What do you think of the uselessness of reading in the countryside?

We often say that children in rural areas lose at the starting line from birth compared to children in cities, how many examples of this phenomenon are there around you?

First of all, do not consider the possibility of this phenomenon, but whether it is a parent or a friend, or a relative who thinks about your child, for such an idea, it is actually an irresponsible understanding, I do not deny that there may be such an example around us, but the once bad boy in your mouth, is the current good child really doing well?

There is such an example around me, when we used to study together, we behaved very naughty at school, many years have passed, and now I also run a restaurant in the county, and I am also married to a classmate who studied together, I have a car and a house, and I am also praised by many people in our village, but he told me privately that he must let his son study more, and now he regrets it, regrets that he was too naughty when he was in school, so that he wants to continue to develop now, and is limited by his academic qualifications, unable to stand at the same height as everyone else.

Reading more is a necessary process for us to grow up, whether it is a child in the countryside or in the city. There is a good saying, at what stage, do something, at a certain age do not need to experience, we do not need to advance it, do what should be done at the moment, so that our life will be more colorful. Throughout the course of our studies, it is not only a process of accumulating knowledge, but also a process of accumulating our network, in which we may find friends who share our interests.

If we hold such an ideology, then poverty is certain, and we don't want to make much contribution to this society, but we need to enrich our own life experience.

Because there is a passage circulating on the Internet: "Those who don't study are bosses, and those who read can't even find a job!" "Hahaha! The key is the question of whether reading can become a boss, and then judging whether reading is useful or not by this condition, mainly by the economy to measure whether reading is useful or not.

In the end, it's a matter of money.

The salary is not as high as that of blue-collar workers, the training cost is much higher, and the time is longer, so it is more practical to go to the construction site after graduating from middle school.

Let me put it this way! If you have a good academic performance, it is useful to read, but if you do not study well, it is really useless! Your grades are not good, and no matter how hard you keep studying, you can't get a good study, what's the use of studying like that?

Do you look at a slightly better school that only admits a few people a year? Can't explain the problem?

So many in one title.

The "theory of the uselessness of reading" essentially supports the view that the child's future is predetermined, and reading will not play a more good role in promoting the child's future development in all aspects.

As environmental determinism says, congenital genes play a crucial role in a child's development. In most cases, innate genes play a role, but acquired environmental influences also play a role.

Zhongyong was a young genius in "Hurt Zhongyong", but due to his father's vanity, he did not receive the support of his later education, and finally disappeared from everyone. Although he has an innate endowment, if he does not continue to study, it is inevitable that Jiang Lang will exhaust his talents, which is embarrassing.

Let's talk about it again, the hanging beam thorn strands, the chisel wall to borrow light, the smell of chickens dancing, Luoyang paper is expensive, etc., which of the protagonists behind them, not renting coincidentally, is through the acquired efforts, hard work, hard work, and finally success?

We see: there are innate genes superior, there is no acquired learning, and they become mediocre; There are also congenital genes in general, but diligence is different from ordinary people, and by insisting on reading and learning, they eventually become celebrities.

Watson, a psychologist, said in his environmental determinism: Give me a dozen able-bodied children, an environment at my disposal, and I can guarantee that I can raise them to be any kind of human being, or politician, soldier, lawyer, ...... of them, whatever their ancestry

This fully shows that as long as the level of intelligence is normal, reading is still useful. Don't believe in the theory of the uselessness of reading, reading is the most profitable investment in a person. The books you have read, just like the roads you have walked, have become the background color of your life that others cannot erase.

We must firmly believe that we will not go wrong by studying hard and studying hard.

Reading is a good thing for us in any way, reading is not useless, and it is said that reading is useless because we have never experienced the beauty of reading. The meaning of reading is very extensive, not only our after-school reading, the process of our school is also reading, those boring history and geography, those painstaking mathematics, physics and chemistry, as if there is no use at all after the college entrance examination, just for the sake of the exam forced to study, after the exam can not leave any traces, many people criticized, saying that it took so long to learn something that is not used by society, I also questioned it before, but then I thought about it, in fact, what I learned is not the key, the college entrance examination is a threshold, it is a threshold for IQ, Self-control, endurance, willpower.

In the comprehensive test, reading is not only a book, but also a person's comprehensive ability. For books that are not in the classroom, we seem to be more interested, there are a lot of famous books, ** are very interesting, reading books for us has changed from the previous boring to vivid and interesting things, many people are saying that reading books can improve personal cultivation, can enrich themselves, open the book is beneficial, as long as the book is opened to us is beneficial, but there are many people who say that after reading the book, they forget it all after closing, and waste the time to read the book, it is better to go out to play, it is better to read thousands of books than to travel thousands of miles. In fact, we should hold a natural attitude when reading books, just be interested in the book, it is enough to read it, maybe there will be unexpected gains.

When reading a book, the mind will also calm down, away from the hustle and bustle of life, which is equivalent to giving all our senses a vacation, and quietly enjoying the feeling of being comfortable.

There is no need to have any restrictions on the content of the book, all kinds of types, various versions of the book can be read, and it is also a very interesting thing to experience the life of the protagonist in the book, when we are amazed by the author's writing, and there are emotional ups and downs because of the story in the book, even if the book is very meaningful.

