand clearly when looking for girls.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Of course, someone wants this girl, because he is not only young and beautiful, but also beautiful.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I should regret losing my boyfriend for ten years. After all, two people have been together for so long, you have experienced a run-in period, and you have experienced a seven-year itch, logically speaking, the two of you should be able to get along well, but now they have broken up, if it is because of some trivial things to break up, then I will definitely regret it, but if it is because of the principle of breaking up, then I will definitely not regret it, because this is a character problem, this has touched my bottom line, no matter how long the relationship is, as long as it touches my bottom line, Then we'll see you again. It's just that I feel that my boyfriend who has been dating for ten years left suddenly, it may be very unaccustomed, and I may feel sorry for this relationship, and more importantly, I think that this relationship did not come to fruition in the end, wasting my youth, if I have other boyfriends in the past ten years, maybe there will be a good ending, so at this time I should hate myself, why didn't I find out that the other party was not suitable for me early, why didn't I leave him earlier, It's about being abandoned until now.

    Sometimes girls are very sad, when you take your heart to her but find that he is holding a knife at you, when you want to continue to develop with him, he walks away without looking back, when you want to forgive him, he rejects you, and continues to find his true love, in the end only you lose your precious things, and the other party leaves unscathed, so sometimes girls must not be too stupid, when loving each other, you must keep a little leeway, to keep your last dignity. When you break up with your boyfriend, you may find that you will never devote yourself to the next relationship, you no longer have so much energy to get to know someone carefully, and you may have died.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Everyone will have their own strengths and weaknesses, it may be that you don't find her strengths.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    There are no women left, only the remaining victorious men, and there are no remaining women.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You can't get used to seeing such a girl, but some men will still treat her as a treasure, otherwise this woman would not become like this.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Maybe it's because she's such a person that people come to love her and love her.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Yes, goddess, no matter what kind of girl can get married, because there are more men and fewer women now, no matter what kind of girl there is, someone will like it.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I don't think it's what a woman wants, maybe she has good qualities.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It depends entirely on one's own reality, so everyone may have their own choice, so some people may be able to accept it, so it may be unacceptable for many people.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It's not like this, girls have medicine, but there are too few women and too many men now, and there is no way, only people can ask for it.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    As long as someone likes his character, no matter how good a girl is, someone will want it.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    No matter what type of girl she is, she will meet a Bole who knows how to appreciate them.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It's hard to say this thing, just if someone likes him, there is her mother-in-law who likes him. So you can't judge people with your eyes.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    There must be someone who likes a girl like him, and that's a very normal thing.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Everyone has their own characteristics and their weaknesses, not that he is useless, so of course he will be appreciated.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Such a woman is also a blessing cultivated in the previous life, and his family can treat her so well, he should cherish it.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    People divide things into groups and gather like them, and the person who can marry him must have the same quality as him, so it can only be said that things gather like and people gather in groups.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    I think that no matter what kind of girl he is, it's the same, do you know that we really lack women in China.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    From the above information, the analysis is carried out. You might just be a candidate for her. And not the only one.

    She's conflicted right now, on the one hand: she doesn't have special feelings for you, but you're also an acceptable type.

    The second aspect: I suspect that there is another man's choice. She's constantly comparing the two of you. You can't choose.

    In addition, according to personal speculation: she is afraid of loneliness, when you are around, she feels less afraid, when you leave, when you leave, she falls into the fear of loneliness again. She's afraid she won't be able to wait for you for so long. So it's annoying.

    One last question: She shouldn't be a person who compromises for the sake of face. Otherwise, you can directly explain the reasons why you don't like you or don't want to fall in love for the time being.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    First of all, reserve you first, because you are still in school, how will the future work, it is difficult for her to judge, if the ability to work in the future is strong, and all aspects of material can meet her needs, she will consider, if the work ability is not strong, and the self-motivation is insufficient, she will lose it. So she won't refuse all at once now, and she won't accept you, as for him going to grandpa's house with you and other things, he may just make amends.

    Unless you have a lot of stamina and improve quickly in all aspects after work, you will basically be useless.

    You confess that she doesn't say yes right away, you can see that she doesn't like you enough, or that she's a very cautious person, and he wants to see you until you're satisfied. What should you do, I suggest you don't take this matter too seriously, everything is fate, and there is no need to deliberately pay a lot of sacrifices, and when you are strong enough, if he doesn't have a boyfriend, it doesn't matter if he has a boyfriend, there are girls who like you halfway You can like it, personal advice.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    People are like this, selfish, and don't like you, and don't want to give up on you, say that she has you in her heart, and if you don't like it, you are a spare tire, although she doesn't like you, but she doesn't want you to leave her, so you confess to him, she didn't refuse or agree, and then give you some sweetness, so that you still have fantasies about her, so that you continue to like her and be good to her, if there is a better appearance during the period, you will be out immediately. I've been in this situation too, and my solution is to get her out first.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Maybe she's struggling with it herself, and she also thinks it's too elusive what your future will be, and since she's still with you a lot, you can observe what she likes, and become the person she likes and can't leave, and maybe everything will be clear when you graduate :)

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Before the age of twenty-four, a woman's heart is floating, and the starring role is to pursue the novelty of love, and she will not consider marriage until she is tired of playing. Even if they are serious at first, when they get tired of it, they are serious about leaving in the end. So seriously, you're losing.

    Think about how to make yourself strong, it's not yet the age to talk about marriage.

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