I don t really know what to do anymore. I hope someone who understands feelings can help me

Everything was arranged for the best.

Separate, why is it so tormented.

If you really love each other, no matter how big the grievance is, you should endure it. As the saying goes, 'If you lose your horse, you won't know if you're blessed', and maybe after surviving this period, she will have a big change. Or maybe you'll meet a better girl who deserves more love from you.

Like you said, before you get along with someone else, you should also be hurt for love. Maybe you can meet true love in the future? The Buddha said:

Whoever you meet on the road and who you follow, who you go on a blind date with and who you turn against each other, they are all fate, and you can't struggle. Everything is arranged by fate, probably you just need to calm down for a while, and God will give you a good answer. Believe me, even though I'm only in my 10s, I've seen a lot of similar incidents.

Many people should commit suicide because their love is troubled, this is not the solution. If you are a man, you should face it! Afraid of what?

Have confidence in yourself, there is no grass at the end of the world. Maybe it's not yours, and you'll never get it. Open your mind and look at the outside world, and you will have unexpected gains.

Love needs a material foundation. You'd better be busy with your own work and future first... You see the reality, too.

It's not that she has changed, and if you stay with an unambitious man like you for a long time, no matter how good a woman is, she will want to leave you. Haven't you ever thought about working hard to make money? Although it is said that money cannot be used to measure feelings, but if there is no money in this society, you will have nothing.

As a man, you have to know how to be responsible for your own women. Now go out and get a job!

1. It seems that the truth is not as simple as you say, otherwise no matter how low EQ people are, they can't "go back three times"!

2. You are aware of your willfulness and have made positive changes, but your changes don't seem to have made him realize or he thinks it's not enough, you hope to get his approval, but do you confirm that what you change is what he needs?

3. You said that he has low emotional intelligence, and I have some doubts about your conclusion. I don't know how much the age gap between the two of you is, it seems that you may be over 5 years old, if so, this is not an emotional intelligence problem, it is a generation gap, you can't understand his behavior, and at the same time he also has objections to some of your behaviors, which leads to your poor communication. He analyzes your behavior through experience, while you deal with problems through certain preferences, there is an essential difference;

4. I admire you very much for doing housework, there are not many girls who take the initiative to do housework nowadays, you are a member of this minority, I salute you.

5. If you really like him, love him, and he doesn't coax you, you will forgive him. In fact, men are a little romantic, but everyone's way is different, and he is the kind of low-key romance, and it is also the most simple kind of romance;

6. You want to have a self and solve the problem in your way, but have you ever considered what kind of results may occur if you solve the problem in your way, how you will solve it if you have this result, whether you can solve it, his way is worse than your way, and it is good that you have considered it?

I wish you an early marriage!

If the truth is as you describe, then there is no need to keep this man. He doesn't cherish your kindness to him, and he still plays missing. Don't!

I don't think the two of you are suitable, first of all, your personality is not suitable.

What do you mean I don't like you anymore? You mean she likes you? If it's me, I'll go straight to confession, and if it succeeds, the above problems don't exist, and if it doesn't, the above problems are solved.

She likes you but wants you to take the initiative, she wants to save face.

Split your head and cover your face to call you, don't go to school well, and help you, help the dog eat!

Look at the current attitude, isn't it?

Emotional problems are something that everyone in a relationship encounters. If it is not handled well, it can affect the relationship and even lead to emotional breakdown. So how to deal with emotional problems? Let's take a look.

How to deal with relationship problems? Look at these six methods to solve it.

1. Change the way you think.

Human beings are not saints, who can do no wrong? Besides, many are because of the little things in life, don't let the details defeat our love, defeat our marriage, have more understanding and comfort for our lover, and our marriage will get closer and closer to happiness.

2. Deal with problems rationally.

Maintaining one's emotions and staying calm is the most important way to deal with a crisis. Even if your feelings are irretrievable, even if you see the worst, learn to deal with the problem rationally so that things don't get worse.

3. Learn to say sorry.

How to deal with relationship problems? If you do something wrong, you should apologize to the other person. Sincerely apologize for what you did wrong. He must be able to tell if you are telling the truth or being angry. So, if the blame is on you, be brave enough to say sorry.

How to deal with relationship problems? Look at these six methods to solve it.

Fourth, enhance the freshness of getting along.

Husbands and wives have been together for a long time, and aesthetic fatigue will naturally occur, so we should play some small tricks from time to time to enhance each other's freshness, so as not to start to get tired of each other. Moreover, couples whose feelings are more likely to go downhill should pay more attention to constantly injecting fresh elements into their feelings, so as to effectively increase the freshness of getting along with each other, so as to better cope with the emotional crisis.

