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I only saw the two of you arguing, and I don't know why you were arguing. There is no reason and process, and I dare not draw arbitrary conclusions.
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It doesn't matter what others say, the key is to correct your own mentality. People who believe in themselves and are self-confident are the best people.
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You need to sit down and communicate.
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Two people want to be together, communication is very important, count each other, attack each other, this will hurt the feelings, maybe I can't see it now, but after a long time, this sequelae will manifest itself, we don't do or say things and words that hurt each other, this is really important, I think you should think about it.
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To put it bluntly, your fiancée doesn't like a boy like you, because you are not mature enough, she wants to find a mature and stable boy, whether you talk or do things, it doesn't seem to matter, your girlfriend doesn't like such a boy, your girlfriend likes boys to speak manly, not a man or a woman.
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It seems that I think your fiancée is right, you are the kind of person she said, why don't you recognize yourself? Do you want to lose her? What's so hard to admit your mistake Look less at that kind of poisonous chicken soup, the days are for two people.
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In fact, from my personal point of view, including whether your three views are compatible? I found that your three views are counting each other down, not to solve the root cause of the real problem, you scold each other like this, you will only make yourself more and more misunderstand each other, more and more unable to find a reason to be together, so that the three views are more and more distant from each other.
Don't forget, what is the meaning of real communication, I hope mine can help you? It's to solve problems, not quarrels, and if you quarrel like this as soon as you communicate, it's true that your three views will get farther and farther away.
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Chicken soup for the soul can't drink too much, drink too much, it's poisonous, people must have their own values, and they can't say what others say.
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Only by judging things can we show our true character as a hero.
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We only see your conversations, and you don't know what's going on. The words on this ** are also a little deformed, and I can't read it clearly. Therefore, we can't judge whether you are a person who does not distinguish between right and wrong, and has incorrect views. I'm afraid what he said in anger doesn't count.
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Since everyone's three views are more or less different, and the standard of judging positive and uncorrect is also difficult to decide, from the basic standard of "three views are not correct" that the public has some agreement, the so-called performance of the three views should be:
1. Outlook on life.
Every day is muddy, getting by, not pursuing things, whether it is study or work is not serious, scribbling, this is irresponsible to oneself and to others. Such people tend to have a very contradictory outlook on life.
2. Values.
Only plan for yourself, only look out for your own interests. Disregard for the interests of others, the collective, the state and society. There are often selfishness, self-interest, self-interest, damage to the public and private interests, etc.
3. Worldview.
Some people will feel that the world is dark and dirty, and they have deep malice towards the world; Some people will be too naïve, thinking that the world is full of good and beautiful, which some people may not recognize, but this kind of too naïve idea can be regarded as a three-view misconception, but it is another kind of injustice, after all, there is evil and good in the world, and you can't feel that the world is too ugly, and you can't be too kind.
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One: outlook on life, the concept of life. The manifestations of impropriety include the feeling that human life is meaningless and purely wasteful; There are also people who have not thought about such issues in life at all, which may not be wrong, but this kind of person often has a very contradictory outlook on life because they have not thought it through.
Two: values, the concept of looking at people. It is manifested in prejudices and misconceptions such as thinking that it is okay to disrespect people, that it doesn't matter if you are impolite to people, that women are humble, that men are lustful, that the elderly are relying on the old and selling the old, and that children are brainless.
Three: worldview, view of the world. The manifestation is that some people will feel that the world is dark and dirty, and they have deep malice towards the world; Some people will be too naïve, thinking that the world is full of good and beautiful, which some people may not recognize, but this kind of too naïve idea can be regarded as a three-view misconception, but it is another kind of injustice, after all, there is evil and good in the world, and you can't feel that the world is too ugly, and you can't be too kind.
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The three views are not correct is not to distinguish between black and white, right and wrong, the whole three views are distorted, the view of the world is not the correct view, there is no concept of their own life value, the specific manifestation is: every day is muddy, get by, there is no pursuit of things, whether it is study or work is not serious, scribbled.
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Constantly quarreling, a little difference of opinion, began to argue, do not give in to each other, feel speechless, this kind of person is unreasonable, he can not communicate, feel very tired, the thought pressure is high, life is not interesting, live a dark day, tired, depressed.
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The usual performance of a person with three wrong views is selfishness, no collective consciousness, no pursuit of life, one day at a time, no moral bottom line, harming others and benefiting oneself, and his life value is the pursuit of enjoyment.
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likes to gossip about others behind their backs, likes to take advantage, has no sense of responsibility, and shirks the blame.
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No pursuit, no goal, no planning, not positive enough work, negative thinking, these manifestations.
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No sense of responsibility, cynicism, no own principles and bottom line.
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What is different from oneself is not right.
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That is to say, you are unreasonable and don't know how to be patient.
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Three views is one of the new words announced by the Ministry of Education, which refers to the outlook on life, world outlook and values. Once these three views are not correct, it will lead to people being unreasonable when encountering things, and there will be no accurate standards for judging right and wrong, and they will go astray.
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Generally speaking, the three views refer to the world view, values, and outlook on life.
A worldview, also known as a cosmology, is a simple form of philosophy. A worldview is a general and fundamental view of the world as a whole. Due to people's different social status, they have different perspectives on problems, and they form different world views.
It is also called cosmology. Philosophy is its theoretical manifestation. The basic problem of world view is the question of the relationship between spirit and matter, thinking and being, and according to the different answers to the relationship between the two, it is divided into two basic types of world view that are fundamentally opposed, that is, the idealistic world view and the materialist world view.
The outlook on life refers to the view of life, that is, the view of the purpose, value and meaning of human existence. The outlook on life is determined by the worldview. The outlook on life is the ideology of a certain society or class, and the product of a certain social and historical conditions and social relations.