Rural people think that "reading is useless" is spreading, how do you think about it? How to persuade rural parents? For those parents who are oscillating between the two ideas of "the uselessness of reading" and "knowledge changes destiny", I would like to say:

Reading may not necessarily change a person's fate, but it can definitely change a person's temperament, emotional intelligence, and pattern. A person, even if he can't go to a top university, but even if he goes to a public school, this kind of person will at least maintain a heartfelt confidence in the face of the local tyrants with primary school culture.

It is useless to read. In recent years, some college students have had to find jobs on their own after graduation. The job does not pay well and can be unstable.

Rural people want their children to graduate with hope. Marriage is not about worrying about filling up the family, but the school hollows out the family, and the marriage is worse. It's hopeless to think about.

If you don't go to school, you don't have to spend so much money, and you can save some money to pay for marriage, why? Diplomas are worthless. I remember a secondary school student would have rented a good job, but now most university diplomas can work.

The peasants did not know to go to school. It takes a long time to turn them back. Learning is the foundation, not learning, but promotion and getting rich.

This nostalgia will not change, and more and more people will give up the college entrance examination.

In rural areas, while inheriting the experience of their ancestors, some families are unconsciously infected with some one-sided concepts, such as making money is the last word, and women are not virtuous, and naturally they are upright. Because these ideas are closely related to the social environment, economic conditions and human conditions of the time. Erroneous understandings have been formed in terms of ideological understanding.

At present, the level of education of rural parents is also low. There are also some people who think that living is to earn money, and no matter how many books you read, you may not be able to make money. For its part, children are allowed to do whatever they want without paying attention to learning, so learning is the most important thing.

These narrow concepts have been passed down from generation to generation, forming a traditional misunderstanding that is difficult for Duan Kai to solve on his own!

With the development of society, the living standards of rural areas have been relatively improved, and the spiritual life has also been enriched. Farmers' awareness of their children's cultural heritage and training is slowly awakening. In real life and at work, I have found that reading books and making money are essentially two different things.

Children do not study, and most of them are educated by traditional families.

This can help rural children understand the true meaning of reading, guide them from family and school education, change narrow thinking and wrong traditional family education, and make rural children love reading more!

This kind of thinking of rural people is very wrong, and children should change their lives through learning, rather than the short-sighted behavior of parents affecting children's lives; If we want to persuade rural parents, first of all, we should make them aware of the importance of learning, change their children's lives, and let them no longer become rural people, which will be more conducive to the subsequent development of children.

This kind of thinking is wrong, reading is very important for a person Li Wei, and some examples can be used to make rural parents understand that reading can indeed have better development in the future.

How can reading a book be useless? If you read the book, you will raise pigs in the future, at least the knowledge of pig raising is indispensable!

First of all, it is a wrong criterion to measure the usefulness of reading books by iron rice bowl work. First, it denies the 360 lines of work and the need for people from all walks of life to pay; Second, ignoring the fact that the iron rice bowl will also break, in many cases it is not whether you serve the iron rice bowl, but how you serve the bowl of rice that belongs to you.

Secondly, it is not clear that the true meaning of reading is to cultivate one's own noble heart and noble sentiments.

Only through reading and education can a person create an elegant heart and noble sentiments. When you have such elegance and nobility, you can be "destined" to be happy and happy in your life.

However, all this happiness and fulfillment that can only be exchanged for through reading books is long, even invisible. Therefore, this part of parents will be deceived by the "no interests" in front of them.

As I said to the two or three parents who were very "noisy".

What they see is only a short-term superficial phenomenon, just ask: a literate person uses his own salary of 4,000 yuan and a less educated person also uses his own salary of 4,000 yuan, the use of funds is the same, but is there a difference between the value they produce and the happiness they bring?

There is a noticeable difference! Unless you don't care. I think the answer is overwhelmingly envious of the value generated by the use of the 4,000 yuan by literate people.

Because he is a visionary, he is a man with plans, he is a man with a mind, and he can even bring about "efficiency" in two. However, people who have no education or a relatively low level of education will be far behind.

This is an obvious fact, this is a reference to happiness or not, but people are not used to good comparisons, and they are not used to reflecting on their own shortcomings.

To put it simply, people with a high level of education will be far stronger in guiding and educating their children than people with a low level of education in the future, and all this is precisely something that cannot be felt in the short term. After a long time, I sighed, it was too late at that time, and I could only face it, and even I could only pin my hope on the next generation of children.

However, those who lose at the starting line often rarely have a big upstart and hope. If we look at the ratio of urban and rural students in the number of people attending universities each year, it is not difficult to admit that this is a running line.

Therefore, people will invariably determine that the only way not to lose at the starting line is to get an education, even a higher level of education.

It's just that the child was delayed by your previous family education, and now it is rare to "reverse". From this point of view, I want to "accuse" parents of "permissiveness" of their children.

For example, children can buy whatever they want, and even take pride in their children's comparisons and mistakes, and are proud of their children's ...... when they don't study at the age of fifteen or sixteen

Rural education is like this: the foundation is weak and the concept is poor, but as long as you change your thinking, you will have great progress and gains; As long as the awareness of reading is raised, a bright future is not far away.