Family affection is so dim How did family affection become weaker?

If I were you, I would do my best to make my mother's life happy.

You know, you're not the only one who is going through this blow.

The departure of a partner, the indifference of a loved one.

So, whatever the hell he says.

The most important thing is to make my mom happy.

In addition, that job must be fought for!!

I can't put up with it anymore. Now that they've turned their backs, you can't afford to be accommodating. If they want to monopolize the property, then you can sue and you will have the right to inherit.

And if you are underage, then they have an obligation to support and care for you, otherwise it is illegal. If you are an adult, they have no legal responsibility. But they are too much in terms of reason.

Relatives are meant to help each other and be considerate. Since they are like this, then the essence of relatives is lost, and what is the use of having such relatives? You can't just accommodate them.

Otherwise, it will ruin your life.

1 - I didn't expect anyone to see it, although I didn't comment, but I also want to complain about it, there is also a relative on my mother's side, my mother's own sister, why does my aunt hate her, and I hate her after hating my aunt, because she has no scheming, she is a typical woman's mentality, for her own family, she doesn't care about anything else, everything is for her own family.

Why do relatives have less contact with relatives No matter how close they are, why do they say that relatives are close and rarely come and go These three kinds of relatives try to have less contact with relatives Relatives dislike you performance quotations What does it mean to come to relatives I am very poor and want to cut off contact with relatives The meaning and symbolism of relatives Some relatives try to come and go What does it mean for relatives to come and go Relatives are not close as it is better to break off relatives and know what it means to be a year away Impulsive uncle Zhihu In what capacity will you always accompany me In what capacity will you continue to accompany me.

In the train of life, we will all meet different people. These different people have their own characteristics and bring us a variety of lives. Maybe when you are far away, you feel that family affection is very valuable.

Youth and ignorance when we are youngIn the time of youth and ignorance, most of us are based on friendship. I believe that when you are rebellious in your youth, you are very troubled by the nagging of your parents, and you think that you have no common topic with them. In fact, the love of parents is only expressed in different types, and occasionally they will cause misunderstandings between each other because of love.

Some parents and children are not good at expressing themselves, and this misunderstanding is getting bigger and bigger. In the end, it leads to the fading of family affection in our hearts when we are young, and friendship becomes more and more important in our hearts. When we grew up, we discovered the importance of family affection, and when we went to high school or college to work, we found more and more that the world is very realistic, and there is nothing more important in the world than family affection.

So now when we look back on the mistakes we've made in the past, we become more and more annoyed, so much so that when we want to make up for something, we find that we can't fix it.

In fact, as long as our parents are alive, we still have a chance to get along. All the love in the world can't resist the sinister love of relatives, and all love can't resist the love of family is real. Too many things in this world are complicated, and the love of our relatives for us is the simplest, purest, and most selfless.

Especially when we are far away from home to work or study, we miss this love very much. Therefore, we need to be kind to our parents in a timely manner.

I felt cold in my heart、、Suddenly infinitely sentimental。 、、

Maybe it's someone who has the same experience, and I have a special heart-to-heart sympathy. I know that your transparent heart can't tolerate a mercenary person like your uncle, just like I can't stand the existence of a sand in my clear eyes. It's just that in life, there are many helpless ......

God loves to joke the most, but the person who hurts us the most, but we can't escape, because people can lose or give up a lot in life, but there are some things that we can't and can't let go, such as family affection, after all, it is connected by blood, how can we let go easily? 、、

Classmates, I know your indignation, because I've experienced it before、、That feeling is very uncomfortable、We can't tell the adults because they always say "can't be like this"、But,You know what? We can vent our emotions casually, such as the whining you made on it, in the end, no one can blame you, because a sentence of "fairy tales" can push your disrespect clean and ......

But adults are different, they have scruples, they have to tolerate, even endure, so in fact, your uncle is like this, the saddest thing is your grandfather, your father's ......When they persuade you to "can't do this", they are actually persuading themselves, so, sometimes don't show your opinions so obviously, and be more considerate and considerate of those adults who don't care about your uncle、......

These are all things that I said based on experience, and now that I think about it, I was fortunate that I could have reacted at the time, otherwise, I would have regretted it for the rest of my life, please remember that we do not express dissatisfaction, not because we are not angry, but for the sake of those who love us and have scruples......

Please be considerate and considerate of their ......、

Not necessarily. I think you should be more energetic now, study hard, work hard after you come out of society, have money, and when you go back, when he looks at you, he will feel like he is looking at the sky.

It's the same as my family.,My uncle is also like that.,There are very few relatives in the family.,Dad's brothers are like this.,In fact, I think my father is very pitiful.,When you're in trouble, you have to bear it alone.,Alas,Grandpa died very early.,Dad came out early to do things.,In fact, the existing relatives are not as good as their friends.。。

I think it's because of money, people are getting more and more snobbish now, you are rich and powerful, everyone is willing to be relatives with you, people who don't have money don't bother to pay attention to you, they don't move around each other, and the family affection is getting weaker and weaker.

