My boyfriend has a girlfriend and we ve never been separated, but sometimes I m really breaking down

Updated on psychology 2024-06-09
53 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Although as a man, I firmly believe that there is no cat that does not steal, feelings are always a mysterious thing, people really can't extricate themselves, there are only two ways for you to go, one is that you love him deeply, and are willing to believe that he gives him a chance, but the consequences may be deeper hurt; The other is that you can't give him the first time, and if you have the first time, you will have a second time, and you can't get into the short pain... Ask yourself, is it worth falling in love with him? A man who has deceived you with lies for more than half a year...

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Leave him alone, since he's so attentive, you should break up with him!

    If you get married, there's no guarantee that he won't go to his girlfriend.

    Married men are more disgusted with their wives.

    Be careful! If it were me, I would have to cut my love!

    Regardless of him, no man and woman will not die!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Give you a suggestion, break up with him, see how he performs, and it is estimated that you will know what to do after a month of breakup. Don't hold on because he can't hold on because of a few kind words, break up completely! Hold on for at least a month!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Such people are repeat offenders.

    He can abandon another woman because of you.

    It is also possible to abandon you because of another woman.

    Forget about him. Go find a true love.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The child goes to adapt to the life of the heart.

    You're going to crash.

    You know. The road is your own No matter how much you love him, you must also walk your own way.

    Believe in yourself. He's not your only one.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    "Wei Youle" is both right and incorrect.

    One day, it is also possible for you to play the role of his ex-girlfriend, but it is not absolute.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Suddenly, it reminded me of my painful past.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There are a lot of things that can only go with the flow, even if you think about it well now, when it really happens, it's still at a loss, just step in like this, don't you break up and don't contact, you just live your own life, if he is with you, you talk to him, if you go out, you say something, unless you are sure that he and his ex-girlfriend are separated.

    Wait and so on, and if he hasn't decided when you're used to it, you'll be able to think objectively.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    There can be no sand in a couple.

    If you can tolerate this situation, it proves that you don't care about the relationship.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Go someone else's way so that others have no way out.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Sorry, you're a bit of a mess.

    The guy doesn't say she has a girlfriend" means she doesn't have a girlfriend yet?

    On the premise that he doesn't have a girlfriend, he treats you very well.

    That's what you're in, isn't it?

    You're not a couple yet, are you?

    But why "some time ago he was going to a foreign country, but he said that he might be divided." ”?

    You're not boyfriend and girlfriend yet, why are you "splitting"?

    Your doubts are: You get along very well, but he doesn't tell anyone that you are his girlfriend, right?

    The above is my question, and now I will share my opinion.

    1: This boy is very responsible; He is a man of responsibility.

    Because he knows that "a man's burden is heavy." A man needs to be capable. Because it's a man.

    2: This guy doesn't love you enough.

    You have to know that if a guy makes up his mind to be with a girl, he dares to take on it and dare to challenge.

    But there's no doubt that he has a lot of feelings for you.

    You see, he has no intention of falling in love.

    But "I didn't expect to meet you". This is enough to prove that you are charismatic enough to attract him.

    The problem is, he's a very sane person.

    He is afraid that his ability is not enough, in this world of high prices and real money, he is not capable enough to give you happiness and protect you.

    3: My suggestion: two people communicate more.

    You tell him more about what you think.

    If you really like him, you encourage him and say that you will support him.

    Only two people are determined enough to overcome many difficulties.

    Are you right? Have fun.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Your boyfriend isn't fully invested in you, and hesitating hesitating.

    He is reluctant to reveal that he has a girlfriend in front of others, and he is also keeping a hand for himself.

    A boyfriend who doesn't dare to promise his girlfriend is questionable about your sincerity.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    To be honest, although what your boyfriend said is very good, and you may be very touched, it gives me the feeling that he is looking for a way back for himself. In order to say it directly in the future, how did I tell you at the time?

    Personal opinion!!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The meaning is very clear.

    Just don't want you to suffer.

    But the famous American head show Huang Xi said.

