Is it true that sometimes it is more difficult to give up than to hold on in love?

The greatest happiness in life is to be able to get a heart that loves you and cares for you all the time. Don't forget, love is like sand in your hand, the tighter you hold it, the more you will lose. Actually, I think it's harder to give up, because it's hard to let go of your insistence, and it's only a matter of time before you forget, no matter what, how unforgettable it is, in the wash of time.

Think about it, if you don't mention "chasing" at all, then girls will have no chance to "refuse to jump and be resigned?" This can reduce the psychological pressure of the girl and make you successful. A hopeless love, giving up is the best choice, because sometimes, giving up is also a kind of beauty.

Maybe it's because people are reluctant to give up on the "cost of silence", which is one reason, but not the most important one. More importantly, most people are naturally afraid of change, and are prone to "path dependence" on past events, that is, most people are unwilling to change their lives. This is because change brings uncertainty to their lives, perhaps risky, and most people hate risks, which is why it is more difficult to give up than to insist, but I hope that whether you insist or give up, do not consider the cost of silence, and make a responsible choice for yourself based on your long-term planning goals.

In fact, it is easy to stick to it, but it is difficult to give up. Because giving up means re-planning, starting over, or even being confused, empty, and doing nothing. Persistence means that there is something to do and the future can be expected, this feeling of fulfillment makes you feel down-to-earth, feel that life is interesting and rushing, people are not afraid of death but are afraid of darkness, and giving up means darkness.

No matter what the goal is, stick to it, the quantitative change will definitely change qualitatively, so that you have a meaning to live. Let yourself live up to yourself. To cherish your time is to love yourself.

Later, I thought about what feelings are, maybe it's really not time to grasp it, but I can't blame others for not being able to grasp it. It's really sad in my heart that I used to feel that life was quiet, but now I feel that I am wasting my time. Time really doesn't deceive you, and looking back in a few years, it's very uncomfortable.

If you don't want to make friends, break them, break up the people you don't want to meet, start what you want to do early, and set your goals to achieve them as soon as possible, so you won't be sad. It's nice to be on your own. There's a lot of time and opportunity. Why do people who don't love you have to get married and have children?

It is easy to give up and difficult to persevere, which is a common problem of people nowadays.

To give up is to stop, end, and abandon something that is persisting on. On the contrary, persistence is to continue to do what he thinks is right.

And why is it easy to give up and it is difficult to persevere, the reason is very simple, that is, we tend to choose a comfortable state to live, if you observe carefully, you will find that if a person does not insist on things, then he must be a person who is content with the status quo, and may be idle all his life, because he chose the current state, thinking that he is living comfortably now, and gradually there is no goal, no ideal, and no thing to insist on.

Therefore, it is very important to insist on doing one thing, even if it does not make us change a lot, but at least it can keep us from being satisfied with the status quo, at least we can be sure that we are moving forward.

If you want to be a person who is not satisfied with the status quo and wants to change slowly, please remember that you must start by insisting on doing one thing, giving up the easy and persisting difficult, and not giving up the future because of a little comfort.

It is a wise move to give up small profits and win 3,000 avenues.