Why are men born in the 80s so bitter!

Dear landlord I'm glad to have your question The following is my To tell the truth, heartache can only be healed with heart, you can only let yourself hide in the corner with time to heal the wound, return to nature to heal the wound of the soul, wait for the wound to heal, love the pain has passed, it is not easy to completely forget, how many people can really forget, that may be absolutely impossible, but also to lie to yourself, some memories can only be buried deep in the heart forever, just use time to slowly forget, learn to give up. Some people or some things, inadvertently missed or lost in the years of time, occasionally pick up the memories, will spontaneously give birth to a wisp of romantic feelings recalling the past, it contains a sense of seeing things and thinking about people, the sigh of the past. Love hurts, it hurts so much that I cry, so I choose to let go, letting go is a helpless despair, and it hurts my heart.

When the people who once really loved the release of life were about to meet strangers, they suddenly realized that what they thought was eternally long, in fact, it was just a meeting in Pingshui. I once thought that I could hold hands all the way down like this, but let go to understand that everything is just the accidental intersection of two parallel lines, when everything disappears, the parallel lines are still parallel, even if they are not far apart, it is also the end of the world, the price of bravery is to let go of themselves first, admit failure, accept helplessness, sigh softly, helplessly wish them happiness, from then on, if the heart stops, it is difficult to make waves. In fact, it is impossible to completely forget a person quickly, and it is also deceiving yourself, just keeping the deep affection in the memory and forgetting the pain of the past, because the most beautiful blessing is to remember a person, the best hard work is to think of a person will cry, the greatest satisfaction is what you give, and love will become unforgettable after suffering something.

Love can be a momentary thing or a lifetime thing. Leave because of love, give up because of love. It may sound great, but who can truly give up for love?

A person is not lonely, but a person who thinks is lonely. It's only when you care too much about someone that love becomes a burden. Please forgive me if my own is inaccurate!

It proves that the human ideology is lost. The inevitable result of women demanding too much from men, and men wanting women.

There are about 200 million post-80s generation in China, and they are the only child generation under the family planning policy. The pressure on the life of the post-80s generation is huge, bearing the pressure of an aging population and housing loans. Here's an explanation of the situation:

After the three major sources of stress.

The first place is work, and people think that the pressure comes from "the pressure of work, and it is too difficult to make a career"; In second place is the burden of living, and people believe that the pressure comes from "the pressure of living economically, such as buying a house, a car, raising children, etc."

In third place is the social evaluation system, and some people think that the pressure comes from "social pressure, tired to breathless"; At the end of the list is the expectations of parents, and some people feel that "parents have too high expectations of themselves".

2. House slaves. The survey found that eighty percent of the "post-80s" had a deposit of less than 100,000 yuan, which was not enough to make a down payment, and buying a house was obviously an unbearable burden.

Thirty-four percent chose to rent, 18 percent chose to live with their parents, only 29 percent bought a house and made a down payment, and only 14 percent paid off the mortgage. Regarding the money to buy a house, 26% of the people are "most funded by their parents, and a small part of their own (including spouse) savings", and only 14% are fully funded by their parents and relatives, and only 14% are paid by themselves.

Due to the shyness of money, some people claim that they will not buy a car in the past two years, and only 29% of car owners. In other words, only 3 out of 10 post-80s have cars.

3. Eighty percent of the post-80s generation has a monthly salary of less than 10,000 yuan.

More than half of the post-80s interviewed were born between 1986 and 1989, and they are mainly concentrated in China's first-tier cities and small and medium-sized cities, of which nearly half of the post-80s work in private enterprises, and state-owned enterprises and institutions account for two percent each. 42% of the people have a monthly income between 3,000 yuan and 5,999 yuan, with 2,999 yuan and 6,000 yuan to 9,999 yuan each.

In the 80s, they went through too many social factors caused by the pressure, in that era of formal national transformation, many enterprises are not good, enterprises are not good to do workers can only be laid off, the times are progressing, prices are in the first place, during that era, the country is making great strides, once the economic strength can not keep up with the pace of the country, it can only eat ashes in the back.

People who want to buy a house just catch up with the housing price spent**, want to do their own business, and the land is controlled by the state, which is not so easy to apply, and there are more businessmen who come to exploit and make money to fill their pockets at this time, and they also have to face the problem of raising parents who do not have pensions and pensions, as well as children who need to go to cram schools, so the post-80s generation is suffering and can't say it.