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The tricks that villains fear the most may include:
1.Privately provocate: Privately directly provoking the villain's behavior, let him know that you are on guard in your heart, don't go too far.
2.Public attitude: If you have reached some kind of consensus with the villain in private, but in public, he still implements all kinds of instability on you, then you must express your attitude publicly, at least let other people know that you are not a person who will get by.
3.Continuous resistance: Sometimes the villain is testing a person's bottom line, and when you are very resolute towards him, he will also play psychological warfare with you, in this case you must continue to resist and do not admit in front of the villain.
4.Build alliances: Joining forces with people around you who are going through the same situation as you can solve this big problem well, and for the villains, you must not overestimate their energy in your heart.
5.Ruling by leapfrogging: If all these methods are exhausted, and the villain still does not give up on you, in this case, you must use the power of the leader to hand over such things to your boss or a higher-level leader.
Please note that these methods may not always work, as the behavior of the villain may vary from person to person, and these strategies may take some time and effort to implement. At the same time, these strategies must be used in a manner that complies with applicable laws and ethical guidelines.
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The villain's most feared move is for high-ranking people to suppress him.
Because villains generally bully the soft and fear the hard, they only dare to bully the honest, not the hard.
Therefore, the villain is more afraid of people who are higher in rank than him.
Villain is the antonym of gentleman. It refers to people who like to do some tricks, sow discord, watch the fire from the other side, fall into the well, etc., that is to say, the villain is not on the right path and despicable.
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1. Slowly gain his trust first, and then take him into the army at a critical moment.
The villain is super good at camouflage, but some people don't hide it so deeply, and they think they are smart on the surface, but they don't know that they have long been seen through by others, but if you see through his tricks, don't rush to break it, first gain his trust, and then slowly collect evidence of his badness, and then wait for the time to come, and give them a fatal blow at the critical moment.
2. Isolate him and let him sing a one-man show but get no response.
It's not that difficult to completely bring down the villain, you just need to unite other people secretly, let the people around you know the true face of the villain, and pull them together to isolate the villain, especially focus on the "victim" who has been tripped by the villain, and finally let the villain sing a "one-man show" there but can't get a response.
3. Directly stiffened, overshadowing him and scaring him away.
For some villains, there is really no need to endure it all the time, because the more you endure it, they will even intensify their efforts to limit you to the unrighteous place, so there is no need to endure it anymore, and it will explode once and directly slap back, overshadowing him and scaring him away in momentum.
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Guiguzi can be said to be a strategist during the Warring States Period, and in Guiguzi's life, he not only cultivated several very powerful apprentices. He also has a super high ability, that is, the art of controlling people and minds, Guiguzi has a super high wisdom in the world, and these wisdom still have some effect on us to this day. We know that villains are very common in life, each of us is very disgusted with villains, and some are even afraid of these villains, many villains are two-faced, there is no morality at all, for villains, Guiguzi showed his wisdom two thousand years ago, he taught us, deal with villains, with these 4 tricks, no matter how treacherous villains you can deal with the past.
The first move: counterattack at the right time. Guiguzi said:
The world is traitorous, and it is impossible to change secretly. The villain is in the dark, and we are in the light, and the evil often changes his bad behavior in secret, waiting to attack. Guiguzi teaches us:
Move according to their will, know their strategy. When we fight back against the villain, we must observe the other party, speculate on the other party's way of acting, grasp his strategy, and don't be confused by the villain, so that we can take advantage of the victory and pursue. Let the villain's bad behavior at the right time, treat his body in the way of others, fight poison with a tooth for a tooth, and the villain will be much more honest.
In the workplace, maybe you have your own principles and don't want to be with villains, but when you encounter villains who make small moves behind your back many times, forbearance is not a way after all. Take effective measures to fight back in a timely manner, maybe he will not dare to be rampant in the future.
The second trick is to keep your distance. When getting along with villains, you must remember to grasp the distance, not too good and not ignoring. The villain's heart is small, and if you are not friendly to him, you will definitely remember you and make you pay for it.
But it's not too good, villains like to kick their noses in the face, be good to him, but it will be taken for granted, and then use it more easily. When working with villains, you must treat each other with courtesy, that is, respect them on the surface, give them enough face, let them have face, act more conveniently, be generous when dealing with things, and take a step back to open the sky.
The third trick is to use wisdom to guard against villains. Treacherous people will do whatever it takes to achieve their ends, and they will do the same thing in front of you and behind their backs, leaving you defenseless. So when getting along with such a person, remember to keep an eye on it, for this kind of person, you can't just listen to what he says, but also see through what he is thinking, such a person is doing perfect on the surface, and there are other unsightly things behind the scenes, so you must keep an eye on such a person to prevent ** road.
