I wonder why it s so hard for a boy to get a wife.

Now the ratio of men and women is seriously imbalanced, and boys must have a certain attractiveness, and they must have cars and houses.

First of all, you have to have a material and financial foundation, and then you have to have a skill, so that you can support your family in the future, and life is so hard.

How can such a question be asked? In today's society, it is really difficult for a boy to marry a wife. But when a boy becomes a man, he must have a sense of responsibility.

In addition to the material base and the financial base, unless you have better talents; Think about it from a different angle, why does that woman want to be your wife? Then work hard, and you should be able to find the wife you like.

Now there are more boys than girls, and a rich man can have several women, and now people are more realistic, so that's why it's like this.

Because there is a serious imbalance between men and women. Besides, in fact, the house, the car, the pressure of life is too great, and the current girls are too realistic.

Nowadays, people have good requirements, and the pursuit of material things is relatively high, and many men do not have this condition to meet.

It's not difficult, it's not like this for everyone, and it's hard to find a woman now.

This is not certain, fate will naturally get married, and now there are a lot of leftover women.

I think the first is that there are more men than women and it is difficult to find, and then there is no place to attract women.

There are more men and fewer women, hehe, and mothers-in-law are generally more powerful.

Because now I have to have a house to marry you.

As long as you have the ability and will find money, it won't be too difficult.

That's because the ratio of men to women is very imbalanced.

This depends on fate. Don't be in a hurry.

If you can't get fate, you will find it when fate arrives.

That's up to you.

Isn't it a money problem? It's so hard.

1. The ratio of unmarried men and women of appropriate age is out of balance.

According to statistics, the ratio of men to women in the country is 6.5, which is much higher than the international average. Influenced by the traditional idea of inheritance, most families want to have a boy at all costs, especially in rural areas, where most people believe that boys are more suitable for carrying on the family, caring for the elderly, and earning money to support the family. As a result, there will be more boys and fewer girls, and our country will face "the world's worst gender imbalance".

The National Census Service predicts that between 30 million and 50 million men will not be able to marry wives in the next few years. At the moment, there are already 18 million more men than women who have reached the age of marriage.

Second, with the development of society, the population flow is getting stronger and stronger.

In the past, it was common to see young men and women who had nothing to do at home, or playing cards at home, or going to the county town to shop together.

But now this situation is gone, money is more and more prominent and attractive, many men and women, even people in their fifties and sixties, have gone out to work, except for old men and old ladies walking around the village during the slack time. It is difficult for unmarried men and women of working age to get together.

3. Some of the girls' parents are blind to money and the comparison psychology in the countryside.

The superposition of the first and second reasons makes it difficult for the boy to say that the matchmaker has long been difficult, and a small number of girls' parents have seen it, and they want to take advantage of the child's marriage to make some oil and water, so they opened their mouths, and the comparison psychology in the countryside has intensified this phenomenon.

Having a car and a house is the basic condition, and there are all kinds of strange sayings such as the so-called "three movements and three immobility" and "thousands of purples and thousands of reds", and there are more tricks for relatives to get things for their mother-in-law for the first time after marriage. As a result, most of the boys' parents are exhausted.

The salary of a normal ordinary wage earner is 3,000 to 5,000 a month, and the salary of a skilled worker or management is about 10,000 a month. But most still get a meager salary. With such a small amount of money, how can you marry a wife, so many boys in the countryside can't marry a wife.

The only way for a boy in a rural area to marry a wife is to work hard and make money. Strive to earn the first pot of gold in your life as soon as possible, and then accumulate it slowly, and strive to marry the wife you want as soon as possible!

It is becoming more and more difficult for boys in rural areas to marry wives, and the main reason is that the economic development in rural areas is relatively not so good, the family conditions are not so superior, and their knowledge structure is not complete, so they will be less attractive in terms of attractiveness.

The main reason is that because rural boys now have no money and no economic foundation, and if they want to marry rural girls, the requirements are generally relatively high, so it is particularly difficult for them to marry a wife.

Because the threshold for marriage has become higher now, the economic conditions of rural boys are limited, so it is difficult to marry a wife.

Because there is neither a house nor a car, the key is that there is no bride price money, and boys in rural areas generally have no ideals.

