I ve been dating my boyfriend for half a year, and I keep saying that I hate me crying, what should

You must know that it is not easy for people to mix in society now, especially men, they have their own goals, before their goals are not reached, their need for love will not be very deep, as a girl If you want to capture a boy's heart, you must be able to observe words and know when they need what they need most, rather than using tears to attack, you must know that tears are sometimes very good, but sometimes they become the most annoying behavior of boys. Look at your description, your BF should be in the stage of hard work in the near future, at this time he is focused on work, you will definitely ignore the point, if you are a smart girl, you should know that now is not the time to ask, but to make tolerance, support, understanding behavior, you have to care about him, not ask him to do something for you, your considerate behavior after he is busy back will increase his dependence on you, at this time you should show the female maternal side, these mature behaviors of yours, will make him look at it differently, and over time, he will also think about whether he doesn't care enough about you, people are always mutual.

If you've done so much and he's still indifferent, then you'll have to think about whether he still likes you.

Actually, I think I'm also a bold type of boy, but I'm a little too serious like that, unlike boyfriends and girlfriends, if it were me, I would tolerate my girlfriend crying in front of me! Coquettish! These are all things that a girl should have!

I think it's a kind of fun for girls to be coquettish appropriately! But you must not go too far, if you go too far, it will seem that it is too fragile, and if you don't have femininity, you will just be like a child who needs to be cared for!

Your boyfriend is so weird, every time I cry my boyfriend panics. But I rarely cry in front of him, because it can be very annoying. Problems arise to be solved, not to cry.

Men always think that way because they are not that emotional. I'm also a woman, so I know very well that you will cry in front of your boyfriend, but in the future, you can try to show your vulnerability in front of your parents, or hide in the corner and cry by yourself. Otherwise he will think that you are too childish and will feel very tired.

In short, it's better to shed a little less tears in front of her boyfriend, he is very mature and can't stand the hypocrisy of a little girl. Or maybe he's too busy to listen to you crying.

If you have to cry, then hit him late at night (make sure he hasn't slept yet, just when he has nothing to do), and then cry carefully, in this situation, he will have the urge to protect you. I do this kind of thing when I go on a business trip, and my boyfriend thinks I'm so wronged. Actually, sometimes it's just to tease him, because he doesn't like girls to cry very much.

Your personality is not harmonious, he needs a mature royal sister, and he doesn't need you, a small and troublesome loli, so talk about it so much.

。。Your boyfriend is so strange Although many men are afraid of women crying But it won't go to any point My boyfriend only needs to kill me, no matter whose fault it is As soon as he yells at me, I cry Even if it's my fault He will admit his mistake, he is afraid that I will cry, as long as I cry, he will feel distressed He said that he was afraid that I would cry too much and would not love him.

Your boyfriend is so weird that girls will be spoiled, that's normal, who calls you a boyfriend, and I don't go coquettish with others.

He may love you, but he also hopes that you can become a little more mature, he feels that when you cry, he feels very guilty in his heart, and feels that his boyfriend is very incompetent.

A 26-year-old man is working hard in his career, sometimes he should be under a lot of pressure at work, and he needs to be comforted and you know that crying can't solve anything, and he has to bother to coax you, which is estimated to make him feel that the psychological pressure and nervous pressure are getting tighter and tighter. . .

Although girls don't have to be too strong, they still have to cry when they should cry, but you are wronged for him, hide when you want to cry and don't show him, don't let him bother and try to make yourself mature and independent

He is really good, he has matured, he has been rolling in society for a few years, and he has a deeper understanding of society. He has been in love several times, maybe the love has been hurt or the woman wants something from him, love may be too realistic for him. You are more mature, what you should be is what, don't fantasize about living in romance**, ** is stripped of reality.

You have to be optimistic that he is 26 years old, and in this real society, this age belongs to the reality, and you must face the reality. Maybe he used to be very romantic, and he could run a few streets to buy a popsicle for his lover. That's the beginning of love, everyone is like this, growing up and mature, the environment has changed, and their thoughts must be mature, the reason is just your age and his own character, if you were at that age, would you still do that?

Guess each other's minds all day long. In order to coax her to say all the sweet words. No, girl, it's normal for your age to think like this, marriage is dull, maybe it's the generation gap.

Think about the future, you also want to be long-term, so think about it for a long time.

You haven't had a boyfriend, have you? It's not love at all.

Your boyfriend's personality is too similar to mine. Hehe, make yourself strong.

Dizzy can't stand this kind of man.

You still want such a boyfriend, it's normal for girls to cry, what can you do if you cry in front of your beloved. Hehe, he should comfort you. It should be more heartbroken for you. I advise you, you tell him not to want him anymore, and see what happens to him.

What kind of people... If it's my boyfriend, I'll hit him.

This man doesn't understand romance and won't pity the jade.

Dumped him. When a woman cries, don't you coax a man to ask for it?

