As a waste material, I don t want to be motivated, I don t want to get married, I just want to live

Life is all about diversity now. There's nothing wrong with your choice. You're not a scrap, and you're not unmotivated.

You just need the life you want. Is that wrong? Everyone has the right to pursue their own life.

Of course, in the traditional sense. You didn't follow the path of ordinary people. It seems a little out of place.

But shouldn't all people follow the same path? I think there are many paths in life, and it's good to choose what you like.

Since you know that it is waste material, don't use it as waste material, you don't want to be motivated like this, you don't want to get married, how can your parents and relatives feel at ease? , You are not the life of ordinary people, the life of ordinary people is that men should get married, and it is natural for women to get married and have children, so don't be too selfish, live according to the life of ordinary people! Don't let those who love you and care about you like that of your relatives be tired of your heart, okay?

There's nothing wrong with that. You, as a waste wood, are not wrong to think so. Then you, as a son, can't. Have you ever wondered if anything big will happen to your family in the future, or if your parents have left you. Will your salary be able to support yourself? (Personal opinion).

In the hustle and bustle of society, it is a rare comfortable life to calm down and not seek fame or profit, but it just makes the people around you feel that it is different, and gossip is indispensable.

No one else should interfere with your current situation! Everyone has the right to choose their life! However, they are anxious about their parents' identity! It is their responsibility to reproduce the next generation! At this point, you should understand the parents.

Since you're planning to live like this, what do you care about what other people say? You just don't listen to what others say, as long as your parents are doing well.

If you don't want to get married, you won't get married. What a big deal. Know that you don't have much financial strength. I want to live a life of saving money.

I think it's not wrong for everyone to choose a different way of life.

It seems like it's all right......

I've seen some reports about Japan, and more and more Japanese young people are living like this. Staying at home and playing games, satisfying the status quo, and even some are still gnawing on the old. It's a pity....You were born in China.

According to the world's view, you claim to be a waste of firewood, and you have failed to live up to your parents' expectations of you. I don't want to get married, which worries my parents and deprives the old man of the expectation of holding his grandson unfilial. If you don't seek to be motivated and be content with the status quo, can you guarantee that it will continue like this, and what should you do if there are any changes in the future?

Do you want to go on like this......

Amitabha. Maybe you don't know much about the person you went on a blind date with. I ended up marrying my blind date.

I don't think the same as you, I feel that the person I'm looking for is the same type of person as the girl I met on a blind date, and the end result is the same. In today's social climate, whether it is a blind date or a girl you are looking for, you will take over when you get married. Have they ever lived with an ex-boyfriend before, have they ever had an abortion, and will they be honest with you before they get engaged?

There are more men and fewer women, and I don't have anything to pick. When I answer the question, I often meet the subject who only knows that the daughter-in-law has had a fetus before after getting married, and they must give an explanation to the daughter-in-law. What can those women say?

It's all fate. The sentient beings in the era of the end of the Dharma are shallow in their wisdom compared to the era of the Fa-rectification and the era of the Dharma-likeness.

The patriarch Dade has long said: "In the era of the end of the law, hundreds of millions of people practiced, and few people attained the Tao, and only by reciting the Buddha can they survive life and death." "I only want Amitabha Buddha now, I only want to recite Amitabha, and I only want to be reborn in the Elysian World.

When you're not satisfied, it's like I found it myself.

It is useless to complain about others, it will only bring your own anxiety and even cause conflicts in the current family. Relax, your current partner may also be very good, give him or her a chance, you can learn and improve together. Life always has to look forward, and the past can only be the past.

I don't think it's necessary to compare the current with the people of the past, after all, it's impossible to come back after the past, cherish the present, and have a good experience of the current people, who has shortcomings, mainly depends on whether his shortcomings are acceptable? , don't think that she is not as strong as before, you can't accept it, always regret losing it will delay the opportunity in front of you, maybe you will lose a better one.

Since I have chosen a marriage partner. Only one in a million can be married. There must be a merit value to marry. If you choose the wrong one, you will finish this life on your knees. Don't complain about heaven and don't blame fate. If you can't change him, you can change yourself.

According to what you said, you went on a blind date before, and then divorced, and now you have found a partner yourself, and you are ready to marry him, but you now feel that the object you are looking for is not as good as the object of the previous divorce, but no matter what, you and the previous blind date has ended, you have broken up, there is no fate between you, so you can't look at the mountain high, the past is the past, you have to cherish the fate in front of you, so that you can get true happiness.

I wouldn't think so. I will also retreat quickly, no longer go on a blind date, or respect fate! What should come will always come.

What you hold in your hand is the best, don't compare the two, you must have his advantages when you chose him, and happiness should be grasped by yourself

The road is chosen by yourself, the shoes only know if they fit well, the daughter-in-law is always the good of others, think about why you chose it this way, whether it felt the best at the time, and never forget the original intention! If you stick to what you thought at the time, you will feel more comfortable and your life will be happier! The path you choose is to finish it even if you kneel, and I wish you happiness in your life.

There is a saying that most women feel that the current is not as good as the ex. Most men feel that the next one will be better than the current one. It's human nature to be dissatisfied.