Because the conditions are not good, the economic conditions of the boy in the countryside are not very good, so he cannot find a wife.

It is because there are many girls who are very realistic, they are more disgusted with rural boys' families, and now girls also have high requirements for finding partners.

Hello, in fact, everyone wants to find their favorite feelings as much as possible, and want to let themselves have real happiness and joy, and the reason why I have always been single and unwilling to get married is mainly due to the following factors that take the sedan chair:

First of all, in combination with my actual situation, I don't have the conditions for marriage, two people getting married together is not child's play is the need to have a certain material foundation, and I have only graduated from college for more than two years now, and my career has not really stabilized, and now girls are more realistic, I hope that the boys who marry themselves can have a car and a house, and give themselves a large dowry, and my family conditions are difficult to achieve, and now the vast majority of girls have marriage requirements, so from this stage, Staying single is the most realistic option for me.

On the other hand, deciding to marry two people together, in addition to the material foundation, also requires a certain emotional foundation, these emotional foundations are the need for two people to be highly compatible in terms of three views, to be able to tolerate and understand each other, to find a person who is more suitable in all aspects of chaos, it is also more difficult, I am also very aware of this, so I didn't find the one that really made me excited, and I didn't find the one that made me really able to recognize, I will not settle for myself before I feel that I am suitable for each other, after all, a marriage is related to my lifelong happiness, once I choose the wrong one, and then want to correct it, the cost and price paid are often too heavy.

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In the market economy, there are more men and fewer women, and it is inevitably difficult for men to marry wives.

Women nowadays don't need to be dependent on men to live.

Most of the young men of school age who cannot marry a wife are in rural areas for three reasons:

First, there are more men than women in China, and there are naturally more young men than young women of appropriate age.

According to incomplete statistics, there are about 30 million more unmarried men of appropriate age than unmarried women of appropriate age.

Most of the unmarried young men of school-age are in rural areas, and they are all boys with low education, no background, and no ability.

Most of the young unmarried women of working age are located in large cities. Most of them were born in rural areas and have a high degree of education, and after graduation, they did not want to go back to the countryside to live, and wanted to find a city boy, and the number of urban boys was limited, so they were left in the city. As a result, some of the young men in the countryside who are able to marry are left.

Second, the family conditions are not good, and the bride price discourages many young men of school age. The level of education is not high, and the personality is relatively muna.

The bride price in some places has virtually raised the threshold and cost of male marriage, making many parents complain, but there is no way to change this situation. In addition, the boy's own conditions are not good, and he doesn't want to make it more difficult to get married.

There is such a boy in his life, his own family is poor, his education level is not high, he can't speak, his emotional intelligence is low, and he doesn't even know how to carry things for girls when he goes shopping with girls, so he lets the girl walk alone in high heels and carry things in the back, and he walks in front himself.

Now most girls of the same age who want to find such a boy? Regardless of the boys' poor family conditions, they prefer to be with boys who can talk and have high emotional intelligence.

Third, in the circle where the boy is located, there are few single girls and not many selective.

For example, he is engaged in a profession that has fewer girls, and usually does not have the opportunity to contact single girls. or occupations that need to be separated after marriage, the woman will take into account the life after marriage, and the marriage will naturally be put on hold.

One of my classmates works as a technician on the construction site, there are no unmarried women of appropriate age in his life circle, most of them are married, he often has to run with the work team in various cities, there is no fixed place, and the family has not settled down until now, and the woman on a blind date hears that she is away all the year round, and they are discouraged.

Young men of school-age who are really talented and rich are either already married or just don't want to get married.

For most men, marriage is done to fulfill their parents' wish - to pass on the lineage.

And there are mature and stable men, on the contrary, they prefer to live an unrestrained life.

There is no shortage of women around them, their careers are on the rise, and they are unwilling to let their careers be blocked by the married life of firewood, rice, oil and salt, and they don't want to waste time dealing with family chores.

Of course, this is an active non-marriage, not a passive failure to marry a daughter-in-law.

All in all, those boys who can't marry a daughter-in-law must find problems in themselves. Again, gold shines wherever it goes. If you are good enough and a potential stock, what high bride price, what family is poor, other external conditions can be ignored.