Grandpa abandoned his 6 year old autistic grandson, why did he make this decision?

The family environment of this family is very bad, and there are a lot of unavoidable things in it. The child's mother was very sick and owed a lot of money for treatment, and the child's father earned very little money. Only his grandfather is earning money in the whole family, but his grandson has autism, and his grandfather really has no way to continue to support him.

He only has an income of 2,000 yuan a month, his parents have no income**, and he is completely unable to take care of his grandson, so he abandons his grandson.

1. The family is in debt.

His father was a very ordinary delivery worker, and his monthly living expenses were very low. His mother emptied all the money in the family due to a serious illness and borrowed a lot of online loans. It is very painful to live in such a family, and the family does not have the ability to support the child.

In this way, they want to send their children to a good family and a good life, which is also a last resort.

2. The child's parents are divorced.

This kind of life makes them miserable, and in July of this year, the child's parents divorced, and they made the child's life even worse. His mother also had no choice but to go to work, not only brought a lot of difficulties in life, but also lost a lot of warmth in the family affection accepted by the child. If you continue to live, it will be very traumatic to the child's psyche.

3. The child has autism.

Whether it's family reasons or other reasons, the child has autism. This caught the grandfather off guard, he didn't understand the symptoms of the disease, and he didn't have the ability to go to the disease. After making a difficult choice, he decided to abandon his grandson and wanted the child to be taken in by a good family, cure the illness early, and live a happy life.

No matter what the family looks like, I think the child is the most pitiful. I think that no matter what kind of environment we live in, we should try our best to ensure the happiness of our children, what do you think?

The family is already in debt for the child's illness, the father is a rider, the monthly income is limited, and he owes foreign debts, the mother suffers from an ovarian cyst, and it costs more than 100,000 yuan to see a doctor, and the husband and wife are divorced, if the father wants to go out to do things, he can't take care of the child, and if he wants to take care of the child, he can't do things, if he is not forced by life, how can he be willing to leave his own grandson.

Maybe the grandfather thinks that his grandson has autism and doesn't want to spend money on treatment. Such a ruthless grandfather is not worthy of being a grandfather.

Because it is very difficult for a child to have autism, this grandfather sees that this disease is not good, and there is no way but to do it.

Mainly because the family has been in debt for their children's ** autism, and they can't afford to support their grandchildren.

Emotionally, I can understand my grandfather's distress, but intellectually I don't agree with my grandfather's approach. This incident also reflects that autism, a vulnerable group, really needs the attention of all sectors of society. I hope that the relevant departments can help more to help this family get out of the difficulties and make life better.

The autistic grandson is 6 years old, but he has no ability to take care of himself, cannot take care of himself, cannot eat by himself, and cannot even urinate and urinate by himself. This is a very heavy burden for any family.

Originally, the burden of taking care of an autistic child should have fallen on the shoulders of the parents, but it is obvious that the parents of this child did not take their due responsibility, but threw this burden on the grandfather, and let the grandfather be this bad person.

My father is a food delivery driver, and his monthly income is not high, and he has to bear tens of thousands of yuan in online loan arrears. My mother spent more than 100,000 yuan because of illness, and now she is divorced from her father and has gone out to work to make money. The child was left to the grandfather to take care of, but the grandfather had no money and had to go out to work.

I can earn about 2,000 yuan a month by going out to do odd jobs, but I have no one to take care of my autistic grandchildren. If you don't go out to work, you won't have any money, and your family won't be able to live. This is really a dilemma, and this grandson will be a burden in the future.

He can't grow up healthy like other children, but needs to be taken care of all the time. The pressure and burden are not something we can imagine. Therefore, we cannot stand on a certain moral height to accuse others, because things have not happened to us, and we cannot understand and feel the pain at all.

Some time ago, an autistic father carrying his 80-pound son on his back to deliver food attracted widespread attention, and the father saw the child's situation and thought that it would be better to end his life like this. If you and your children are gone, then everything is over.

But he was reluctant to have children, and finally continued to live strongly. Even if he was so brave and strong, he had thoughts of suicide. Grandpa almost abandoned his grandson, and he really wanted to go wrong for a while.

It makes me angry and chilled when something like this happens. Every child is a little angel and they need to be cared for and protected.

I strongly disagree with this grandfather's approach. Because what he did was very irresponsible. Although his own grandson has autism, it is also a life and should not be abandoned.

I think it's very scary, because this grandfather is so cruel that he can do such a thing to his grandson.

I think this is very irresponsible behavior, it's all my own flesh and blood, even if it's autistic, how can I be willing to abandon him.

This matter is indeed very helpless, because it is difficult for grandpa to bear the cost of ** grandson.

It is definitely wrong to abandon a child, but grandpa also has his helplessness, this matter is not left on himself, and others are powerless to comment too much.

This grandfather's approach is not right, even if there are difficulties in the family, he should not abandon his own grandchildren, and he can ask for help from well-wishers.

In my opinion, this issue deserves an in-depth discussion.

People always joke that I'm autistic. But do you really know anything about children with autism? I've seen news reports about children with autism before.

