I love my boyfriend but don t want to marry him

Pressures from reality and perceptions from your family, coupled with your own subjective thoughts, are the key to preventing you from having this idea. Your situation is common now. You love him, but the pressures from yourself, your family, and reality put you in a dilemma.

I hope you calmly think about how important he is in your heart, and whether you can leave him to live a happy life in the future. Make a decision before you weigh it.

I read it in another book, saying that this is because the time, tacit understanding, understanding, and frustration of two people together again are not enough, and you don't want to get married now may be subconsciously feeling that you are still too young, have a lot to do, and don't want to be dragged down by marriage. Maybe one day you suddenly find that you are tired and want to rest, and that is the time to enter the palace of marriage.

Whether you love someone or not, you can't ask others.

You really love him.

But you don't distinguish between loving someone and getting married.

The person you marry isn't necessarily the one you love the most.

But it must be the most responsible and know you best.

Maybe you are under pressure in many aspects of life, relationship, work, and don't want to get married so soon.

You tell him what you think, young people are not in a hurry to get married, and they are thinking about getting married after having their own careers.

It's good for everyone.

Of course love, but you don't understand marriage from the heart. The current phenomenon is a kind of resistance, right?

Let him give you some time, and maybe see a psychiatrist.

Marriage is the grave of love, and if you don't get married, love will die without a place to bury.

Are love and marriage two different things?

There may be many reasons, such as interests, or because he is old, so he randomly finds someone to marry and deal with the family. <>

In today's society, it can be said that money is paramount. If we don't have money, we will become unable to move an inch, and money often becomes the standard for evaluating a person's ability, and even some people completely lose their self and life direction in front of money. As a woman, if a man chooses to marry you and he doesn't really love you, it means that the man may be intentional.

A man may feel that you have a prominent family background, and if he marries you, he will get a lot of substantial benefits. Such a marriage will only bring great pain to women, so women should stay away from such men as soon as possible! <>

Everyone wants a harmonious family, especially men. He felt that he could handle the relationship with his parents well and be filial to his parents. This woman wins the favor of her parents, whom she marries.

So even if you don't love her, you will consider your parents' feelings. Because I like this girl, I chose to marry her home. In fact, this kind of love is really forcing itself, and there will be no happiness in the future.

Finally, some men have delayed lifelong events because of poor economic conditions or for their careers, resulting in getting older and older, but they are still alone. At this time, in the face of the gossip of relatives and friends, and the anxious eyes of his parents, he randomly found someone to marry. After marriage, I also have a makeshift attitude, just make do with it.

If one day a woman understands that you are marrying for the sake of getting married, then she will also choose to end this relationshipless marriage. Marriage requires two people to love each other. If you don't love each other, but you choose to get married, and you have to settle for it, then sooner or later something will go wrong in such a family, causing you to part ways.

So whether it's a man or a woman, when choosing to get married, please take love as the premise.

It may be that the other party is still thinking about the other party's ex or the forced marriage in the first love's family before marrying him, and he feels that he is particularly suitable. But there is no such thing as affection and love.

Your boyfriend wants to give you an explanation, hoping to cultivate a relationship with you in the future marriage, and wants to be responsible for you, but you should calm down and talk to your boyfriend carefully to know what he really thinks in his heart.

I think it's probably because he thinks the two of you are more suitable and wants to get married, so he chose to marry you.

Introduction: In fact, when everyone is looking for their other half, the purpose is different, some people just want to fall in love, want to relieve their loneliness, and some people just go with the purpose of marriage, in order to complete the task given to them by their parents. My boyfriend wants to marry me, but I don't want to fall in love with me, what should I do at this time?

In fact, it is very necessary to fall in love before getting married, so that you can better understand each other's personalities and be able to communicate better, so as to avoid being in a disadvantageous position after marriage. Therefore, if the boyfriend wants to marry him, but he doesn't want to fall in love with him, it means that the boyfriend has family pressure, and in this case, there will be a situation where he wants to get married and doesn't want to fall in love, in order to complete the task of his parents. In such a situation, if you say that you are still willing to obey your boyfriend, it means that it is difficult to disobey your boyfriend in your daily life.

And after getting married, it will also bring a series of problems, so you must pay attention in daily life, if your boyfriend just wants to get married and doesn't want to fall in love, then you must avoid it. This shows that the boyfriend is not willing to pay, and he can't bear the time and money cost of love at all, and there is no need for such a boyfriend to stick to it.

If two people have been in love for a while and feel that it is quite suitable and want to get married, but don't think that the relationship between the two people is good in the process of falling in love, and the relationship will be good when they get married. Therefore, it is necessary to live together for a period of time before getting married, and this period of cohabitation does not mean to experience married life.

Instead, in the process of cohabitation, it is better to inspect each other, observe each other, understand the living habits of two people, and whether there is a big difference, so as to make a series of preparations for marriage. If you don't have the experience of cohabitation, you may find that there is a big change after getting married, and everyone's personality is disguised, wouldn't it be miserable, so it is very necessary to live together before marriage.

You should choose to tell your boyfriend that only after falling in love first, the two will get married, and if he can't accept it, the two of them won't get along again.

In such a situation, I think you should communicate with the other party, and then you should also discuss the matter of marriage, so that the two of you can have a better future.

In such a situation, I think you should communicate with the other party, and then you should also let the other party express your true thoughts and make a decision carefully.

If you want to get married, then you should get married, and respect your inner thoughts.