This is the case with everything, either rise up and resist, or passively accept it. The ability to resist is courage, passive acceptance is called resignation, you have the ability to resist to take courage, and to bear all the consequences, if you are not willing to accept fate, whether you have the ability to resist, then you have to change, not life changes the other party, or the other party changes life, the ability to make each other better and better is called wisdom!

The reason why the object who quit the marriage before will withdraw from the marriage is that you are not as good as her compared to her, that is to say, you are not good enough, ordinary people's love and communication still pay attention to a good match, excellent people look for excellent people, ordinary people look for ordinary people, can not be ambitious, to find a talent with equivalent conditions according to their own conditions is the safest, if you are a rich second generation or an official second generation, then you can be willful, because your money and status will add points to your shortcomings, but as an ordinary person is still practically better.

Think about it, don't think about it... Good days are all made of struggle.

Forget the past and start anew.

No, I'm going to keep improving.

Find it yourself, why not find a better one!

Dad doesn't seek Zen and progress, always wants to live a dull life, dull does not mean not motivated, everyone has their own life, if you want to make money, then earn it yourself, don't use your own goals to ask not to believe in and people This is very unslippery and fair.

After a person has experienced unforgettable things, often later, he has changed a person's reorientation of many things, as well as his own situation in all aspects, there have been major changes.

Some people are weak-willed and cannot withstand the blows and sink, while others are narrow-minded and knowledge-oriented.

Treat a profound thing you have experienced as the whole thing, form a deep estrangement in consciousness, make yourself unable to live a peaceful life, and treat people who are easy to "bring illness", so that people who don't understand you can't accept it.

Let you fall into passivity, you have already been hurt, but also by the influence and torture of past things, this is the manifestation of the strength and weakness of the ability to deal with things under the effect of the wide and narrow heart, so that the sympathetic people to the weak people, it is also not smooth, but in the final analysis, the guilt is that you should say that there are people everywhere, where there are few people, but also pay attention to safety, shopping convenience, the quality of the locals and wait for a long time, come out and go in, what kind of attitude to interact with people?

Therefore, no matter in the ** life, the mentality must be peaceful and correct, in order to interact with people normally in order to find their own happy life.

Some human situations are the same as in nature, with ups and downs, so you should try something or lifestyle first.

After a period of time, look at that way, it is better, and after making sure that it is more mature, it will be fixed.

[Good is like water.]

The heart is as calm as a mirror] pessimistic and misanthropic, there is no paradise outside the world!

If you want to live quietly, live silently!

Don't sing about life.

Unassuming, individuality.

Don't chase the waves, don't be too tired.

Don't follow the trend, don't follow the trend.

No, no, can you still be [world-weary]?

Dodging is not the way, there is no paradise in the world.

Dodging is not a way, there is no dodge in the world is not a way, there is no paradise in the world.

It is recommended that you can learn Buddhism, and it is recommended that you can often read and recite the Diamond Sutra, and there is no Amitabha Buddha in the south.

There is no such thing as a paradise.

This kind of irritability that accumulates over time, when it reaches a certain critical point, there is no love at all. This text message should be a sign that this tipping point has been reached.

Unrequited love, I'm also afraid of this kind of result, in fact, you are very happy to chat with her, but she doesn't really want to talk to you, she is perfunctory to you, since the result You already know it, give up.

I still care a little bit, but I get very irritated when I think of each other.

Well, I guess I still care a little bit. But don't be too proactive, it's better to keep silent, so as not to cause something unnecessary.

If you still want to be nice to him, don't contact him now, don't pay attention to him, don't bother him if he doesn't contact you, let's see later.

I think so. Otherwise, why explain so much?

In fact, if we have lived with the other half of ourselves for a long time, we will generally have the situation you mentioned, aesthetic fatigue,

But we still have to ask ourselves, can he really go with me to the end Obviously, the master has no confidence in his own one, and is a little afraid to continue walking, but he can't find a very obvious reason to refuse, but the advice I give is: since you have been together for five years, there must be a reason for you to continue to be able to get along with a person for so many years, not a short day, so many years we not only have to talk about feelings, we also have the expectations of relatives and friends on both sides, so we are more responsible in it. Sometimes people don't just live for ourselves.

It's been 5 years, don't put it off, if you still think like this next year, so, don't have psychological pressure, go and vote for your own marriage, and now you still have time to think about it, so don't think too much, at least now you have to sort out your thinking, you have a good relationship, you always want to get married, why do you want to put it next year? Don't always think about your feelings, people often say, everything has a public feeling, think about him, I suggest not to say this, if you still think like this after a month, think again.

Look before you leap.

Have fun.

When you want to get married, there is an inner conflict, it seems that there are still a lot of such situations, the time is almost up, you haven't thought about it yet, it seems that you have to solve your emotions first, see what the real heart is under this emotion, and then make the decision to get married, otherwise this marriage is also awkward. Is this unspeakable panic fear? Don't shy away from this feeling, it may be uncomfortable to experience panic, but still look at what this feeling has to tell you at this juncture?

For premarital phobia, it is best to go to the doctor and let the doctor enlighten you.

There is nothing wrong with finding a rich man, but you must have the conditions to make a rich man happy, and you need to actively work hard to find a way

So you think money is more important than love?

Things gather like and people are grouped. You know it!