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In my opinion, blind dates are a way to get to know people in themselves. In fact, for young people nowadays, most of them are very reluctant to go on blind dates, because everyone feels that they still want to meet their own feelings, rather than meeting people in such an arranged way, but many times due to various pressures, I have to accept blind dates. <>
But it doesn't mean that you will definitely be with this person after a blind dateAfter all, it is also about everyone meeting to see how the impression they leave on each other, and then deciding whether the two of them want to develop furtherIt's all a joint decision between two people.
If you don't have a very good impression of the other party after the blind date, you can just ignore himThis is very normal, when you get home, tell the elders in the family, you can be dissatisfied with this person, and leave the rest to them, after all, you don't like them and can't force you to be with him. <>
Since no one in the family will interfere too much, there is no need to care about this person's psychological thoughts. Your blind date chats with you every day, and this behavior is actually obvious, which shows that he is interested in you and wants to develop further with you, if not, he will definitely not waste time on you。But if you don't like him to talk to you right now, then it means that you don't think too much about this person.
Because when you also have a certain feeling for each other, you must also want to know more about each other, so as to be able to create more common topics between two people, but obviously you are not like this nowSo you can show him your attitude, saying that you don't have any superfluous thoughts about him, and reject him outright, so that you don't waste other people's time, and you will reduce some trouble for yourself to a certain extentIt can be said that it is a double win. However, you must pay attention to the absolute non-subtlety, you must have a tough attitude, so that the other party can feel your attitude.
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If you don't like it, then I will take the initiative to say, I am very busy at work now, and I don't have leisure time to chat with you at all, so when I have time, let's contact again, so that it is okay to express it.
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I would outright refuse. Make it clear to him that you don't like him, and then ask him not to contact him too often. And tell him that his behavior like this will cause him a certain amount of trouble.
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I'll tell him directly, we won't have results, and I don't like you talking to me every day, and I don't have any feelings for you, let's block each other.
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If it's me, I'll tell the other party, don't feel annoyed by calling myself ** every day, tell the other party with a very direct attitude, and express it in this way.
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Tell the other person directly how you feel, and if you can understand it, then continue to talk first. If you can't understand it, then just tell the other person that it's not suitable. So as not to waste time.
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If I don't like him, I'll probably say what I mean to him directly, and I won't give him any chance, because I don't like him.
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You can tell your blind date that you have been busy with work recently, and tactfully reject the other person and don't hurt the other party.
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If I don't like my blind date talking to me every day, I will express it directly, because I think this is the most direct and easiest way.
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After adding the blind date, is it a sign that the other party does not take the initiative to chat?
If the other party does not take the initiative to chat, it means that they don't like it, and they can give up on the other party. After the blind date, if the other party thinks that he is very good, he will take the initiative to contact him and warm up the relationship between the two people through communication; On the contrary, if the other party is lukewarm to himself, or is more indifferent, ask himself, and the other party will reply, such feelings are one-sided, obviously, the other party does not like himself, and he is embarrassed to say it directly, so as not to cause embarrassment to himself. The best way for yourself to deal with it is to stop contacting him, you should comfort yourself, the person who suits you is still waiting for you at the next stop, and you can continue the next blind date.
It is also possible that the other party is busy with work and has no time to chat, so you can take the initiative to ask the reason and then decide whether to stick to it. There are some people who are very busy at work, and maybe after a blind date with themselves, the company has arranged important projects and does not have time to deal with personal issues. If you like the other party, you can ask the other party what they think of themselves, if the other party wants to have further development with themselves, then after he is busy with work, the two of them will get along well; If the other party thinks that two people can be ordinary friends, then it means that he is indeed not the person he is looking for.
If the other party has an average impression of himself, but he can't say that he hates it, and he likes him very much, you can also take the initiative to contact him for a period of time and fall in love with him over time, maybe the other party will also fall in love with you, so as not to miss the relationship. Sometimes the relationship is delicate, although when you meet for the first time, the other party may not have a feeling of excitement for yourself, after a few times of getting along, you may also find that two people have a lot in common, the more you chat, the more speculative, it is very likely to upgrade from ordinary friends to a couple, the relationship develops well, and it is possible to become a husband and wife. I took the initiative and fought for it, even if there is no perfect ending, I will not regret it.
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The first possibility is that they don't like you. So he doesn't want to communicate too much with you and make you misunderstand his thoughts. The second is that he may like you, but is afraid that you will not like him. So don't want to bother.
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If the other party does not take the initiative to chat, it may be a sign of dislike, and it is recommended to discuss whether to continue the relationship after meeting.
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I think that's true, because if the other person is interested in you, they can't wait to come and talk to you.
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Taking the initiative to chat on a blind date doesn't mean liking you. Let's take it as it all as it comes.
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How to chat with the blind date you just met.
1.Listen more and talk less: When going on a blind date, especially when two people meet for the first time, boys still have to listen to what the other party says, don't talk endlessly, just talk about themselves, listen more to what the other party says, and follow the supplement.
2.Look at the other party's personality: when going on a blind date, it depends on what kind of personality the other party is, whether it is an extrovert or an introvert, if the other party is not good at talking, does not like to talk, then he should be appropriately active, introverted and not talking, that is not cold, of course, boys still have to take the initiative to find a topic.
3.Respond to each other: When chatting, we should respond to each other, one party is talking, the other party does not respond, and it will be cold, the listening party should show respect for the other party, if the content of the other party's speech, if you don't understand it, you can listen carefully, nod your head, or change the topic.