They always lock themselves in their rooms. Doesn't know how to communicate with people, doesn't dare to communicate with people. What emotions to vent, just constantly, slap yourself and abuse yourself.

Even scratched his own hands.

In addition to maternal love, other feelings, other relatives' feelings, are definitely not more important than loving themselves, and abandon this result. It's already the final trade-off, so that you can still keep a complete home.

At the end of my answer, I hope that our society can pay more attention to and love autistic children, so that every force from the society, every enthusiastic person, can melt and open the frozen hearts of autistic children.

My personal guess is that the grandfather thinks that the child will always be autistic in the future, ** is not good, which will bring a burden to the family and will last for a long time. When you throw it away, you don't have to worry about it. It can only be said that the child is really pitiful.

Because the whole family can't afford him anymore, the parents don't want him, and the grandfather can't do anything, poor child.

Grandpa may really not be able to raise him, so he abandoned him. In order for some caring people to have the ability to raise such children when they see them.

Autistic children can't communicate with others, the most basic social activities are even more ignorant, and even some incredible behaviors, such a child is a burden for any family, let alone an old man, but this practice is really not good, after all, it is their own child.

Hello, this is a question worth pondering. At present, the mechanism and mechanism of autism are still unclear, the clinical manifestations are diverse, the course of the disease is long, there is no specific drug at present**, only a small number of patients with good intervention can grow up to live independently, and many other patients need to be taken care of by others for life. The pain caused by autism is not only for autistic people, for families with autism, in addition to bearing the huge mental pressure and financial burden brought by autism, they also have to worry about the survival of autistic people in the future.

It's hard to understand what autistic families are facing without really reaching out to them, and every step of the way is extremely difficult. Imagine a family with autistic children, the child has social disabilities, intellectual disabilities, speech disorders, unable to take care of himself, no sense of danger, and needs to be taken care of around the clock, which means that one of the patient's parents must give up work, and the cost of autism is higher, although the current state has subsidies for autism every year, but the cost of **** is a drop in the bucket. The indefinite course of treatment and the child's future life have put parents of autistic children under tremendous psychological pressure.

In this cross-provincial abandonment of autistic children, the child's parents divorced, the father owed an online loan, and the mother fell ill, all of which made the already scarred family worse, and all the burden fell on the child's grandfather, and finally he was forced to abandon the child, and finally after the child was recovered, the child's grandfather also regretted it.

This case is not an isolated case, and similar cases will basically break out every once in a while. Autism is not the child's fault, nor is it the parent's fault. They need more social support, social inclusion, to help them move forward bravely.

An elderly man in Hubei abandoned his grandson with autism and ran from Hubei to Chongqing to abandon him. Is this grandpa ruthless? I think that this man was able to raise his grandson to such a big age, which shows that he didn't want to abandon his children and wanted to raise them well, but autism really costs a lot.

The grandfather said that the child's father is a delivery rider and does not earn much every month, his mother spent more than 100,000 yuan to see a doctor last year, and his father borrowed tens of thousands of yuan in online loans, and the family is already in debt. In July this year, Xiaoliang's parents filed for divorce, and after the divorce, Xiaoliang's mother went out to workThis grandfather is also working to make money, he can only earn about 2,000 yuan a month, if he wants to take care of his grandson, he can't go out to work, so he has no income, and his and his grandson's life is even more insecure. <>

His grandson has autism and cannot live like a normal person, so he needs his family to be by his side all the time. The police promptly sent the abandoned child to the aid station and actively searched for his family, taking into account the fact that the abandonment did not have serious consequences and their special circumstances, only gave a verbal warning to the man.

No one will really be ruthless to discard the child directly, but as long as he lives a worry-free life, he does not need to worry about money, he will also take good care of his grandchildren, autistic children are very paranoid, they live in their own world and do not communicate with the outside world, and may have self-harm, so they need to be monitored 24 hours a day, and autistic children ** is a long-term process, which requires a lot of financial support, which is unaffordable for their family. If the grandson has always been like this, then he will not be able to live and study normally, which is desperate for a peasant family, who is already in debt and can no longer afford to support his grandson. <>

For poor families, the illness of the family is tantamount to a catastrophe, so it is necessary for the state to increase social welfare assistance policies for this group of people, and everyone will work together to help these families tide over the difficulties.

It's not that the grandfather is ruthless, but he hopes that the child can be cured when he encounters a good family environment, because the original family really can't afford it.

Grandpa is actually not ruthless, because he can no longer afford the cost of his grandson's autism, so he will tearfully abandon it.

This grandfather should also be forced to do so, because he can't afford the ** expenses of this grandson.

The autistic child is reluctant to communicate with his parents, and the parents will not feel the happiness brought by the presence of this child, so this grandfather wants to throw the child away after feeling a huge pressure.

This is a particularly ruthless way to do this, children are the hearts and minds of parents, and this man has gone too far.

The child has autism, the family treats him, he is in debt, the mother has an ovarian cyst, she has a lot of money, and she divorces after seeing a doctor. So the family couldn't afford it, so they couldn't bear to abandon the child.

is very ruthless, because autism is very difficult, and it takes a long time, and the cost is very high, and the Hubei man abandoned his grandson because his family could not afford these expenses.

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