Hitting someone is a wrong act in itself, and the reason why the other party says so is also a reflection of the heart of frustration.

Civility and politeness and rudeness are a set of obvious anti-chang words, which mark a person's inner cultivation. Therefore, it can be made clear that no matter what kind of problem is encountered, hitting others is a wrong act that harms others and is not beneficial to oneself. This kind of behavior can ruin one's own image.

Therefore, it is reasonable for the boyfriend to say that he doesn't like it, and even cry. Therefore, in the future, you should communicate calmly and avoid hands-on behavior.

The importance of politeness.

Politeness is a norm for dealing with the relationship between people, and the moral rules that people should abide by in their daily interactions, which is the embodiment of civilization. Politeness is mainly manifested in: civilized language, friendly attitude, dignified manners, politeness is the "business card" of communication.

Politeness is a modest and respectful attitude and words and deeds, and it is the appearance of respecting the virtues of others; Politeness shows a person's cultural connotation and good cultivation; Politeness can add grace and charm to a person; Politeness is an essential form of communication in a civilized society.

Love-hate may have encountered some obstacles.

If he really loves you, then he won't let you cry, even if he accidentally makes you feel wronged and you cry, he will try his best to make you happy, and he will never hate you for crying, what he hates is not that you cry, but that he hates you as a person, so you should consider whether the relationship between the two of you can continue, you won't be happy with someone who doesn't love you, instead of being reluctant with him, it's better to break up bravely.

After reading your narrative, I think that if your boyfriend really doesn't like his girlfriend wiping his tears all the time, then you must change this behavior of yourself, if you can't change it, then your relationship will be cried by you, so change yourself.

I feel that your boyfriend is too selfish and selfish, and when your girlfriend cries, she is comforted first, and then she will find the reason and solution when her girlfriend is emotionally stable, and now I think you have to consider whether this man is worth getting along with you anymore.

can't accept you, so is your boyfriend interesting?

How can I stop crying?

In general, there are several reasons for crying:

1. Innate sentimentality.

In terms of natural temperament, it is the "emotional essence" negative. When people with negative emotions encounter unsatisfactory feelings, they usually express them with negative emotions, such as crying and tantrums. It's personality tendency.

2. Crying is just a means of acquisition.

As long as he cries from an early age, adults always satisfy him and compromise, so that children feel that it is effective to "cry to get what they want" or "avoid doing things they don't want to do".

3. Insufficient language skills.

Because parents or people with children are too thoughtful when they are young, they don't have to speak since they were young, as long as they use humming or crying, and using their fingers, adults know what he wants, so that the child's language expression and application ability can not grow, so he is used to crying to express.

4. The attitude of parents is too strict.

Adults are too fierce, and they will speak harshly to the child over a trivial matter, which frightens the child, making the child a crying "little daughter-in-law" to win sympathy, and the whole will grow up to be weaker.

5. Often ignored by parents.

When children are young, parents are not able to fully meet the basic needs of their children. For example, children whose parents are not often accompanied or approached; Or the adults are always busy taking care of the little ones or busy with their own business.

Children's basic psychological needs: such as being loved or feeling safe and unsatisfied, they will appear anxious and uneasy, showing a crying or unhappy look, and this emotion will follow when they grow up.

Find out the cause of crying and find a solution:

A person loves to cry has its positive meaning, but when it is not time to cry, it is necessary to find out the reason: born with negative emotions, habitually crying to achieve goals, insufficient language expression skills, adults are too fierce to children, or neglected children, etc., are more likely to show a tendency to cry, what kind of reason does your crying belong to? Find out how to solve it.

1. Encourage yourself when you want to cry in everything, improve your language skills, find a friend to talk about your troubles, and only if you don't need to cry with what you say, can you correct your own problems;

2. Cultivate your own emotional management ability, you must be calm in case of trouble, and try to swallow tears, which will gradually improve after a long time, and the situation will naturally gradually improve.

3. Also, crying isn't necessarily a bad thing. After crying, you can feel relaxed and less stressed. Some scholars have found that people who love to cry are even healthier physically and mentally than people who don't, so don't deliberately suppress your emotions for fear of crying, but depending on the size of the matter, it's worth crying.

4. Control your sensitivity.

Sensitive people feel pain more intensely than other children. In order to make your sensitive self cry less and cry less, you should encourage yourself to be a strong person, guide yourself to refrain from crying, don't be too third to the people or things around you, and reduce your loneliness and vulnerability.

5. Develop your self-esteem.

People who lack self-confidence are prone to crying due to sensitivity, so improve their self-confidence and self-esteem for self-recognition and a sense of accomplishment. Don't expect too much from yourself and ask yourself to do more than you can do.

You said that you love to cry very much, and you also said that your boyfriend used to dislike crying people, because he thought that crying people would be very cowardly, and now you really say that you didn't care about him when he was chatting with you.