4.Pay attention to the other party's reaction: when talking and chatting, you should observe the other party's reaction, if you are alone and keep saying, the other party is just a strong oh oh oh, that is, you are not interested in what you are saying, or the other party does not understand this aspect, it is not a common topic, there is no interest in chatting, at this time you must change the topic, otherwise it will be cold, and it will not give people a good feeling.
5.Take the initiative to find a common topic: two people live in different environments and work differently, when chatting, you can find some common topics, for example, talk about their respective interests, favorite sports, favorite movies, etc., find a common topic, and the chat will not be cold.
It's best not to ask the other person about their past relationship history when chatting, so as to avoid unpredictable results.
6.Don't say everything: When chatting, you should pay attention not to say everything, especially the evaluation of other people, and don't comment on the person you are familiar with in the conversation between two people on a blind date, otherwise you have different views and different views, isn't it boring to talk about yourself, and it will make the other party feel that he is a person who talks about the rights and wrongs behind his back, and he will be cold.
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In your case, I personally don't feel the need to continue to understand, everything he is doing to you now is like completing a task, she just hasn't found a better one yet, so she's been dragging you all the time.
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I feel that you should stick to it, you can work hard to communicate, to communicate, if the other party comes to chat with you every day, it means that the other party likes you, but after chatting a few words, I didn't mention it, which means that the other party's personality is more introverted, I don't know how to chat, you can take the initiative to find a topic.
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He should be busy! will contact every day, and there is no time to chatter more, ask the reason and understand long live.
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I should still choose to change the object, and if I don't take the initiative to contact, it means that the other party also has no idea about me, and it is very likely to give up.
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Then don't contact again, this is obviously an irresponsible, unresponsible boy, and it will hurt you if you contact again.
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You can ask the other person what is the reason for it, because of work, or because you don't want to maintain the relationship.
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Obviously, you can boldly think that she likes you, no one will show favor to you for no reason, and her behavior just shows that she likes you.
If you don't think you have a common topic with a blind date girl, but she always chats with you from time to time, and the two of you always say something unnutritious, then she definitely likes you, otherwise, she won't waste time on you.
A woman who is on a blind date with you, takes the initiative to chat with you on the premise that you don't take the initiative, the two people have no common topic, she still chats with you from time to time, which shows that the girl has a very good impression of you and is willing to have further development with you, and you can be very bold to think that she just likes you.
Everyone's first impression of people is different, everyone's understanding of the content of the chat is also different, you may feel that there is no common topic with the blind date girl, but the blind date girl always chats with you, indicating that she is willing to chat with you.
Either he thinks you're worth getting along with, or he just has a crush on you and she likes whatever you say.
No one will be attentive for no reason, everyone is an adult, and they will have their own ideas about initiative.
A girl always chats with you from time to time, she will definitely have her own ideas, and the biggest idea is to have feelings for you, either because of your appearance or because of your conditions.
If you don't have an aversion to the woman, on the premise that the other party takes the initiative to chat with you, I hope you can give the other party a little response, try to get along with the two of you, maybe you think she is not bad.
The acquaintance of two people is a fate, if you don't have any good feelings for each other, then give each other clear hints, don't waste each other's time, especially don't let the other party waste their feelings on impossible things, so that everyone will not be embarrassed.
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Blind date girls often talk to you, and I think she has a good impression of you and wants to increase your understanding of each other through chatting.
There is no common topic, only temporary, after all, the time of knowing each other is too short, and after a period of getting acquainted with each other, I believe that there will be some common topics.
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Whether she likes you or not is still inconclusive, at least she does not reject you, and is discovering more of your strengths, so she will always chat with you from time to time. Topics can be created, and if you don't hate her, talk to her more and discover her interests. Create more topics that she is interested in, and you will have more topics to talk about, and at the same time, you can find out more about whether you are suitable for her or not.
People need to be in contact to spark.
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Yes, the girl on a blind date always chats with you from time to time, talks to you, shows that the other party likes you, you feel that you have no common topic with him, but the other party likes you, you can also try to communicate with the other party, you may find the advantages of the other party, you will like each other, and there will be common topics.
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It can be assumed that she is not averse to you, and maybe has a good impression of you.
It's not that there are no common topics, it's just that you haven't come out yet, you can share your daily life with each other first, as well as the interesting things you see.
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The girl doesn't have a common topic, but she always talks to you on time, which means that he thinks you're the right person. also has a good impression, so she thinks that the two of you still chat with each other, can understand each other more, can cultivate two people's hobbies, and can have common topics, of course, this also means that he has a good impression of you and wants to develop well with you.
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If you don't have a common topic with the girl on a blind date, but she always chats with you from time to time, you can think that she likes you very much and falls in love with you at first sight!
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The blind date girl has no topic because the two of you don't know each other, she can take the initiative to find you, she must hope that you can develop, you can ask more girls out, and then the two of you get along more, and there will be a topic after getting acquainted.
It depends on the situation, some people don't like you, but he's used to flirting with girls everywhere, it doesn't matter, don't send it to the door in vain anyway, but some people have clear goals, he is not used to chatting with you without a purpose, and he will be very irritable, of course, some people will play with you when they are bored, and of course they are not in the mood to do anything for you.
No, since I don't like it, I won't bring it back to my father, it's not necessary, I'll bring it back if I have a good impression of you.
Of course, I will not tell the other person, and I will not interfere with the happiness of the other person as a friend. >>>More
I may insist on liking it for the rest of my life, because if I like it, I like it, it's not that you don't like it if you don't stick to it. If I like it for a lifetime, it doesn't mean that I can't like other people, because I will put him in my heart, even if I have someone I like, he is still the person I like. In fact, if you like someone for a long time, you will find that he is no longer just the person you like, but has been transformed into your family.
This is also the case with a Shanghainese woman I met who is still studying in Jinan.