    When you are young, you should not give up love for the sake of your career, because when you are old.

    You will find out. You are missing a woman who can witness your maturity.

    Actually, what is a good man?

    There is this difference of opinion between men and women.

    A woman thinks she's a good man if she can live with her partner for the rest of her life, but men think that's not the case.

    Men are rational and like face, they don't want to have love but pure love, which doesn't last long.

    And this is unthinkable in the eyes of women.

    Actually, he just hopes that your future will be better.

    This is undoubtedly the greatest sacrifice.

    I generally say more and do less.

    But I hope if one day a woman.

    I ran into a man.

    He has no money, he has no house, he has no status.

    Socially left out.

    But when you fall in love with him, he wants to give up on you.

    Please don't give up at this time.

    Because it's this kind of renunciation that he gives up that shows that he loves you the most.

    He is also testing you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you don't say it, you're not firm enough for you, and you're still worried about this trick, so let's find one first, and then talk about it, and ignore you if there's a better one.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I'm a man, but I'm sure men still use rhetoric to trick women into believing me, so you still have to think carefully. May you be happy.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Divorce him, I want to another woman.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    One: He's a bit of a flower.

    Two: He doesn't want to lose the friends of the opposite sex that she can talk to.

    Yan: Maybe you don't think you're good enough to accompany him to the end.

    Four: Maybe he is not mature enough, not very thoughtful, and does not consider your feelings.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Well, one possibility, his heart doesn't quite belong to you, two possibilities, he just thinks that the network is virtual, so he is playing, three possibilities, it is not ruled out that he wants to change his girlfriend.

    Four, his nature is flowery.

    Five, deliberately do it for you to see, make you jealous, or play tricks on you, "This Possibility is Smaller".

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    1.I don't want others to know that I have a girlfriend.

    2.I don't want others to know that I have a girlfriend like you.

    3.I don't want others to know that I'm with you, and I want to wait until it's time to talk about marriage and announce it.

    4.That man doesn't really love you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    This is actually the same as the fact that many people who are married now say that they are not married, that is, hidden marriage, which may be the legendary hidden love. I don't want others to know that I'm different. This way, it will be a little more social.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Because he doesn't feel anything for you anymore. I want to change it.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's normal, you don't tell people everything when you talk anymore.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    1 is that he wants to leave a way for himself to make a woman on the Internet.

    2 is that the girlfriend is too ugly to be embarrassed to say.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You have the same choice before you get married

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    No way! lest anyone get in the way!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    What else can you do, what do you think, to put it bluntly, whether it is a man or a woman, love is your own business, if you love him, then are you angry that he didn't tell you that he has a girlfriend, or find out that he doesn't love you at all! To put it bluntly, what is your purpose, is your self-esteem hurt and you can't get over it, or are you really sad about him as a person, about this matter, about his heart. In fact, in the final analysis, love is very simple, you think you have paid a lot, and it is difficult to give up, so even if you don't leave, can your efforts and possible future efforts change the status quo, and can you tie him to your heart only for you.

    Maybe you feel that you have done a lot, and you may not start over again, but you don't find that no matter who the person who pays is with her, she always thinks about giving, you think you can't love anymore, and you will still love after a few years. Very close to single, no one in this world is born for you, everyone has their own way of life and goals, in fact, whoever leaves can be, love can't die people, you have to be unfair, dissatisfied, but no matter what, can you make up for yourself. People must first be good to themselves before they can be good to others.

    Now that you have discovered that he does not belong only to you, if you can't change it, forget it, don't squeeze the world that you can't squeeze into, embarrass others, and practice yourself. Go down and you will find that you will still love, and there will be someone who loves you more.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    No matter what you give! It must be his fault, if he still thinks you don't know. You can confess to him directly, cut through the mess quickly, and divide it directly.

    If you have confessed, it is useless to beat him and scold him, the most important thing is to relax your mind, life is beautiful. Isn't it? Everything needs to be looked at.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Don't want him anymore, you can't tolerate deceiving your feelings like this, what else is true of this deception?