Although our economic income has increased greatly and people's living standards have been fully developed and improved, in fact, the social atmosphere has also been greatly affected. The whole society is affected by the concept of money, the relationship between people is becoming more and more realistic, and everyone's attitude towards life is becoming more and more impetuous.

Now the family relationship is becoming more and more indifferent, is it still caused by the old saying in the countryside, "talking about money hurts feelings"? It is undeniable that our fast-paced society and high-stress lifestyles have made everyone more and more apathetic and numb. The relationship between families is getting weaker and weaker, which is still reflected in the following three situations.

The gap between the rich and the poor makes the poor dare not go to their relatives, they all say that "the rich do not go to their neighbors, and the poor do not go to their relatives", and now the poor do not seem to dare to go to their relatives, in the past, often in the Dragon Boat Festival, the Mid-Autumn Festival and other special days, the peasants will go to their relatives. But now there are only symbolic visits to relatives around the Spring Festival a year, and the reason for this phenomenon is because of money.

In the past, when rural people visited relatives, they often talked about how good their lives had recently, what was unsatisfactory in their careers, and whether they were emotionally harmonious. But now the relationship between relatives has changed, and now it is money to meet each other, how much money is spent on buying a house, how much money is spent on buying a car, how much money is earned in a year, and often these things are between relatives, which are basically inseparable from money.

In the past, relatives would ask relatives for help when there was something at home to see if there was a solution, and relatives would also enthusiastically come up with ideas. But now, if you have any difficulties, discuss and negotiate with your relatives, all you get is cynicism, not only do you not want to find a way, but you will also talk about all kinds of harms, and make you retreat. These relatives will also publicize your affairs among themselves, making you embarrassed and even harming your interests.

It's a boy, how to say it, everyone will doubt themselves, others, and their relatives at some point in their lives!

Indeed, there will always be such and such unsatisfactory in life, feeling that their parents have not given them enough, and feeling that family affection is not as enviable as others! Human beings have always been subjective animals, always thinking about what they want, what they want to get, and what kind of environment they want!

In fact, those feelings, everyone has them, you also know that you feel unfilial, as parents they always worry about you, they have given you enough, you just don't adapt to this environment! I won't talk nonsense, I just want to ask you, it's been twenty-five years, your parents gave birth to you for twenty-five years, what kind of people your parents are, don't you know yourself, it's not that they don't care about you, it's just that their personality determines that they are not good at expressing it like this!

Twenty-five years old, a man, a vigorous and lifeful, fresh and bloody man, why are you still seeking love, still thinking about it, and are you still so immature? Your parents are old, forty or fifty, they have lived most of their lives, they have paid most of their lives, they also need love, they need warmth, the atmosphere of the family can not always be created for you, have you ever thought about your current role, has slowly become the backbone of the family, parents are old and tired, need to rest, and should you stand up and say, the burden of the family in the future will be borne by yourself, have they said in front of you that they are tired, have they said bitter?

You say you want to rest, you are tired, you are not in good health, I think this is not the main reason, I think many reasons, or because you have not yet taken on the sense of mission that adults take responsibility, you still have inertia in your body, and you do not have a motivated heart! This may be the reason why your parents told you to endure, hoping that you can really be tempered to take on the things that a man and an adult need to bear at this age!

In the face of sorrow and desolation, we can no longer blindly complain and blindly say, we should analyze our own shortcomings and why this situation has occurred.

You are too psychologically burdened, and the most important thing for you is to let go of your baggage.

It is understandable to ask parents to forgive you for doing something wrong, but you have to believe that not all parents are open-minded. They think that your mistakes have hurt their feelings and they will not forgive you easily, so they will ignore them and treat them coldly. Because in this case it is very difficult for you to communicate, except through a third party (their friend or yours).

It's not because your life is too bad, it's because you're not good at adjusting your mindset. The past is gone, look at things in a positive light, you will see the sunshine, look at things with a negative attitude, you often see the dark side, then how will you get up.

Your parents are your lifelong fate, cherish it, and we might as well accept the things we can't choose.

Work and rest are not in conflict, the key is up to you. Health comes from self-cultivation and thinking. Move to cultivate the body, calm to nourish the mind, as long as you pay attention, you will always squeeze out time.

Don't be sad, there is no knot in the world that cannot be untied, you are sick and can be cured. What about me! But it can't be cured, and if you are happy every day, the sadness you want to live is also a life, and happiness is also a life.

Why not be happy! Hehe, parents must love you, if you ask if you are happy, isn't it coaxed as a child? You're more than 20 years old, and the general concern of parents is to ask if you're hungry, hehe, that's love from the heart, hehe...