Is it okay if the husband and wife have a bad relationship and don t want to be buried in a cemetery

Yes, there is no rule that husband and wife must be buried together, but how to say it, since you are not in harmony and do not divorce, it means that you still care about each other, so don't consider this kind of words.

How a woman is buried after death depends on the wishes of the deceased, as well as the opinions of the children. If the relationship with your husband is not good, then you don't need to consider burying with your husband at all.

1.Chinese pay attention to the deceased, if the deceased has a will before death to say that he will be buried with his wife, then the juniors must follow the wishes of the deceased, which is also the last wish of the deceased, and will definitely bless you in heaven.

2.When Chinese choose a cemetery to bury the ashes of their ancestors, they follow the principle of "serving death as a waiter", pay attention to heavy funerals, and carefully chase after the end, so as not to forget their ancestors. Therefore, as long as the burial is carried out according to the wishes of the deceased, it is auspicious for the husband and wife to be buried separately or together.

Future generations should respect history and ancestors, and we cannot have to bury their bones together according to our own wishes.

The relationship between husband and wife is not good, and you don't want to be buried in a cemetery after death, of course, it's okay, but this matter obviously needs your descendants to decide, so leave it to the people who come after you to do it.

The husband and wife have a bad relationship and don't want to be buried in a cemetery after a hundred years, of course, there is no problem. The most important thing is to look at your own wishes, you can tell the children about the situation, and the children will also choose the appropriate way to do it according to the will of the elderly.

Of course, husband and wife can have this requirement if they have a bad relationship, and they will respect their wishes with their children, after all, not every family is so harmonious.

I think so. No one has to say that a husband and wife must be buried in the same tomb.

If the rainbow is caused by the bad relationship between the husband and wife, and you don't want to bury the idea of being together, of course it's okay, because this kind of thing basically depends on your own decision.

This question is not that you have the final say, but that your children have the final say, no matter how bad the relationship between your husband and wife is, the children are common, do you still want your children to buy more cemetery?

Husband and wife have a bad relationship and don't want to be buried in a cemetery when they die, in addition to personal factors, practical factors may also lead to not being buried in a cemetery.

Yes, explain it to your children before you die.

When a couple dies, the two people are to be buried together, which is called the same pillow before life and the same hole after death.

The Chinese attach great importance to this, especially in the countryside, and the seriousness and seriousness of this matter is beyond the imagination of the people.

Originally, it is quite normal to sleep together before death and share the same cave after death, and husband and wife are husband and wife when they are alive, and it is natural to be buried together after death, which was no problem in the past.

Why was there no problem before? Because there were fewer people who divorced before. But now it has become a problem for Yanqing, and now the divorce rate is rising.

Many people have an idea because of this, that is, after divorce, will the husband and wife be buried together or separately? If they are buried together, they are not husband and wife, so why should they be buried together? Doesn't that mean there is no divorce?

But if it is buried separately, if a woman does not marry after divorce, should she be buried in **? A married woman can't be buried in her mother's grave, and her final destination is **?

In fact, this is a very serious matter, and there are also many rules, and there are various situations in it. The black sister-in-law often helps with the red and white ceremonies in the village, and is interested in these things.

So here is what I learned.

The village is not big, and there are many strange things.

My neighbor's wife, who was in her seventies, died suddenly. Because of the burial **, the question of who to bury and dress up with, the children quarreled endlessly.

She and the old man in the neighborhood were both married for the second time, but they also lived together for more than 40 years and had a son. They also had their own children before they got married, so after her death, whether to be buried with her ex-husband or buried in her current husband's house, the children of the previous litter began to argue. This is also something she did not think of when she was alive.

The children of the ex-husband want to pull the old lady back to their hometown and bury them with their biological father, saying that the father is too lonely over there;

The son born to the old queen mother asked to be buried locally, and waited for his father to be buried with him after a hundred years, because this was his biological father and mother, and it was convenient to be buried together;

The former wife of the old man in the neighborhood also did not agree to the old lady's burial in the local area, saying that in the future, the old man would be buried with his ex-wife, that is, their mother, who had already died of illness.

These half-siblings quarreled with their half-siblings for a night, and later, the children of the three parties voted by a show of hands, and in the end, the younger son compromised, and the old lady was buried with her ex-husband, and the problem was resolved.

I think that choosing tree burial and Haila Youmin burial is a good way to return to nature, and there is a good saying: life is borrowed, and one day it will be returned to the mountains and the breeze.

People are very scary in reality, so scary that they don't even know themselves. But sadly, I don't know myself now.

But there is a saying that will always be remembered in my heart: marriage is the grave of love, but if there is no marriage, then love is not dead and has no place to be buried? Then I began to believe that we were all going to the grave sooner or later, and my heart suddenly collapsed.

It is said that marriage is the grave of love, but how to die without marriage without a place to bury? This sentence is so wrong! Marriage is the crystallization of love!

Only love will go to the palace of marriage! Only when you enter the palace of marriage will you be happier! Love will be more mature!

If you only have a relationship but don't get married, the relationship will die faster and more completely! ok？

The love that can be buried in marriage, the love itself is not long enough. True love, entering into marriage, does not mean stepping into the grave, love is attributed to family affection, is the negation of dialectic, that is, the negation of connection, the negation of development, in essence is the renunciation (political term). Love is still there, but there is less immaturity and instability before, that is, more maturity and stability

Love and family affection have relativity and identity, and marriage is just a combination of love and family affection.

Of course, marriage is the form, and love is the substance. It doesn't matter if the form is or not, the substance is enough.

You can't say that! Some people don't have a happy marriage, so people have to look forward.

Under the bait, there will be dead fish.

The trunk of the tree, with its dense foliage like a huge umbrella, is covered.