How did I convince my parents to let me bring my boyfriend home

Updated on society 2024-05-25
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I think your parents are right in a way, because from the Chinese tradition, the male (female) friends brought home are basically related to marriage. Now mm is still in school, there is not much contact with society, and he is in a period of love, thinking that everything is good for his boyfriend, and the two of them must be able to last a long time, and what others say may not be able to be listened to, which is normal. But life is realistic, you are only a sophomore now, and the days to come are still very long, as you said, according to the customs of your family, take it home, it is estimated that your relatives and neighbors will think that you have reached a certain level ......and plan to get married in the futureYour parents are also good for you, although the taste of missing is very uncomfortable, but the holiday is only two months, find other things to do, distract the attention of missing, it will soon pass, you can also play **,**, hehe, the above is purely personal advice, for reference only.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Although you are in the same school, after all, you are only a sophomore, and it is difficult to say that you will be together smoothly after graduation.

    Therefore, although you are in love with each other now, your parents do not want your boyfriend to come to your house out of concern for your future, which is also a protection for you. Because you are in love at school, few relatives and friends in your hometown know about it, and once your boyfriend comes to your house, more people will know about it in the future.

    In case you can't be together in the future, and you return to your hometown, there may be many people who know about you, and the marriage may be a little bumpy, which will increase your pain at that time. So I suggest you dispel this idea! Your parents are for your good.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Try to convince your parents that if it really doesn't work, let your boyfriend make some achievements, and if it doesn't work, you have to leave it to time to deal with.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Invite a few classmates to come together, just say it's a gathering of friends, your parents' considerations are right, now it's really time to study, it's been 2 years, and during this period, you'll be together for a summer vacation, so stick to it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's easy to say anything when you graduate from college. Now that you bring it home, aren't you breaking your parents' hearts?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If I were a parent, I would have beaten you to death, no kidding, it's so bad, even if you don't think about your parents, you have to think about your future children.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I'm almost 20 years old, my girlfriend has been talking for three years, and I went to her house once, in the name of a class reunion. And then I never went again. See for yourself.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer in front of you.

    Think for yourself. Are all women in love stupid pigs! If you really get into it, no one will be able to pull it back.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You're in such a hurry, your feelings are too warm, aren't they? Alas. What will you do in the future?

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    What's the hurry, aren't you going to see you when school starts?

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Summary. Hello!!!

    1.After talking about a boyfriend, the relationship is stable, and they will want to live together, so that they will often meet each other to take care of each other, however, the pearl of their parents, who have been petted from childhood to adulthood, will definitely be reluctant to let their princess out, especially their strange boy's house.

    2.You are very familiar with your boyfriend, and your parents are not familiar with it, and they don't know whether this man is worth entrusting, at this time, you should let your parents get more contact with the boy, and when the parents find that the boy has many advantages, they will rest assured that they will hand over their daughter to him.

    How to convince my mom to let me go to my boyfriend's house.

    Hello!!! 1.After talking about a boyfriend, the relationship is stable, and they will want to live together, so that they will often meet each other to take care of each other, however, the pearl of their parents, who have been petted from childhood to adulthood, will definitely be reluctant to let their princess out, especially their strange boy's house.

    2.You are very familiar with your boyfriend, and your parents are not familiar with it, and they don't know whether this man is worth entrusting, at this time, you should let your parents get more contact with the boy, and when the parents find that the boy has many advantages, they will rest assured that they will hand over their daughter to him.

    At first, I was talking about it, but then my mother got angry and told me that I either want to choose a home, or choose you, and I said that there is no way to make a decision, and it is all mine. Then my mother said to me, think for yourself, come to me after thinking about it, and think about your bits and pieces at school before coming to me. And then my mother hung up.

    She's also worried about you, because you and your boyfriend aren't officially married, and if you live together before you get married, she'll worry about your reputation, and she'll worry about your safety, so of course she'll not agree, and if your mom agrees with your boyfriend, it's okay.

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