The girl who used to be interested in me rejected me, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-18
3 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Find someone better than her.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I still feel that I broke down chasing another girl with you, and now I go back to chasing her, she may feel that your "spare tire" feeling is also easy to appear, no matter what, let others say that she has been waiting for you to chase her. You still have to keep pushing hard, you tell her what you really think, know what you have in mind, and it should be simple.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Summary. There should be a little attraction and buffer between people.

    I was rejected by the girl, and I didn't know for several reasons, whether I should ask her for an answer.

    Hello, see your situation. Can I get an idea of what questions you want to ask her and what answers you get?

    I have never been able to figure out the three questions that have plagued me from the first to the present, can you answer them for me?

    First, you used to say that I didn't dare to enter the place where you worked, and I always stood stupidly outside, and I got a tendon, and I went in behind, but it was okay not to go in, and I got rejected a few times when I went in, which is the reason.

    Second, I want to ask you, whether it is now or in the future, no matter how much I make more changes, is it true that I don't have a chance at all, third, there is always a reason not to like it, you never said, can you talk about it today, on these three questions, I really want to know, I hope you can answer them, so that I know how to do it,, these three questions.

    Especially the first one, when I didn't go into her store before, she said that I was standing stupidly outside, and she wouldn't be embarrassed about what I was afraid of.

    Did you have a bad relationship later, when you entered the store.

    When you have a good relationship, it's easy to say anything, is it that the relationship is not good later, she annoys you.

    It's not a bad relationship, I used to send milk tea and didn't go in and asked him to come out to get it, she would come out, and then I asked her what she thought of me, and she said it was like sending milk tea, and she said that I wouldn't dare to go in if I didn't come out, what is this, I'm not afraid of what you're afraid of, who doesn't have a friend of the opposite sex, and I always come back after I bring it in, and I inexplicably say don't send it next time, I don't have it if I don't go in before, I really don't understand, this time it's even more dead, and I send it directly in the afternoon, I came back and got don't buy it next time, and in the evening, because I sent her a text, she thought it was a confession and rejected me, telling me not to send anything next time, so embarrassing.

    It's really embarrassing.

    I don't think she values you very much.

    You should like her more, right?

    What's going on with you?

    That's right, now she has also refused, I am very unwilling, I have paid so much, I was indeed poured a basin of cold water by her, I didn't directly refuse her before, I didn't ask her, should I ask her now.

    I think if you ask her, maybe it will be embarrassing again.

    If she cared about you, she wouldn't do that to you.

    Keep your posture low.

    I think it's better for you to ignore her and see if she will come to you.

    What is too easy to get is not easy to cherish.

    Definitely not, or he wouldn't have rejected me.

    Not necessarily, but to get along with people with a little bit of attraction and buffer.

    It can't be too tight, and it can't be too loose.

    It's a bit stiff between you now, so you let the relationship cool down.

    After a while, invite her out to dinner.

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