You don t need others to understand what you do.

What is Understanding?

Understanding is tolerance and forgiveness, understanding is distress and caring, understanding is a kind of recognition, and understanding is a true feeling.

The real understanding is not sweet words and coaxing, but practical actions, not the oath of the mountains and the sea, but the accompaniment of never abandoning.

True understanding is patient listening when talking;

It is the concession of each other in the event of a quarrel;

It is a sincere apology after doing something wrong, and it is a care and care after the incident.

Understanding is a bridge that connects feelings.

Understanding, it is an umbrella to shield the other party.

To understand is to help, and to understand is to care.

Everyone hopes that there is a person around them who understands them, when they are wronged, they give comfort, and when they are helpless, they give a shoulder, and they don't want to talk about their hearts, so that the other party can see through the invisible scars, but the other party is distressed.

There are so many people in the address book, but none of them can confide in.

We hide our hearts and scars, and we don't want to be called hypocritical.

Because in the eyes of outsiders, our grievances, hearts and tears are all trivial things.

Because no one understands, so we cover it, and we are used to covering our sadness with silence, and we are used to turning our smiles into disguises.

No more asking for anyone's help, no more waiting for anyone's understanding.

Living in this society, it is not easy for us, please understand each other, don't make things difficult, don't point, don't hurt, be tolerant, help each other, and feel distressed.

Only by understanding others, others will understand you, and only by understanding each other, will they get along more friendly.

What you do is that you don't need to be far away from others, because it's good to understand what you do, and you don't need others to understand.

You don't need others to understand what you do. Everyone only knows that signing on behalf of others is a good thing, don't ask about the future, and don't need others to talk about it.

If you are serious about your own business, you don't need to be criticized by others, but you must abide by the law.

What do you do that no one else needs to understand, why? Yes, because it's your own, because it's your own business, not someone else's.

To tell you the truth, when I was a child, I had a very low self-esteem, because poverty can really affect a person's confidence in speaking. It seems to be an indisputable fact that being poor and average-looking makes people feel shorter than others. Before I left my hometown to study in another city, this thought was always in my mind, and it unconsciously influenced the choices I made.

When I saw a bigger world and experienced how many people lived, I suddenly realized how ridiculous my thoughts were. I thought I didn't have a choice, but now I know that all the choices are in my hands. Even if I'm poor and not handsome, those are innate circumstances, and I can't choose, but I can choose many other things, such as hard work, positivity, and self-confidence.

Those things can slowly disintegrate my low self-esteem and make me slowly transform into the person I want.

After more experience, I have come to understand a truth, your life belongs only to you, and others do not have any right to interfere. No matter what choice you make, if you listen to your heart, it doesn't matter if others don't understand. A few days ago, I heard such a passage from a colleague: "If you see people running for five hours on the marathon course, they are purely playing and wasting time."

When I heard such comments, I immediately felt angry, and then I felt that some things are like the idiom "playing the piano to the cow", and you want people who don't run to understand the runner as hard as it is for the cow to understand the sound of the piano. Yes, there are some things that need to be understood by anyone, because only those of us who understand will understand the inner thoughts of those who are struggling to run on the track. In their hearts, the most important thing is not the speed of running and the time to finish the race, but more about challenging the limit and meeting a different self.

The most common topic of incomprehension is definitely the issue of marriage, and we always see on the news that some older generations are confused about the confusion of some young people who are entering their thirties and do not get married. In the eyes of their relatives, those people have become synonymous with unfilial piety. However, life is for oneself to see, not for others.

As long as you feel that life is worth it and believe in your own choices, what does it matter if others don't understand?

Life is like this, and you shouldn't let other people's ideas dictate. The only thing you need to do is go at your own pace and do what you want to do. You have to use your happiness and harvest to block the tongues that are talking behind your back, and use your different future to surprise those who don't understand.

Always remember that the key to the door of your life can only lie in your hands, don't let the noisy external sound mess up your steps and go down the wrong path.

In this case, the people involved are themselves and others. Therefore, we need to look at the differences between ourselves and others, within the degree of understanding, what kind of differences?

In terms of substance, it is divided into four categories as follows:

The first category: I am higher than him and he is low: Even so, we still have to observe whether he is humble or not? Do you have the ability to observe? All it takes is a negative answer, and when the time is not ripe, wait until the time is right.

The second category: I am low and he is high: it's too late to ask for advice, how can I dare to be a good teacher?

The third category: I am the same as him: it is appropriate not to mention it, because it will fall into the chicken and duck talking.

The fourth category: I and he are the same height: use the point, and the other party can touch the class bypass.

If you can clearly know yourself, although you can see the problems of others, but the purpose of the problem is to hope that the other party will improve, if this goal cannot be achieved, or your own energy is insufficient, otherwise the other party refuses to accept the opinion. See where the problem occurs? It is perhaps, more realistic, to work the problem and the junction.

I hope this advice can help a little...

If your thing is useful and useful.

Then you don't have to care what other people think.

Keep at it. When you're done.

People will definitely look at you differently.

But if you don't have any point in doing this.

It is better to advise you to give up.

Don't waste your time and energy.