Why is it so unpractical to date a boyfriend who has always been social

Updated on psychology 2024-05-28
45 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Men who are too busy always feel insecure, and women can not have a big house or a famous car, but they must have a sincere heart. Talk to him well, say what you think, see how he handles your relationship with him in the future, and if he loves you, it should change.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I think you need Mr. Lejia to help you analyze it now. I just want to say that your boyfriend was a workaholic before he got married, which is enough to prove that he is a very responsible and daring man.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's too tiring to be a man, and if there is a next life, I choose not to be a man.

    You have to take care of your feelings, you have to have a career, you have to buy a house and a car.

    I'm too tired, forget it, let's not talk about girlfriends.

    Now I feel less concerned about you, but when the career is not so serious and always surrounds you. You feel like this man is not motivated again. Contradictory.

    It's hard to find a balance. Either you just marry a rich man or a rich second generation, so that you don't have to worry about your career, at most you may have a bit of a conflict over the issue of the second and third mothers.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Well, it's insecure, and as a woman, I feel the same way as you. The difference is that the loved one has a different nature of work. He hasn't called you lately, probably because of work pressure or because he's too tired.

    We also need to understand their occasional negligence, and they also need love and care. If you live in two cities, it is best to apply for a transfer to the same city, or if you can, one of them will leave your job to work and live in the other city. (Of course, this will have to be negotiated by you), love still needs to be paid.

    Another thing is that he feels like he loves you when you tell me. You just lack communication, find a time to have a good chat, talk about your thoughts, and listen to what he has to say. I think it will help you guys.

    This is my opinion, I don't know if I can help you, be happy!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Are you obviously a sign of lack of confidence in yourself, your boyfriend is better, you are always worried about here and there, you should correct your mentality and give him more space, after all, men still have to focus on their careers, and career-minded men are often easier to ignore their girlfriends, and they haven't noticed it, in fact, as long as he doesn't do anything very radical, I think you should be considerate

    Your boyfriend is in charge, but you have to be accurate in this way, otherwise it will only make him feel pressured to be with you!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Tell him how you really feel, and then set goals that you share in common.

    You have to have a good mentality and give him enough trust. A deep technetium"Baby"People who trust are not easy to make mistakes on the outside.

    Men's hearts are actually very tired, and they always think that working hard and making money desperately is what gives them all that women have, but in fact, they often ignore what women want most, so as a woman, you must always tell your man what he wants.

    If the goals don't match, you'll have to find someone again.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Most of this kind of man is the rational type, and you are separated from two cities, take more time to spend with him, reduce the sense of distance, and if possible, move to the same city. I believe that he is a workaholic, so you have to accommodate him yourself, workaholics are very ambitious, and their current feelings cannot withstand experience.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You don't know what he's going out for, maybe you're too suspicious!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You are afraid that he will meet a better woman, and you are not confident.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Maybe you think too much, you have to be open and honest, in addition to the necessary material conditions, in the end, you still have to integrate the body and mind, and if it is not suitable, put on the brakes as soon as possible.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    There will be a sense of uncertainty, which means that there is a problem between you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Hehe, my man is like this, no way, bear with it, be more understanding. When he got home after drinking too much, he was given a cup of yogurt, and the yogurt nourished his stomach. Concerned about him he should understand, just not show it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I like each other with a boy, but he always avoids me, and runs away as soon as he hears me near him, so for half a year, he doesn't care much about me, but sometimes he asks my girlfriend what I've been doing lately, and I don't know what to do.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Men who don't understand romance don't even have normal holiday etiquette, it's boring, if you don't change, it's recommended to break up,

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you feel that there are so many bad, then break up, don't delay him and delay yourself.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Listening to what you described, you have developed an aversion to your boyfriend for a year, if you can't stop yourself, break up, don't dare to make this man good, at least you already think he is not good.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Then break up. I don't think this person can do it either.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Hey, that's all we can talk about for a year!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Relatives and friends who don't respect you don't respect you and don't love you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    There are so many problems, why did you date in the first place.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    This kind of boy is not good, anyway, I hate it very much.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    What do you think love is, everyone's definition of love is different. Some people think that love is happiness, some people think that love is infinite to satisfy their desires, and some people think that love is possession, whether it is his time, body and mind, it must be completely possessed. There are many kinds of people, and there will be many kinds of behaviors, some people give and some take.

