Why are there always so many villains around me?

People who are not successful and not excellent are always surrounded by villains, just waiting to see your jokes.

There are a lot of villains around everyone, so everyone's road is not smooth sailing. Only if you keep moving forward on your own can you make your path smoother.

Hello, I just broke up with a group of friends, and I don't say that I broke up, just keep my distance. The truth that those who are close to Zhu are red and those who are close to ink are black. Being with villains can also become stingy, hearty, and tangled.

If you can't bear it, you can continue, and if it doesn't work, you will withdraw.

We often say, "It's hard to be a man, it's hard to be a man, it's hard to be a man", as the so-called people's hearts are unpredictable, we will always meet some villains, behind us to calculate us. At this time, we need to protect ourselves. Today, Yuehan will share with you my three tricks of counter-calculation.

Cao Cao, villain, Guiguzi, Confucius, emotions, people's hearts.

Because you are not strong enough, the price for the villain to provoke you is small, so you are always provoked by the villain. Sometimes you have to learn to be stronger, it's the same as bullying at school, bad students don't bully good students, why? Because good students have the protection of teachers, only students who are average in learning, mediocre and powerless, will be targeted by bad students.

So being strong is the only way.

When the villain talks to you, if the tone is muttering and not wanting others to hear, it means that he is targeting you at this time, and he does not necessarily have any bad intentions towards you.

When the villain is ready to spoil you, he generally shows that he cares for you, and even shows how much he loves you, and in front of you, he will begin to show how close he is with you, and he cares for you so much. At this time, you don't care how hypocritical he is, and you don't have to care about his unappetizing performance, smile indifferently, not flattering, not indifferent.

In front of such a villain with bad intentions, don't show your emotions. Don't be interested in what the villain says, you have to remember that this kind of person deliberately runs in front of you and says things for a purpose, they want to arouse your emotions and make a big fuss.

Too many villains around may be due to the following reasons:

Competitive pressure: In modern society, people often face fierce competition and pressure, which can lead to a situation where people use various means, including conspiracies and slander, to achieve their goals, resulting in a situation where there are many villains around them.

Human weakness: Human beings are born with negative emotions and behaviors such as jealousy, envy, selfishness, etc., which are especially obvious in some people, which can lead them to do some immoral behaviors in life.

Lack of trust: Some people are prone to suspicion of other people's motives and behaviors due to their past bad experiences or personality traits, so they have a distrustful attitude towards those who are radically changing sides, resulting in a situation where there are many villains around them.

Social circle problem: Some people's social circle is relatively small, and the people they face are relatively simple, and they are easily influenced by the villains around them.

If you feel that there are too many villains around you, you can appropriately adjust your social circle to find people who are beneficial to you, and you can also improve your emotional intelligence, enhance your psychological quality, and better cope with the troubles of the villains around you. At the same time, you should also pay attention to the ethics and norms of your own behavior to avoid becoming a member of the villains around you.

Maybe you currently have some kind of chain ridge real life pressure, feel that it is difficult to walk an inch, and it is difficult to realize even a small wish, and you will feel that there are many villains. You may have negative emotions such as powerlessness, insecurity, creative insecurity, self-righteousness, panic, etc., and after releasing these negative emotions and stopping internal friction, you will feel that the villain is far away from you.