Isn t it terrible for a boy to have a traumatic heart?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-13
25 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Study hard, time will dilute everything.

    Divert attention from other ways to go. For example, when you go on a trip.

    Read a book at home and set goals for yourself.

    Also, girls who have just broken up will be more fragile emotionally.

    So at that time she accepted you, and even she didn't know if she really liked you.

    So don't mess with girls who just broke up.

    I hope you can be happy.

    Men, still career-oriented,

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The ideal is plump and the reality is skinny.

    For Mao, he wants to die and live for love.

    Giving up on school? Silly.

    Hurry up and read well.

    Don't go NC Grandma Qiong Yao's set.

    In these years, love is not counted.

    I want to open a point. It's better to work harder.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Don't think so much It's useless what we say The important thing is what you have to do It is useless to think so much It's like me I was dumped by a man and then I hate men very much I can't see a man on QQ and I don't talk to boys That's all my own problem It's good to pull if you want to open up Now sometimes I think of him But after a long time, I naturally forget It is not us who is wrong We don't have to blame ourselves so much Isn't it good to find someone who really loves you The relationship will not be so good after a breakup There will be flaws between the two of them, and in short, they will be separated again in the end-- I have had the same person, and they have been separated for a few days, and then reconciled, and they have been going back and forth dozens of times! I'm tired of it, I feel that the two of them are not suitable at all, it's just that the psychological emptiness and loneliness lead to a lot of dependence on each other, I don't know if what I'm saying is right, think about it yourself,

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you have a wound in your soul, you can't recover it for a while, but you have to work hard to recover. Give yourself more vacations, don't always lock yourself in a closed world, make more friends, travel more, and let yourself do what you want. At this time, you don't have to worry too much, and you can make mistakes like a child.

    But don't do it, recovering from the pain is not something that can be alleviated by starting a relationship, on the contrary, it will become more and more severe. So, don't always think that you are the most unlucky, if you want to think about Duan Zhenlian, maybe you will be the whole world in someone's heart in the future, for yourself, cheer!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Time will dilute everything.

    Let him divert his attention from other things. For example, when you go on a trip.

    Read a book at home and set goals for yourself.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Let him stay good for himself, everyone's most trustworthy confidant is himself, maybe if he thinks about it, he will feel that this spiritual injury is fate, and it is possible to grow after experiencing this.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Since you have to be strong, your psychology should be good! If it's so vulnerable, it's a little too vulnerable. If it's really uncomfortable, find some friends to comfort you, or think quietly when you're alone, face your own voice, do you like your current self?

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Since you want to be strong, you have to make him feel successful.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Cup: "I'm lonely, I need coffee, give me some coffee." ”

    Host: "Okay, with the coffee you want, aren't you lonely?" ”

    Cup: "I guess so." ”

    The owner poured the coffee into the cup.

    The coffee was hot, and the cup felt like it was about to melt, and Kiriko Kiriko thought to himself, this is what life feels like.

    The coffee got cold, the cup was scared, and the cup thought, this is what it feels like to lose.

    The coffee was cold, the cup was desperate, and the cup thought, this is the "masterpiece" of fate.

    Cup: "Master, pour the coffee out, I don't need it." "The host was not there.

    The cup felt depressed to death, and the hateful coffee, cool, was put in my heart, and I felt so sad.

    The cup shook hard, and the coffee finally came out of the heart of the cup, and the cup was very happy.

    Suddenly, the cup fell to the ground and shattered.

    Before he died, he saw that there were traces of coffee in every part of his heart.

    It knows that it loves coffee, and it loves coffee so much.

    However, it can no longer take the coffee to heart. The cup cried, its tears dissolved with the coffee, hoping to love coffee again with its last strength.

    The master picked up the fragments of the cup, and one piece cut his hand, and there was blood on the tips of his fingers.

    The cup smiled, love, what is it, can you only know how to cherish it after experiencing pain?

    The cup smiled, love, what is it, do you have to give up before everything can be exchanged?

    The master smiled, cup, what is love, do you have to hurt others when you are in despair of falling out of love?

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Hehe, listen to him.

    Perhaps, he is a Gemini.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Love him, no one else chooses, because you like him...

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Or, that person, is also forced by reality, or, that person, is not worth your crying.

    In short, we have to smile well.

    If you are sad, then arrange your day to the fullest, even if you have no friends to accompany you, no class to add, sit quietly in the fast food restaurant and do what you want to do, and feel that it will not be bad there.

    Don't let yourself isolate yourself and make yourself more lonely;

    If you are bored, call old friends, have the opportunity to go out to climb mountains, hang out, brag, and ask more friends the better, or even friends of friends, then you will find that today, you have another friend, today, and find another fun If you want to cry, look at those poor people around you who have no food, look at those who have no food and shelter, and can't afford to fall in love at all, you are luckier than them, because you have at least tasted love, but they may not have the opportunity to know in their lifetime.