    Modern life is very tired and involuntarily, your boyfriend should give him more understanding and support, what is he for, to maximize self-worth and at the same time become a man who can bring you a stable life to rely on.

    Just imagine, if a man who says he loves you asks you to follow him to eat pickles for half a year, do you think the love in his mouth will be real? Love is dedication, men and women are the same, just let you leave a lamp for your beloved at home, and you don't want to do it when he is tired, so what is your love? ?

    If you feel like your current life isn't what you want, go for it! After all, there is only one life, don't waste your precious youth in vain, be brave enough to find the true love that belongs to you. Like I said above, love is mutual, it is a dedication to each other, and it is a lifelong commitment.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Man, this shows that your boyfriend is ambitious, and he should also be influenced by his family, so you can talk to him about this.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Boyfriend? Not married yet! Then you have to think about it!

    Now your boyfriend is so busy, and he will be even busier when he is promoted in the future! And women will need men more and more as they get older! The delicious food I cook by myself is enjoyed alone because of my husband's busyness, and the feeling is definitely not so smooth!

    So you now use your best efforts to adapt to your boyfriend's life! I can't get used to it! Then you still break up peacefully as you said!

    Now there is no worry! In the future, you will be even more miserable when you have children!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    No matter how much he socializes, whether he will be good to you when he goes home or not Don't you feel it yourself A woman's intuition is the most spiritual, endure it for the sake of the child, and endure it for your own words Because remarriage is not so satisfactory This is life.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You have to think of your man for the sake of the family. Men are really helpless sometimes, to achieve a real balance between family and career, especially when they see hope, they will move forward bravely.

    I think it's best not to stop it at this time, because he's also fighting with a wound.

    You can give appropriate care, and when he is drunk and tired, he can be given the most gentle and considerate treatment.

    When he climbs to a mountain, he will look back and sigh that you have been with him along the way, this is life.

    The above is a man's idea for your reference...

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Hello this friend; Entertainment is a certain need of the unit, and it is not unreasonable for a man to socialize, in fact, he also wants to go home to accompany you. But the boss won't let it, this is also a kind of respect for the upper echelons! I'll give you a little proposal, you and your husband make an appointment to come to the café and have a good chat!

    In fact, men are also tired, who doesn't want to do something for their wives and children at home, you have chosen this job, or please support your husband to do this job better!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Nowadays, people have less opportunities if they have money, and they don't have more money.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Jealous because you like it, angry because you care. If one day I really don't care about you and others anymore, then we're done; I love you, not so that no one else is allowed to love you, but so that you can only love me.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If you feel this way, it means that you don't know and trust him! If you are moving in the direction of marriage, you should tell him how you feel in your heart! Communicate more and spend more time together!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It may be that he thinks you are very attractive, and he is more insecure and unconfident.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    The most important thing between two people is trust.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Insecurity! Or maybe you're so pretty!!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    This shows that you are too good-looking.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Looks like he can't give you a sense of security!

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    I understand your feelings ... In your eyes, your boyfriend should be with you when he is free, and for socializing, what you are most willing to see is a friend who asks him to play, he refuses a friend's invitation and then accompanies you...

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Men do like to be accompanied by their girlfriends, firstly, they have face, and secondly, they will indeed be happy together. Satisfy him as much as possible, I really don't want to, and tell him that he shouldn't be reluctant.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Me too, you have to take me with you every time you go out. One time he had a cold and didn't want to go, so he got angry, and I went. When I came back, I caught a cold and fell seriously ill. You can't even walk on the road! Fortunately, he took good care of me during my illness.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    He wants you to be part of his life, but if you don't want to, it's not incompetent.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Looks like you're supposed to look good.

    Why don't you take it out anyway?

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Hello and happy, it means that your boyfriend is proud of you.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    The problem is with you, your boyfriend is doing things and judging correctly, put your attention elsewhere and don't focus on him alone, which is a burden on you and him.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    It doesn't matter how well he works or he doesn't tell his family about you. As you say, I'm not sure of you.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    You can't help anything at work, and you don't have to put too much pressure on him, otherwise he will be farther and farther away from you.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    The problem of love is always very difficult to deal with.

    Wait, when eleven is the time, let him go to his house on your behalf, if he doesn't object, there is no problem.

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