Are you willing or afraid to speak out about your shortcomings?

Everyone has advantages and disadvantages to a greater or lesser extent, because these two words are inherently opposites. Then, for a person, he should continue to dig out his own advantages and correct his shortcomings, so that he can continue to improve himself and break through himself. For myself, I am still willing to face up to my shortcomings from the bottom of my heart, and I will be positive anyway.

Since I was a child, I have had a very annoying disadvantage that I talk a lot, and I can talk to anyone for a long time, and basically talk nonsense. My family is also annoying every day, I can't, I may be more homesick, at that time, as long as anyone is not at home, I will go back for half an hour once **urging. As I grew up, I learned how to correct this problem and shortcoming.

When I grew up, my shortcomings doubled. First of all, I am lazy, sometimes I do things with the attitude of today and tomorrow, and how much tomorrow is delayed, and I don't want to do it too lazy to finish. As a result, my academic performance has not been very satisfactory, and then I have not been admitted to the ideal university.

Now that I think about it, I have pushed my good life to a dead end. So when I went to college, I spurred and encouraged myself to struggle, hoping that it would not be too late. Another disadvantage is that I don't know how to communicate with strangers, and I don't know how to get along with people quickly.

You will still be careful to dodge and don't know how to express your thoughts, so you will have a certain distance from others, and others will not pay attention to you and can care about you. So during college, I still kept trying to communicate and get in touch! Another shortcoming that I think is fatal is that vanity is still relatively strong, but I hope that in the future, I can transform vanity into motivation and continue to move forward and explore.

In the face of your own shortcomings, you must actively deal with and correct them, which is the right way to open. Instead of cowering and not daring to formalize, such an approach will develop in a worse direction!

I think if it were me, I wouldn't dare to speak out about my shortcomings, or I didn't want to say it, thinking that if I said it, others would despise me, probably because I personally had low self-esteem and didn't believe that others liked a girl who didn't look good. In fact, many times some people don't necessarily just look at the outside, they will pay more attention to your inside, and feel that the inside is more important than the outside. I'm more concerned about my appearance, which may be my shortcoming.

So I'm not very willing, or afraid to speak out, about my shortcomings.

I have been an optimistic person since I was a child, I don't think there is anything that can't be said about a person's shortcomings, everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, no matter how good a person is, no matter how bad a person is, there are no perfect people and things in the world.

Let me talk about myself, I am a real post-90s, this is an embarrassing age, I am an optimistic person, my temperament is more valuable, what to say, this is my biggest shortcoming, everything is on my face, sometimes I don't give others face, I am short-tempered, no matter what others do right, I don't know the truth, I go up and question others, this is really not good, it is easy to make friends, and everyone is an adult, they have their own face, and I have something to say, And sometimes I will say it to my face, so it will be very embarrassing for others, and sometimes I like to meddle in things that have nothing to do with me.

Because of my character, I have also offended a lot of people, really very bad, although I worked hard to correct it, I myself know that this is not good, but for a while, I can't change it, of course, now I have changed a lot, although I sometimes can't help it, but in most cases, I will try to restrain myself, what to think about seriously and then say, try to save some face for each other, say anything tactful, and now have more friends, When I see things that have nothing to do with me, I try not to meddle in them.

I think it, a person only face up to his own shortcomings and shortcomings, dare to admit his shortcomings, he has the opportunity to become better, if a person does not even dare to admit his own shortcomings, then he can only stop, after all, every excellent person in the world, is step by step, get rid of their bad faults and shortcomings, to become better than before, if he did not admit his shortcomings at the beginning, then there will not be the current excellence. <>

When talking about personal shortcomings during interviews, you can follow the following principles: 1 Admit it openly and win recognition If it is your own shortcomings, the best thing to do is to admit them openly. It doesn't help to argue about your own shortcomings, what matters is how you get others to emotionally agree with your attitude when talking about your shortcomings.

2 Eliminate misunderstandings and narrow the gap Some "shortcomings" are not shortcomings, but misunderstandings in a general sense, so you should clarify them in time and narrow the psychological gap with the interviewer.

Psychological research shows that there are three states of interpersonal communication: one is authoritative, one is intellectual, and one is impulsive. In interviews, there is a greater need for rational interaction, and reason comes from being well prepared and deliberate, rather than childish and impulsive.

It is not terrible for a person to have shortcomings, but what is terrible is that he does not dare to admit it and correct it, but he is unwilling to admit it. From a dialectical point of view, shortcomings and advantages can be transformed into each other, and the premise is that we must correctly understand the shortcomings and truly correct the shortcomings. "Looking horizontally at the side of the ridge into a peak", for the shortcomings themselves, some "shortcomings" are just advantages for a certain kind of work; For those who have shortcomings, whether it is to clear up misunderstandings or admit them calmly, negative evaluations will be transformed into positive evaluations.

1.Lack of determination to complete the plan made, often lazy behavior;

2.I don't like to make choices, I prefer to let others make choices;

3.is not decisive enough in case of trouble, and does not like to express his thoughts;

4.Very lazy, very lazy;

5.He doesn't like to use his brain, has a simple mind, and has developed limbs;

6.poor language skills;

7.Emotions often like to be expressed on the face;

8.Can't control tears;

9.Caring too much about what others think;

10.A lot of times I like to indulge in my own world too much.

It doesn't stop there.

Acknowledging oneself and acknowledging one's own shortcomings requires humility and an objective view of one's imperfections. Writer Yang Daxia Yang Ke analyzed that only by appreciating self-defects can we win sunshine.

Being able to admit your shortcomings and correct them shows that you are a responsible person. Being able to see your own shortcomings is improving, and you are afraid that if you don't know that you are wrong, then you are hopeless.

My spleen is too anxious, which is manifested in the following: I don't like people who grind foreign workers in my heart, and I always want to complete the work as soon as possible;

I'm stubborn, and I'm too subjective when I sneak around, which is reflected in the fact that I always have different opinions from others, and I don't like to be seen.

I am more coarse and informal, which is manifested in: I do things in a good way, but I am a little lost in ,..the details

I was born timid and shy, and I have never seen the big world, which is manifested in the following ways: I dare not think about anything that violates the law and discipline.