    Look at those who have been in love for several years and parted ways, and those who have been married and divorced for several years, do you really think, are you pathetic?

    If you still can't let go, then cry, you have the right to cry, but after crying, you have to smile, there are many people in this world, born without parents, born unsound, born with illness, born without the opportunity to go to school, born with war, bear life and death, they don't even have the opportunity to shed tears...

    Therefore, we have to face the loss of love with a smile;

    If that person is also involuntarily, then you should live a life with a smile for him, because this is also what he wants to see;

    If that person is not worth it, then you have to take good care of yourself, and be glad that you have been given the opportunity to wait for someone who will really cherish you early with a grateful heart, and in the face of broken love, you will find that in fact, you are still a shining star.

    In fact, you can still live with a smile.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    In fact, to tell the truth, it is not painful to give up a person who loves you very much, it is painful to give up a person you love very much, it is even more painful to fall in love with someone who does not love you, it is destined to be a tragedy, some losses are doomed, some fate will never have results, you don't have to have someone to love, but you must cherish someone if you have one. Since you don't love, then let go in a word, there is a kind of love called letting go, only letting go is a kind of relief, but also a new beginning and having, let go of the burden of the mood is much easier, in the moment the tears fall turn around and leave, don't let yourself hurt, why hang on a tree without sweetness, no happiness, no happiness, people don't love you, then, how to tie up people, twisted melons are not sweet, why embarrass yourself? Why let yourself lose your self-esteem and self-love, indulge in pain, let yourself walk physically and mentally exhausted, scarred, why bother?

    It's not interesting, love is two-sided, it's not wishful thinking that there will be results, meeting is the destined fate of life, you can't force it, you will get it only if you lose, and those who refuse to lose your luggage will never swim to the other side. Make yourself strong, have confidence and courage, live your own life, look back at the end of the sea of suffering, and find someone who truly loves you and what you love, which will comfort the wounds of your soul, make up for the shortcomings of your soul, and let you have and cherish. In fact, life is like this, when you lose a beloved thing, there will inevitably be another item for you to like, and when you break up with your lover, there will be a better relationship waiting for you.

    At the very least, you will not live in sorrow, and you will find your own paradise, your own sweet, happy and happy life.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Accompanying him, companionship is the warmest and most affectionate, and a thousand words are not as good as being matched to old age.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Drink with him and vent it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Give him a sustenance, a sense of home, a kind of care, a kind of love. Thank you for adopting.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You can say to him, 'You still have me.'

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    He has taken life very lightly, and he can only be comforted by exchanging difficulties with him.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Although a step back, you can't open the sky, but to du

    Less, we won't be so sad. Some people are chasing pure love and marriage, and everyone's ruler is different, maybe your purity is just someone else's impurity? The most important thing is that you are happy, and if you are unhappy, you can choose to make yourself happy and not let your past relationships affect your current life.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Look at the opening point, everyone can play in today's society. Just don't play too much.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Maybe I'm curious about this kind of thing! If he doesn't love you can break up.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You can go to a psychiatrist and unravel your heart.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    There is no way, everyone is free.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    To tell the truth, heartache can only be healed with heart, you can only let yourself hide in the corner and use time to heal slowly, return to nature to heal the wound of the soul, wait for the wound to heal, love the pain has passed, it is not easy to completely forget, how many people can really forget, it may be absolutely impossible, but also to lie to yourself, some memories can only be buried deep in the heart forever, just use time to slowly forget, learn to give up. Some people or some things, inadvertently missed or lost in the years of time, occasionally pick up the memories, will spontaneously give birth to a wisp of romantic feelings recalling the past, it contains a sense of seeing things and thinking about people, the sigh of the past. Love hurts, it hurts so much that I cry, so I choose to let go, letting go is a helpless despair, and it hurts my heart.

    When the people who once really loved the release of life were about to meet strangers, they suddenly realized that what they thought was eternally long, in fact, it was just a meeting in Pingshui. I once thought that I could hold hands all the way down like this, but let go to understand that everything is just the accidental intersection of two parallel lines, when everything disappears, the parallel lines are still parallel, even if they are not far apart, it is also the end of the world, the price of bravery is to let go of themselves first, admit failure, accept helplessness, sigh softly, helplessly wish them happiness, from then on, if the heart stops, it is difficult to make waves. In fact, it is impossible to completely forget a person quickly, and it is also deceiving yourself, just keeping the deep affection in the memory and forgetting the pain of the past, because the most beautiful blessing is to remember a person, the best hard work is to think of a person will cry, the greatest satisfaction is what you give, and love will become unforgettable after suffering something.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Ha, I've been hurt, and I won't love again for a long time.

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