Should my boyfriend take his ex wife and son back to his hometown for Chinese New Year s Eve dinner?

Updated on society 2024-04-21
5 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Dear, when you ask this question, I can't help but laugh and cry.

    With such a boyfriend, how can you still be with him? Your boyfriend, it's the New Year, and he won't take you back to his hometown for dinner. Instead, bring your ex-wife and son, what does this mean?

    Is this what a boyfriend should do? Where did he put you? Did he think about your feelings when he did this?

    After the divorce, we can be friends with each other, and I can agree with this. However, even on such an important day as the New Year, I have to take my ex-wife back to my hometown for dinner, which is too much. Chinese attach great importance to the day of the New Year, which represents the reunion of the family.

    I don't believe it, your boyfriend doesn't understand the implications. What's the matter, they are all divorced, and they have to be brought back to their hometown for the New Year. Do you want to break the mirror and reunite?

    In that case, why should I be with you? This kind of behavior is not only irresponsible to you, but also a harm to your ex-wife.

    I think, such a boyfriend. You don't have to stop it, just mention breaking up. A man who doesn't take you to heart and can do things without considering your feelings, what are you going to do?

    Can you count on such a man? Someday, if the two of you get married. He suddenly wants to be with his ex-wife, what are you going to do?

    At that point, it's too late for you to regret it. Since you now know who your boyfriend is, and know that he is not a man you can trust for life, let's separate as soon as possible. Long pain is better than short pain

    Women, first of all, learn to love yourself. Don't lower your worth for the sake of so-called love. If you don't love yourself, then what qualifications do you have? <>

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I think it's a normal woman, and if your boyfriend does this, there will be a world war of family concepts because of this. Because no woman will be so generous, yes, there are also a few, yes, you have to consider whether that woman really loves you. If she doesn't love you, then of course what you do won't affect her, because people don't care about you at all.

    Most women think that if their boyfriend does this, he will endanger his position, and what is this, you are divorced, and now I am with you, you bring your ex-wife and son home, and then what is this? Is it a family to go home and celebrate the New Year happily? Maybe when you go home, you will regain your life and remarry.

    Most women think this way, and I think it's normal to think that way.

    You can take it home for the New Year, then you can take your son home for the New Year. If you still have your ex-wife, some people don't know that you are divorced, and it will be embarrassing. Make my position very embarrassing, others will think that I am a junior, and I will destroy your family.

    If your boyfriend has to take them back for the New Year, yes, then you have to go with them. If you go together, they will have some scruples, and then there will be no follow-up development, in short, everything should be in your hands.

    Some people may say that I am too stingy in this way. In fact, how can we not be stingy when we do this, if you are not stingy, you will become an outsider. So if you can let this relationship go on well, then what can you do if you are stingy?

    Anyway, I just think you have to stop your boyfriend from doing this, and if you can't stop him from doing it, then you can go back to the New Year with them. Anyway, you're his girlfriend now, so what a good reason.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    This is your boyfriend didn't do a good job, all divorced, why do you want to take your ex-wife home for the New Year, he didn't consider your feelings at all, said that the old man misses his grandson during the New Year, he can lead the child home for the New Year, but the ex-wife is not necessary, after all, now the two of you are dating, this depends on you, communicate with him, do you want to bring your ex-wife back every year after you get married, this is really difficult for me to understand, maybe the old man may not like you too much, Otherwise, even if the ex-wife goes back for the New Year, the old man will say her, do you really want to find a divorced one when you are just 25 years old? My friend's situation is similar to yours, there are too many problems after marriage, because the man has a child, so much I have to say, I hope you can be happy, come on!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    My husband's ex-wife, daughter's boyfriend, and the whole family invite my husband to dinner, is it reasonable not to take me.

    Hello, it is a pleasure to serve you and give you the following answer: unreasonable. Causes of the problem:

    Many people may think that it is normal for the daughter of her husband's ex-wife to invite her husband to dinner with her friends and the whole family, but if her husband's current wife is excluded, then this behavior is unreasonable. Workaround and practice steps:1

    First of all, the two parties should communicate frankly, and the husband should explain the situation of the manuscript to his wife, so that the wife understands that the husband's ex-wife and friends invited him to dinner with the whole family, and it is purely for friendly purposes, and not an attempt to exclude the wife. 2.Secondly, the husband should give his wife a chance to get his wife involved, and he can also let his husband's ex-wife and his friends go to her husband's house for dinner with the whole family, so that the wife can also get involved, so that both parties can get to know each other better.

    Relevant knowledge: First of all, the husband and wife must have good communication, mutual respect, and establish a good relationship of trust in order to be recognized by both parties. Secondly, the husband should respect his wife and not exclude her, but should involve her in order to maintain a happy marriage for both parties.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Summary. Boyfriend takes his ex-wife and children to celebrate the New Year with his parents, kiss, your boyfriend brings his ex-wife and children home for the New Year, then what position does he put you.

    Boyfriend takes his ex-wife and children to celebrate the New Year with his parents, kiss, your boyfriend brings his ex-wife and children home for the New Year, then what position does he put you.

    Didn't your boyfriend discuss it with you in advance? If you don't discuss it, it's disrespectful to you, and for whatever reason, since you're divorced and you're together, you shouldn't be so bothered.

    Dear, this boyfriend who is not the same, will not take you back to your parents' house for a cautious meal. Instead, bring your ex-wife and son, what does this mean? Is this what a boyfriend should do as a dry Xiaoqin? What position does he put you in? He doesn't think about your feelings at all.

    I think that after the divorce, we can agree with each other as friends. However, even on such an important day as the New Year, it is possible to take the children home for the New Year, but it is too much to delay the wife before the loan.

    Kiss, a man who doesn't put you on the heart and does things without considering your feelings, what are you going to do? Women, first of all, learn to love yourself. Don't reduce the value of self-selling for the sake of so-called love.

    If you don't love yourself, then who is there to ask others to love you?

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