How do you make friends with a guy you have had a crush on for a long time?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-03
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Tidy up your appearance and dress up to look better by his side. Basically, a feminine outfit will attract attention. Your state of mind, summed up in one sentence:

    I'm in love with you, but I'm not bad, and I'm confident that you'll like me too. Before meeting him, take a deep breath and keep mentally reciting this sentence. There's also a mindset here, don't have expectations.

    Even if you are Bingbing, there is no guarantee that every man likes you, you really can't be friends, don't be impatient and don't scare people. Whether it's a man chasing a woman, or a woman chasing a man, if they both like each other, these processes are very smooth, maybe not more than two weeks. But if not, it's a long and tangled process.

    Hopefully, in this process, you can discover yourself, show yourself, and optimize yourself.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You have to figure out two questions, one is whether you want to appear in his life as a friend now or in the future, and the other question is whether you want to further your relationship with him to become a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, choose the state you want, then you can take the next step, choose to be a friend, you have to keep a distance between friends, eat, drink, have fun, care and care, and never have ambiguous or intimate behavior; If you choose to be a boyfriend and girlfriend, then boldly hint at confession, because it is not easy to find someone you like, don't miss the five hundred times to have a chance to spend the rest of your life together, so be it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I think it's time to open up with a guy you've had a crush on for a long time, have a good conversation, and see how he feels about you, which is to try to get in touch with the friends around him and see what kind of habits he has.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    At that time, I was still in high school.,I found the other party's ** number in my class group.,And then use your own trumpet to add each other.,Because it's a search.,The other party asked me how I knew how to deduct the buckle number.,And then I didn't know what to say.,I can't make it up.,So I deleted it.。 It was a failed experience, and then he fell in love with one of our girls. If you don't have a boyfriend, you'd better confirm that he has a girlfriend and a crush, indicating that he has feelings for him, and then come to chat at this time, the past feelings may not be there, but what you can't get is often the best, you are likely to have feelings for him again, if he doesn't have a girlfriend, I think it can be developed, but he must confess first, if he already has a girlfriend, then forget it, don't talk, otherwise you will be hurt in the end.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's normal communication, no different from the friends you usually know, you may be handsome, there will be more suitors, and you care more about freedom, so don't dwell too much on it. It is important to leave some space for both sides. The main thing is to keep a normal mind.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You must first understand the other party's preferences and start from the details, so that he can see your shining points, so that you can break into the interior of his circle of friends.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You can find an entry point, such as the same hobbies, and then talk to him about how your interests and hobbies should be better, and use hobbies to get close to his life, and then expand the scope of chatting, I believe that there is no boy who will not understand the girls who chat with him every day.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Humor, specialty, unique skills, charm, he will be attracted to you, initiative is what you can do, take the initiative to step forward, say, hey, how are you doing?Hey, how are you doing? Little brother, can I want your wx.

    Take the initiative and you will have a story.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Since it's a crush, it means that he doesn't know that you like him. It will be awkward to meet again. I don't know what to talk about, so I don't need to be nervous to talk about the current situation, how is my work, but I can tentatively ask if I have a girlfriend? You might as well make jokes to make the atmosphere less tense.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Friends make friends with heart, and people are mutual! So, just communicate with him normally, don't pay too much attention to him, you treat him as a friend, and he will treat you as a friend.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You should take the initiative to come forward, get to know him through friends, and then slowly approach her and talk to her about some topics that interest him

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Girls want to be friends with boys, in fact, it is very simple, pay more attention to his hobbies, do what he likes, create more opportunities for contact, start from hobbies, and slowly become friends;

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Sometimes when you meet, you deliberately ask questions, talk to him, let him have an impression of you, and you will be friends after a few times.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Be a brave person, the crush is just a little inferior complex in my heart and afraid of losing, but you must believe it, it will be very pleasant to say it, it's a big deal for women to chase men! Love needs courage, but also action, come on!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Show your good side so that he appreciates you, and he will strike up a conversation with you without you taking the initiative.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you want to be friends with her, you must first know how to get close to him, so that it is possible.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    There is no way to be friends with people who have really liked it, and they will want to have it at a glance.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    First of all, you need to add WeChat, through various reasons such as asking which questions are good at boys, and use this as a reason to add WeChat; Secondly, send a variety of **and** in the circle of friends who are good at reflecting your appearance, knowledge, and pursuit of various details of life, and show your charm to help the other party understand you indirectly; The third is to send some greetings or articles that the other party is interested in from time to time, or food, beautiful scenery and other things that the other party is interested in to share with the other party, and get closer to the other party with a more humble and inquiring attitude. If the other party is more positive, you can take the initiative to date next. Make an appointment for some activities, you can have other friends in common, and then you can also make separate appointments depending on the situation.