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Ask someone to beat him, but no one will spend money to find him, until he is crippled.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Find someone to beat him, fucking shit.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It's better to break up, such a person is not necessarily very good, and the person who steps on two boats is the most disgusting!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Better a finger off than always aching! Parted. You paid but you also received.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    What's the situation? I didn't understand it at all...

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Now that I've broken up and have a girlfriend, I think he may have broken up with you because of that girl Don't wait stupidly This will delay you Have to tell him clearly and ask him if he still loves you Is there a chance to reconcile If not, give up quickly Be decisive In short, don't give up lightly I support you!!

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It's unlikely that you'll give up now.

    You tell him that you like him, and he won't give up, but give himself a deadline, say one year, and he doesn't change his mind and gives up.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Give up, he will let you go once and there will be a second time, if he loves you he will not let go of you, do you say yes?

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Being able to have a girlfriend so quickly means he doesn't care about you.

    Why are you waiting for him?

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Give up, maybe it's because of that person that he abandoned you!

    Those who choose to leave can't stay.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    There are few good men, and it is better to give up.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    There are times in life that you need to have, and there are times in life when you don't want to ask for it.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Showdown with him, although boys hope that they can have a lot of opposite sex, but you also have to control him. Otherwise, there will be something too much in the future.

    As for getting married, even if you want to marry him, you have to wait and talk about it, get to know him more clearly, and see if he loves you or not.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    First of all, I don't think you should take revenge on him, but try to understand him. Look at why he talks to so many girls.

    Secondly, if you want to take revenge on him, it means that you care about him, but you have to think about the outcome. What is the purpose of revenge on him, to leave him or to be with him. If you take revenge for leaving him, why not spend your time and energy looking for someone more worthy of your love?

    If you want to be with him, your revenge will only hasten your breakup.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    This is quite normal, it depends on whether he will do something out of line, the key is that you have told him whether you feel your feelings, if you tell him, he is still unscrupulous and ambiguous, then you have to warn him solemnly. A lot of times girls are angry and complaining on their own, which is useless, and most of the boys will not bother themselves to ask you why you are angry or something, although sometimes he knows why you are angry with him. If he cares about you a lot, the ambiguity thing can be put away, it's not a necessary thing in communication.

    It's normal for a guy to have such an impulse, otherwise he wouldn't have chased you at that time.

    In short, it is best to be simple and simple between couples, relax and communicate more, it is not a big deal, as long as there is love, everything can be communicated.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    You remember a sentence.

    What would you do if you loved someone very much?

    Then if that person also loves you very much.

    He's going to do the same thing as you do.

    People are pretty much the same.

    Truly loving someone can give up everything for him.

    Actually, I'm a very attentive person, but then I met a guy I liked, and I didn't dare to be ambiguous with anyone else.

    Because I really care about him.

    It's as simple as that.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Such a flowery boy, do you still dare to deal with it?

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Breaking up is more realistic, and it's not like all men in the world are dead, and you're doing your best to him now, and one day you break up without regret and hesitation, and that's the best revenge.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    You also find a lot of bf, and then deliberately let him know, him off!!

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Don't associate with him anymore and forget about him. I believe that there will be someone who truly loves you waiting for you.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Hehe, the way of returning others with his own body, you also learn to be warm and ignorant, so that he is jealous.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Why don't you break up with such a boyfriend?

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Such a boy, you don't have to continue, he is not serious, he is just playing, he is ambiguous with others, not only does he not love you enough, but he also has such a habit, and he will not be happy.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Maybe he also thinks the same as you, a man is out for face and work, afraid of trouble, there are always many reasons to say that he is single, maybe to create a good image of himself in front of others, maybe he doesn't love you enough, the real lover will want to tell his lover to everyone who knows him, if you tell him about it and he still refuses to introduce you to the people he knows, it means that he doesn't love you enough, he is just an ordinary person, not a star or a politician, There's no need to hide your girlfriend, you take the initiative to ask him, it's about your love, your feelings, your future, in order not to be deceived, for the future happiness, you have to be brave and bless you.

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