5. Increase shared memory.

Knowing how to solve emotional problems, but also knowing how to create shared memories, because common memories can make each other feel full of joy when they think of their lover, and then unconsciously raise the corners of their mouths, and all they think about is the time spent with their lover, and the advantage of increasing shared memories is that it allows you to experience more of the fun that life brings because of each other.

6. Control your emotions.

When there is a problem in the relationship between two people, both people must control their emotions, even if each other's feelings are irretrievable, even if they encounter the worst situation, they must learn to deal with the problem rationally and avoid things getting worse. When you are not calm, make a decision that you may regret.

What about it, can you tell me?

You have to make your first position clear, you are his current boyfriend, the one who is out of luck.

Next, what you should think about is not whether your girlfriend rejected him outright, but to see your second position clearly, your girlfriend is still by your side now! In other words, your girlfriend didn't propose to break up with you, right? Then you are the one who has the initiative!

Now I'm going to tell you about the stakes and methods during the period:

First, ex-boyfriends generally come back to find their old girlfriends by digging up the good memories they once had between them, so as to remind your girlfriend of some of their good memories and let your girlfriend start to reminisce.

Second, ex-boyfriends generally know a lot about your girlfriend, of course, why they broke up in the first place, which is where the gap in their relationship chain breaks.

Thirdly, girlfriends generally hate to be entangled in the jealous war between the old boyfriend and the new boyfriend, you have to be more considerate of your girlfriend, you have to remember that if she breaks up with his ex-boyfriend, it means that they don't get along! The fact that she's with you now shows that you're compatible with him! So don't be afraid of him!

So all you have to do is:

First, believe in your girlfriend, tell her that you believe in her, believe that she loves you, and don't put any pressure on her!

Second, take your girlfriend out more often to create some new memories between you and your girlfriend, which is good for preventing your ex-boyfriend from recalling your girlfriend's memories.

Third, grab the point where your girlfriend and ex-boyfriend broke up and fight this battle well! The reason why her ex-boyfriend broke up, you must not commit! For example:

If they break up because the man is not considerate enough or doesn't care enough about the details between them, then you have to be considerate enough to care about every sweet detail of spending time with your girlfriend. Not only will this get you points, but it will also inadvertently remind your girlfriend what kind of person her ex-boyfriend is!!

I understand your girlfriend very well, and it proves that your girlfriend is not a ruthless and unrighteous person, it doesn't matter, in fact, there is no need to make everyone look like strangers when you break up, as long as your relationship is good, and your girlfriend is firm, I think there is no problem.

Of course, it's okay to get in touch, you can still be friends after a breakup, maybe your girlfriend has already regarded others as friends, you think too much.

You can ask your girlfriend directly, and if she truly loves you, she will tell you why they are in contact. The second is to wait and see, when your girlfriend fights with him, you sit silently on the side, believing your girlfriend. To be a man, you have to look like a man, don't have a small belly, maybe your girlfriend only thinks of him as an ordinary friend.

Maybe you don't like to hear what I say, but I'm telling the truth. It's not easy to use the phone party code word either, so be it.

Then you have to tell him well that if he still has that person in his heart, I advise you to give up, man, there is something to be afraid of.

Ask her why she is still in contact.

If she is vague and wants to have an affair, break up with her directly.

You just talk to her about it and you tell her you're going to be jealous! Your girlfriend will tell you what she thinks! But you can't always be jealous....Otherwise it won't work.

If you want to change the status quo, you have to make yourself better.

People should set goals before acting, and on the premise of our physical and mental health, try to learn more, think more, understand more, and do more.

If you don't have the following state when you're in love, it's not suitable for marriage, or break up completely.

If the deeply loved each other is in the following state before marriage, they will be happier after marriage.

01.Emotional to each other, but not fascinated.

02.They are affectionate to each other, but they are not merciful everywhere.

03.Attached to each other, but not like glue.

04.Respect each other, but don't treat each other like guests.

05.Be tolerant of each other, but don't compromise on everything.

06.Be honest with each other, but don't dig out your heart.

07.Confide in each other, but not chatter.

08.We care about each other, but we don't care about each other.

09.Bear responsibility for each other, but not everything.

10.Joke with each other, but don't hurt each other.

A little advice for you:

Go shopping at the blind date conference, get together for social activities, find out for marriage, and chat in the marriage group.

If the flowers are in full bloom, if the bees come, if the people are wonderful, the right lover will appear, and if you fall in love with someone, you will love deeply.

The ex will never date again, friends of the opposite sex will have less contact, love only for a long time, and love each other for a lifetime.

The person who loves you won't leave, and you can't keep the person who wants to leave, so take it from the heart.

Find out why, figure out yourself! Don't beat yourself up!