Is online dating very empty? Online dating is virtual, why do so many people still fall into it?

It depends on your personal point of view, as long as you feel realistic and work in which direction to make it a reality, and if you like that person who likes you and is willing to work with you to make it a reality, then why not? If you like someone, you should give it to the person you like, and try to do whatever you can, as long as you work hard, even if there is no result in the future, at least it is a good memory.

Maybe if you want to turn online dating into reality, love may be much harder than direct love in reality, and you may have to pay more, but as long as you do it sincerely, don't care what the result is, at least you won't regret it.

It's up to both sides. Online dating wants to have a lower success rate for other love methods, because online dating is purely spiritual at the beginning. But we are subject to the realities of the situation.

Online dating is ideal. Platonic love, but this kind of love cannot be maintained without a good conversion.

That's right! However, online dating can be regarded as an online acquaintance, and the reality comes together, and that is success!

It's just a matter of people. I also played it once and now we are friends for a year and now it's natural. If you decide to take a risk, don't think about the consequences, or you'll be friends like me.

The reality is brutal.

The web is beautiful. Hehe.

If a person is not sincere, he is false, and if he is sincere, he is not false.

No, as long as both parties are serious, there is nothing wrong with that.

It's really very vain, and people nowadays are talking about reality.

In reality, people who come out are hypocrites, not to mention the Internet.

From the perspective of gender psychology, the so-called "high-frequency chat" can give rise to the illusion of love, but very few can give rise to a positive feeling of love.

In other words, the biggest difference between online dating and real dating is that the former is actually the process of "we fall in love with the ideal partner in our fantasy", but it is the process of "we have feelings with a real individual".

Why do most people involuntarily be cranky, sensitive and suspicious when dating online?

That is to say, the image of our partner that we construct only through online chatting is often the product of secondary processing of the imagination.

At the same time, only 30% of our construction of this person's image is real at most, and the rest is all from "subjective conjectures of self-rationalization".

Maybe the person on the other side of the screen just sent you a ** for a delicate breakfast, and you can't help but make up "He may be a self-disciplined person who understands life", but this may not be the case;

Maybe the person on the other side of the screen sent a ** in a suit and leather shoes, then you will be more willing to believe that "he is a young and promising successful person", but the reality may be worlds apart;

Maybe the person on the other side of the screen suddenly ignores you one day and becomes cold to you, and you start to be sensitive and suspicious, anxious, and wonder if he doesn't like me at all, but it may not be the case.

So why don't I recommend limiting dating to online dating for a long time?

No matter how frequent and enthusiastic the chat with each other is, in fact, to a large extent, we are all in love with "our own fantasies". And the person across the screen, we can't help but imagine him as our ideal type, but this may not be the case.

In other words, the illusion of love you have is not a real love individual, but most of it is a virtual feeling of being satisfied in your imagination, and you will involuntarily project this feeling on the person on the other side of the screen.

He is not just a carrier of your emotions, but a real love partner.

Until the two parties really can't suppress this virtual love impulse and start to invite to meet, this is actually a process of shattering their own illusions with their own hands.

In real life, you will find that this person does not seem to be as good as "you imagined".

In your love fantasy, this person may be a well-bred gentleman, but when they meet in reality, he can't stop shaking his legs when he smokes in public and eats;

In your love fantasy, this person may be a young man with a successful career, but when you meet in reality, he is just an ordinary young man who does not even meet your minimum standards;

In your love fantasy, this person may be a gentle and attentive warm man, but when you meet in reality, he doesn't ask your opinion when ordering food, and orders a table of dishes that he doesn't like to eat.

This is the hot conversation on the Internet, but as soon as we meet, we will "see the light and die".

Online dating is virtual, and some people fall into it because they feel a sense of accomplishment.