The formation of people's outlook on life is gradually produced and developed in the course of people's actual life, and is constrained by people's world outlook. People from different societies or classes have different outlooks on life.
Values refer to the general and fundamental views on the value of things formed by people on the basis of understanding the value of various specific things. On the one hand, it is manifested as value orientation and value pursuit, which is condensed into a certain value goalOn the other hand, it is manifested as a value scale and criterion, which has become an evaluation standard for people to judge whether something of value has value and how much value it is. Once an individual's values are established, they are relatively stable.
However, as far as society and groups are concerned, due to the turnover of personnel and changes in the environment, the values of society or groups are constantly changing. Traditional values are constantly being challenged by new values. The order in which the views and evaluations of things are prioritized and prioritized in the mind constitute a value system.
Values and value systems are the psychological basis that determines human behavior.
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"Three views"Specifically, it includes: world view, outlook on life, and values.
It violates the most universal truth, goodness and beauty and the most basic moral and legal norms, and does not distinguish between right and wrong, and is based on three views that are not right.
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The "three wrong views" refer to the serious corruption brought about in society. "Three Views Are Not Correct" is one of the 171 new Chinese words announced by the Ministry of Education in August 2007. The "three views" specifically include: world outlook, outlook on life, and values.
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Distinction between right and wrong means: not being able to distinguish between right and wrong. "Yes" refers to what is right, and "no" refers to what is wrong.
When your girlfriend says you can't tell the difference between right and wrong, it means that she thinks you are wrong about something.
Think carefully about whether you really don't think it through, and then explain it to your girlfriend.
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In fact, you don't have to say this anymore, you care, in the air, you can say anything, he said that what you mean may be, good or bad, in fact, it's nothing, it's all about words, the main thing is that you both have each other and it's okay, I wish you happiness.
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It shows that your girlfriend has an opinion about you, and it also shows that you can't tell who is good and who is good to you, and you don't know how to cherish it.
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When your girlfriend says that you are a person who does not distinguish between right and wrong, it may mean that you have some truth that you don't understand, or you don't understand it from the bottom of your heart! Your girlfriend wants you to go outside to develop well, and she doesn't want to drag you down, she wants you to have a better future and a better career, although you are in a different place, she misses you very much, but he doesn't want this distance to be a drag on you.
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It shows that your head usually doesn't turn around, you run to the dark one by one, use your brain more, and your girlfriend will like you.
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That is, you can't figure out who is good and who is bad.
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These people never know how to think about the victim, and their irresponsible remarks may bring indelible pain to the victim, and they are the most hurtful, equivalent to the accomplice of the perpetrator.
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These people are often self-righteous, high-eyed, and confused when they encounter problems, and they are generally people who love to drill the horns, don't waste their tongues with them, don't be asked to think the same as they do, as long as you stick to what you think is right.
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These people have changed the values of society as a whole and the judgment of people, and these people should be morally condemned.
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On the one hand, in order to attract attention, he will not be able to turn black and white upside down, and on the other hand, he will release the signal of uneasy elements and talk nonsense with a clear conscience.
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This kind of person is the so-called keyboard warrior, they are a kind of spectator mentality, completely reckless, without thinking about the consequences to say these words, they are also a kind of brainless embodiment.
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This kind of person himself is a typical person who does not help his relatives, and he is even more hateful than the person who causes harm.
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This kind of person is too common in life, just like a celebrity has a scandal on the Internet, and the celebrity does not reply on the Internet, there are always so many people who start to spray on the Internet without figuring it out, this kind of behavior is really irresponsible and vexatious.
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These people are standing in a one-sided perspective to accuse the victim of defending the perpetrator, they ignore the truth of the facts, and speaking for the perpetrator is a manifestation of the wrong view.
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There is nothing wrong with them, but everyone's concept is different, and the position they stand on is different from the position they stand, which can only be said to be a different view.
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Such a person has no conscience, no sense of justice, and he is a master who falls with the wind.
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Now there are a lot of keyboard warriors on the Internet, and many Internet trolls who only see one-sided. They don't care about the influence of their own language, and they don't have the basic ability to discern things. Because they are punished according to the law.
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It can only show that they don't know what to do, and they are sold by others and help others count the money.
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I think it's because of those people that there are so many contradictions.
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I don't think they know what is right and wrong, and they just don't understand the situation and talk nonsense there.
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Those who speak for the perpetrators need to remember to stay away from them, because lightning strikes you when it falls.
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The three views represent the outlook on life, values, and worldview. You have deceived others and have incomplete views, you must first consider yourself, whether you have achieved a positive three views.
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The three views refer to the outlook on life, values, and the worldview, and people who have incomplete three views are generally very sad.
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The three views should be that their own cognition is not comprehensive, and people who often say that others are not right may be jealous that others are better off than him and better than him.
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I think the three views are a correct and in line with my own ideas. Those who say that other people's three views are not correct is to give others the hat of three views that are not correct because they have different ideas, they may want to show others the three views that they think are correct through this method, or they want to change other people's thoughts through criticism, that kind of person can express his own thoughts, and he can also have those who want to change other people's ideas, but try not to criticize others.
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The three views generally refer to the world view, values, and outlook on life. "Three positive views" also means that the world view, values, and outlook on life are accepted and recognized by the public. Now it is also generally extended to correct thinking and perfect thinking and understanding system. But others are not qualified to judge others.
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Generally speaking, the three views refer to the world view, values, and outlook on life. Saying that others are unreliable, that there is a problem with life attitude, and that it is alternative, but this kind of talent is not right.
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refers to his own views on the three points, talking about the three views seems to be more high-end and atmospheric, after all, the way of scolding others is not as obscene as saying all kinds of swearing, and once he puts such a hat on others, it is difficult for him to refute it.
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