My father was in prison, my mother left me, and I hadn t seen my mother for 15 years

If it's convenient, it's better to go down. First of all, what mother in the world does not care about her children. I haven't seen her for 15 years, and only your mother knows the bitterness during this period, and I can't help but hope to get your understanding, and now I want you to see her, maybe it's a need for emotional compensation.

Don't think too much about it, kid, go see me. Which is your mother? Not to mention anything else, the pain of pregnancy in October, the pain of death during childbirth, without a mother, there is no us...

I think it's still necessary to take a look, because go there to see what her attitude is, if there is no guilt, it means that he has no regrets about leaving you at that time, and there is no need for such a mother to worry about her. If he feels guilty about it, it means that he still treats you as his child and misses you, so why don't he go back?

Besides, you are his child, he has the responsibility to raise you, for 15 years, he has not fulfilled a little of his mother's due responsibility, so that you have never experienced maternal love, shouldn't he compensate you?

Wait and go, you can be sure it's really your mom to go again, be careful this year.

If you don't hate your mom anymore, then you can check it out. If you still hate him in your heart, it's best not to go, lest your grandparents get angry.

Let's take a look: There is no mother who does not love her children, even if there is a blank period of 15 years, indifferent mothers will always love their children.

I think you should go, after all, she's talking about it, it's your mother, right?

If you love your grandparents more, don't go.

Did your mother give you living expenses (lump sum or regular payments) when you were 8-15 years old?

This is a provision of our country's marriage law - the change of ownership of child support. After the parents divorce, under certain conditions, they may be changed in accordance with law according to the actual circumstances of both parents or the children. There are two forms of change in the ownership of custody:

The first is the change of the agreement between the two parties. Where both parents agree to change the child support relationship, it shall be allowed as long as it is conducive to the child's physical and mental health and protects the child's lawful rights and interests; The second is that one party requests a change. Where one party requests a change in the child support relationship, it shall be supported in any of the following circumstances.

1) The parent living with the child is unable to continue to raise the child due to serious illness or disability; (2) The party living with the child does not fulfill the obligation to support the child or abuses the child, or the party living with the child has a negative impact on the child's physical and mental health; (3) Minor children over the age of 10 who are willing to live with another party and who has the ability to support them; (4) There are other legitimate reasons for the change. Where both parents agree to change the child support relationship, it shall be permitted. In addition, if both parties refuse to raise the children during the divorce proceedings, a ruling may be made in advance that one party shall temporarily raise the children.

It can be seen from this article that "minor children over the age of 10 are willing to live with the other party, and the other party has the ability to support them", it can be seen that you still have the opportunity to choose to live with your mother.