    Hope mine can help you. Where are you in your relationship with a guy?

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Secondly, you should slowly discover the things he is interested in, and learn about the things he is interested in, because only in this way when you chat with him, he will feel that you have a topic to talk about, and he will find you interesting and willing to continue to talk with you. Therefore, you must learn about the topics that he is interested in, so that he feels happy and relaxed to talk to you, so that he will feel that he has a common topic with you and is happy to be good friends with you.

    Finally, boys like people who understand him, less of your arrogance and little temper, more tolerance and understanding of him, think from his point of view, know how to empathize so that you will gain his heart, don't always dislike him, think he is not good, encourage him more, let him feel that you appreciate him very much. In fact, I don't recommend that you start as friends, because once a boy thinks that a girl is his friend, then he will be friends for life, and there is very little possibility of turning into a partner. If you like it, go and confess, if you really can't do it, you will replace the next one, you have to waste too much time and put too much effort on a boy, otherwise you will fall into this relationship and hurt yourself.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Pretend that you don't have a crush on him, just simply appreciate him If you don't plan to tell him, or if you know that he has someone you like, then the best thing is to continue to be friends Otherwise, when you confess, your friend won't have to do it (but see the right opportunity, don't be cowardly, confess decisively) In fact, if the boy doesn't like you, do you have a crush on him or simply appreciate him, he can't be distinguished, after all, his mind is not on you, then at this time you treat him as a person you generally admire, A little better than the average friend, but not like a good friend, let him know that you think he is good, but that's all

    In this way, you can avoid a lot of misunderstandings and unnecessary troubles Some words are not suitable to say, so you don't need to say them, just taste them silently But once he has a signal that he is interested in you, you can properly show that you are also more interesting to him After all, a crush is only temporary, but you can't have a crush for a lifetime

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    In life, it is normal to have a crush on a boy. Want to be friends with the guy you have a crush on? It's also a simple and complicated thing, because you can't hide your love for him in the process of communication.

    Your eyes, your actions, everything will be expressed. So I suggest you start with his interests and hobbies and be friends with him first.

    Be sure to get to know him first, observe what he likes, and what he usually does in life. Then you also start to do what he likes to do, share some common interests and hobbies with him, and generate some common topics. When the guy here thinks that you resonate with him, he will be happy to communicate with you, and may even become good friends with you.

    During this time period, you can fully understand what kind of person he is, and you can also judge whether the person you have a crush on before is something you like. And don't be in a hurry to express your love for her, you must hide it in your heart first and don't let anyone know. After you become friends, you slowly approach him and make him feel that you like him.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I think this thing depends on your own social skills, because often the people you are in love with are people you don't know, if it's someone you know, then this thing is easier to do, and you've become friends in itself, so there is no such thing as making friends with a crush boy, then it must be someone you don't know, so making friends with people you don't know is your own communication problem, first of all, you have to go to his social account, your circle must be about the same. This thing is to rely on yourself to take the initiative to talk, in fact, I am very much in favor of, and the crush to be friends, because you may know each other, find that each other is really suitable, become lovers, if he confesses to you, then this marriage is really facilitated.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The first thing is to approach her boldly and chat with her, there is a common topic between the two parties, and then the most important thing to develop a further relationship is to communicate well and understand each other, so that it is very easy to be friends.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's easy to be friends with a guy you have a crush on, and there are many ways to chat with him and have fun, but you have to be proactive.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Don't feel inferior in front of him, be calm, don't let him see your nervousness, treat him like a normal friend, that's fine.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You have a crush on him and he doesn't know it, so you should be like an ordinary person making friends, and you can do what you have to do.

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