The fourth trick is to learn to eliminate traitors with force. Treat treacherous villains, either don't make a move, or if you want to shoot, you have to win with one move, cut the grass and remove the roots, cut the grass without removing the roots, and the spring breeze blows and grows. They will make a comeback, waiting for an opportunity to take revenge, as long as they have a little breath left, they are not easy to provoke, you can't be soft on such people, the old saying "kindness to the enemy is cruelty to yourself", although we are enthusiastic and good to others, but if people offend me, I will be punished even if I am far away.
Remember these four strategies of Guiguzi, what kind of workplace villain are you afraid of?
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The villain is most afraid that others will use upright tricks against him, although he is used to using yin tricks against others, so he is not afraid of others using yin tricks against him, but is afraid of others dealing with him openly.
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The villain is most afraid that you will use the same moves against him, because she knows what kind of way she treats others, so when she lets others treat him in the same way, he will be very painful.
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The villain is most afraid, that is, if you have something to suppress him directly in front of him, he will not worry, he always likes to do something behind his back.
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This thing has his mouth, but in fact, he is not afraid of anything, because he is a villain himself, and you can only fight evil with evil.
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It must be that the villain is also afraid of being dealt with by the villain. Sanren will definitely be afraid that others will calculate him behind his back, everyone is like this.
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The only way is to bury it deep in your heart, not to discard it, but to put it in the safest and most mysterious place that no one knows.
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There are some very "powerful" people in the workplace, who can always become the public enemy of the people because of various problems, and this kind of person is what we commonly call villains.
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What is the villain most afraid of? Recruit to deal with him, if you deal with this kind of villain, the farther away from this kind of villain, the better.
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The villain is most afraid that people will scold him in person, expose his shortcomings in front of everyone, and look down on him.
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The villain is most afraid of the wicked to deal with him, and usually the villain will not provoke the wicked.
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Maybe it's the wicked, because the villain himself is also afraid of others.
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As I understand it:
The villain is the one who thinks about himself.
A gentleman is a person who takes care of the overall situation.
And the hypocrite, on the surface, takes into account the overall situation, and secretly calculates the benefits that are beneficial to him.
Back to the topic: villains are afraid of being more yin than themselves.
The gentleman is afraid of ruining his "bureau" (things are man-made).
And the hypocrite is afraid of the kind of means that are more ruthless, the words are more beautiful, and the "pattern" is bigger than him (the surface gentleman's bureau).
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1. Distinguish between public and private.
In the workplace, make a clear distinction between public and private people and things, even if there is a villain, he has no way to take you, and do not do anything with a handle to let others hold it in his hands, such a person can be lucky to survive even if he meets a villain.
2. Anti-routine.
For the villain, the most feared are those who are particularly shrewd, because his small plan has no way to pit people, but will be seen through by these smart people and trick him, and finally steal chickens and rice.
3. You are a villain and I am a villain.
Since the other party is willing to be a villain, then you might as well be a villain and let him know that you are not easy to bully, and there is a price to pay for calculation.
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The most ruthless way to deal with villains is to learn to protect yourself and take positive measures. Here are some suggestions:
1.Protect yourself: When dealing with villains, protect your personal privacy and interests, and don't easily divulge your information and weaknesses.
2.Take precautions: If you know someone is a small person, then you can take some precautions such as avoiding working with them, reducing contact with them, and so on.
3.Don't trust them easily: Villains often use the trust of others to achieve their own ends, so don't take their word for it easily and be vigilant.
4.Collect evidence: Suiki: If the villain wants to frame you, they will create some false evidence or rumors. Therefore, it is important to gather as much evidence as possible to prove your innocence.
5.Don't argue with them: Villains may constantly attack you or spread rumors, but don't argue or get into arguments with them. Stay as calm and sane as possible and take appropriate measures to respond.
6.Seek help: If the villain has caused substantial harm or threat to you, you can seek legal or other help to protect your rights and interests.
In short, the most ruthless way to deal with villains is to take positive measures to protect yourself, and to be vigilant and not to believe their words easily. At the same time, seek help to protect your rights and interests.
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When the villain talks to you, you have to be calm, don't be provoked, and don't scold the villain, just like that, listen to the villain's words without slander, without refutation, like a gourd, no matter how much he has the ability to take you.
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Be patient with villains, and be able to pretend to be stupid, and pay off once the opportunity comes.
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Ignore him so that he will not find the slightest presence in you.
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Try it with your trick of being nice to him, and openly explain that some of the interests related to him have nothing to do with me! I don't participate, and then, keep a relationship that is not far away, chat more, of course it's irrelevant content, it's just a villain, why bother to be the same as him?
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Tell him one thing: If you don't want anyone to know, you can't do it unless you do. He began to panic himself, let him abuse himself.
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Give someone a taste of their own medicine.
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The natural environment, the earth, the cold water, the air.
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Of course, it's a matter of fear of weakness.
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