Has love changed or have we changed love?

Love is also different from person to person, different people have different ways of manifesting themselves, and I think two people together are going to change, change the direction of love in your hearts!

Love is a beautiful emotion, which can make people embrace life more passionately and face challenges more bravely. However, sometimes, for the sake of love, we will have to change ourselves.

1. First of all, sometimes, for the sake of love, we have to change our thinking. For example, some people may change their religion to better fit into their significant other's family.

2. Secondly, sometimes, for the sake of love, we will have to change our behavior. For example, some people may change their habits to better fit into their significant other's life.

3. Finally, sometimes, for the sake of love, we will have to change our appearance. For example, some people may change their hairstyle to better fit in with their significant other's society.

In short, we may have to change ourselves for the sake of love. However, we should remember that changing ourselves is not to make our other half like us more, but to better integrate into the life of the other half and make each other closer.

The child suddenly became interested in bows and arrows, and wanted to take him to the archery range to experience it while buying it online, and the child readily agreed, which was beyond our expectations, because he hated going out since he was sick, and he couldn't go to closed places. When I first arrived at the archery range, the child was still relatively happy, but there were other players one after another, the place became noisy, he began to be restless, sweating, and asked me how long I had left, and I comforted: If you don't want to play, let's go home.

On the way home, the child has been depressed, I asked him what was wrong, and he said angrily: I don't want to go out, and you don't know. I said:

If you don't want to come out, you can tell your parents that we will be reluctant if we don't care. The son said, "It's not that you took me out before, and I didn't want to, so you got angry, and every time I made me very unhappy, so I habitually agreed."

Suddenly I choked up: "Son, don't think about whether others are happy now, the key is to make yourself happy, before your parents didn't know that you had psychological problems, we just considered using the weekend to let you go out for a walk, you can relax your eyes and exercise." But I didn't expect it to hurt you.

But now mom and dad are making changes, and each of us is working on it, and hopefully you'll try to come out of it too. My son's mood improved a lot after hearing this.

Since my child was sick, my wife and I have been open and honest with my son, asking him to talk about his true feelings about his parents, the problems between us, and then try to make changes to create a more warm, comfortable and harmonious family atmosphere. The child's father has made a big change, he will spend time and energy with the child, and talking to the child no longer gives people a sense of command, but can chat calmly and joke, and will not be anxious because the words are not speculative, but change the topic in a timely manner, and also learn to listen, rather than rushing to say their own opinions. The child is also becoming more and more dependent on his father and trusting him.

The road is still long and bumpy, but change for love, and everything will get better and better. It's like my son suddenly said to me, "Mom, thank you, thank God for giving me such a good mother."

I believe that as long as you give, you will eventually wait for the day when your child changes, and sincere companionship is the best love for your child.

Obviously, I am not happy about this change, just for the sake of the other party. And I never thought about whether this change is benign, whether it is what I am happy to see, and whether it is good for myself.

You are you, the one and only. Each of us is a unique being, and each of us has the meaning of our own existence. Don't change yourself rashly in order to gain the love of others!

Although love is very important, it is not necessary to change yourself for love, and I hope you can realize this.

Many times, in order to get a love, we will choose to give up a lot, give a lot, and sometimes even change ourselves. This is really not a wise thing to do. After all, love is only a part of our lives, not the whole of our lives, and flippantly changing yourself will only put you in a different predicament.

Although we should pay a lot for love, this does not include rash changes in ourselves! People themselves are our most valuable wealth, we should not easily change ourselves, love, should not lose ourselves as the premise, you must think clearly!

What do you think love is, do you think that by changing yourself for the sake of your so-called love, you can get the love of your dreams? Not really. The real beautiful love is actually two people who tolerate each other and accept each other, after all, everyone is so different in this world, if you just change yourself, then, your love will still produce all kinds of contradictions, after all, everyone is constantly changing!

Perhaps, at this moment, you choose to change yourself because you like it, but when this impulsive love passes, and then look back on the past, you will be very sad for the loss of yourself, and even regret it for the rest of your life. I don't think that's what you want to see, so don't change yourself easily for the sake of love.

If you change and accommodate for the other person, it is not because love is humble, but because you are willing to compromise blindly, which is another way to love the other person. On the contrary, a couple who don't love enough will not take the initiative to change themselves, but want to transform each other into the perfect appearance in their minds every day.

The highest level of love should be the mutual independence and appreciation of the soul. This type of flow is characterized by allowing oneself to be oneself freely while allowing the other person to be themselves. There is no deliberate sacrifice, so there is no inner imbalance.

Let's talk about my point of view first - "I will change myself for love" but there is no way, it is not you who pay in love, nor is it because your change will have a good result.

A good relationship should be a long stream, support each other, change for love, in other words, but also for yourself, because with a loving person, there is more motivation to change. Stupid in the end, I still have to constantly improve myself, so that I will not be so inferior and helpless in this relationship, and there is no one right or wrong in every love, only choices.

Love is pure, single, and does not contain any emotional impurities, and I think that it will not change because of love before encountering love. Because when you meet someone who wants to spend the rest of your life together, someone who eats three meals a day, or someone who is extremely touched, change becomes natural. Change is for a better self, not impulsive, not a goal, maintain a rational attitude in trembling love, and slowly achieve a better and stupid self in this relationship.

True love is not to change each other, but to grow together, and finding the right person is the best gift for the rest of your life, not because I am persistent, but because you are worthy! Even if there is a dispersion in the end, don't live up to the encounter, meet well, say goodbye, be alone, live up to yourself, two people, don't live up to each other.

Yang Jiang. Everyone wants to have a good love, so how can you use a good love! I have always thought that the word growth is inseparable from guardianship.

Becoming a slippery old foundation leader together is both a guardian and an encouragement. In the world of love, we often explore doing things that give each other something new, in fact, you can try to grow together.

The most enduring love in the world may be: "Believe that you are very good and show off Qi Xiu, and I am not bad." "In love, two people are independent of each other, work together, grow together, attract each other, you have me on the road ahead, I have you, and we can all find a better self in the days together.