Why is it wrong for me to do anything in the eyes of others?

I don't know how old you are, in fact, there is nothing, people will always grow up and mature slowly, maybe in the future you will miss your current naivety.

If you really want to change yourself, you can start by wearing clothes, so that you first look mature, and then your speech and demeanor, you must pay attention to every moment, just think more, as for the sissy, you must practice hard to overcome, you must pay attention to the time of speaking roughly, and after a long time, you will come back!

You have to pay attention to these:

1. The tone of speech.

2. Wear clothes.

3, demeanor 4, posture.

When you think about being mature, in fact, you have already begun to mature, sissy is not a big deal, Shi Yang is not still attractive, don't hate yourself, it matters!

Maturity should first come from the psychological level, reminding yourself that you are no longer a child. Get in touch with more mature people and feel the charm of maturity from them. I firmly believe that I will mature.

Then there's something superficial, like clothing and stuff, that helps remind you that you should belong to that mature group. As for sissy should be a habit, you can only slowly overcome it yourself.

It's just that you don't do well, others say it, but I think the current society is that you are doing the right thing, but others are saying that you are doing it wrong, why is this happening? In fact, if you think about it, you know it.........o(╯□o

Such friendship is due to the lack of understanding, communication, ......Many people are habitually self-centered! A true friend will think more about ...... for each otherIf there is any discord, go and communicate with each other! When something goes wrong, solve it right away!

Otherwise, the rift will only get bigger! Finally ......Friendship is gone......

Maybe everyone's starting point is different!

I can't figure out that whatever I do is wrong in the eyes of others.

Summary. Good afternoon, dear! I am Yan Qiong, a psychological counselor, and I have rich experience in psychological counseling and emotional listening, and I hope to help you.

Seeing your problem, feeling that you are helpless and helpless, engaging in the wrong things that others know you have done, can you talk in detail about what kind of things are there? Let me accompany you to ** comb it out.

Good afternoon, dear! I am Yan Qiong, a psychological counselor, and I have rich experience in psychological counseling and emotional listening, and I hope to help you. Seeing your problem, feeling that you are helpless and helpless, engaging in the wrong things that others know you have done, can you talk in detail about what kind of things are there?

Let me accompany you to ** comb it out.

For example, no matter what you are in the class, everyone else knows.

Or if someone else is talking in class, I'm talking in class, and no one else knows that person and knows me.

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Or if someone else is talking in class, I'm talking in class, and no one else knows that person and knows me.

Right. Have you clarified that others only see you talking? Do they feel like you're talking to yourself?

Yes. Then you must feel particularly aggrieved, right? How do you do that? What about defending yourself? Or do you suffer in silence?

Thank you for your trust to tell the teacher about your confusion and grievances, there are only 6 communication opportunities for text consultation, and the teacher also wants to better help you, it is recommended that you repurchase voice consultation, so that it is more convenient to communicate, you can pour out your grievances and feelings, and let me accompany you out of the emotional predicament! Finally, the teacher wishes you all the best! Happy and happy!

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Since you have met in the vast sea of people and are together, you must understand each other, cherish each other, and maintain your stupid feelings. When I don't do well, I'm thinking about what to do. A person's life is like a journey, everyone sits on the train of time, and when they have a starting point, they don't know which stop is the end ......Perhaps it is precisely because life is too short and too rushed, that God has arranged a pair of beautiful encounters between men and women, and the happy lead file loses ......The world is also more colorful because it is full of love!

In fact, there are things that you like and will not belong to you, and there are things that you are destined to give up no matter how nostalgic you are, love is a song that can never be sung in life. People may experience a lot of love in their lives, but don't let love become a hurt. There are fates everywhere in life, and fate seems to be fateful; Some fates are destined to be lost from the beginning, and some fates will never end well; You don't have to have someone to love, but to have someone you have to love her well.

If sincerity is a hurt, choose a lie; If a lie is a disservice, choose silence; If silence is a disservice, choose to leave. If love is a hurt, don't come close. But there are many cases where this is not the case, because you can't help but choose.

If loss is suffering, are you afraid to pay? If obsession was suffering, would you choose to end? If the pursuit is suffering, will you choose to be obsessed?

If separation is suffering, to whom do you confide? There are many things in the world that can only be seen clearly in the past. There is a kind of love, which is obviously deep love, but the expression is imperfect.

There is a kind of love that knows that you want to give up, but you are not willing to leave. There is a kind of love that I know is torment, but I can't hide it. There is a kind of love, knowing that there is no way forward, but the heart is not easy to take back.

Love can be a momentary thing or a lifetime thing. Leave because of love, give up because of love. It may sound great, but who can truly give up for love?

A person is not lonely, but a person who thinks is lonely. It's only when you care too much about someone that love becomes a burden. In fact, life is like this, when you lose a beloved thing, there will inevitably be another item for you to like, and when you break up with your lover, there will inevitably be a better relationship waiting for you.

In fact, these so-called "junk foods" are not "harmful", but they are not good for the human body, and it has nothing to do with eating them occasionally. However, it is important not to eat for a long time or in excess. The same goes for other foods.

No matter how beneficial food is to the human body, you can't eat too much, otherwise it will not be good for the body, and even harmful to the human body.

There's nothing wrong with that, but not everyone can do it. It's like smoking, knowing that smoking is not good, but there are still many people who smoke. People are different, and what you can do may not be able to be done by others.

If you really can't get used to it, you can remind others before they do it.

Hello! After reading your question, I have a lot to say, but I don't know where to start.

You may not be wrong when faced with people who do things right. Right and wrong are just different positions on the issue, so their views are not the same, and they come to different conclusions. For example, two young men and women get married.

Most people will think that marriage is the common wish of two people, both parties have the responsibility to build a new family, and a warm family is the result of two people running together. And some women think that it is only the man's responsibility to get married and start a family, because he is a man. After marriage, the woman must be in charge of the house because she is a woman.

Before marriage, the man is also required to pay a huge bride price, because it is not easy for the woman's parents to raise their daughter. After marriage, men must also work hard to earn money to support their families, and women can spend as much as they want.

Another example is the workers and capitalists, which of course are now called hired workers and entrepreneurs. The workers believe that it is the hard work of the workers who feed the entrepreneurs, and the entrepreneurs believe that it is he who provides the jobs for the workers to feed the workers. Those who do the right thing at work and in life are just good at grabbing words.

If you are as strong as they are, you will always be right. Of course, what I'm saying isn't necessarily true. If you want to get everyone's satisfaction everywhere, it's really not easy to be defeated.

Therefore, as long as we do things according to our conscience, we don't have to worry too much about who is right and who is wrong in life and work.